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Episode 27: Nazis
0:13 – Today we’re obviously talking about Nazis
2:49 – “Unite the Right” Rally – just the facts
6:14 – White men: What’s being taken from you?
7:48 – History has already been revised to erase women, the abuse of women, people of color…
9:52 – But, it’s 2017, discrimination isn’t a thing, right?
12:04 – We are living in a time in America where racism has this new permission to breathe
17:12 – Messy politics + a bad earpiece [insert eye roll]
20:11 – If you still don’t understand white supremacy…
24:08 – A message to white people (& DISCLAIMER)
29:04 – I keep fucking up and saying the wrong shit + feeling defensive
35:08 – Silence is complicity + What to do when you don’t have words
39:09 – Where are we as white women?
40:06 – It’s time to start doing work that’s important
43:15 – If I find a funny meme, and you are at a funeral…
45:05 – You aren’t excused from the conversation
FOR YOUR CONSIDERATION: Ten Ways White People Can Stop Annoying People of Color on Social Media
46:51 – Erin Brown represents all white people
47:30 – Why can’t we say, “I don’t see color?”
53:47 – GOOGLE IT
56:05 – Want to take action, but not sure what to do or how to speak up? Use your DOLLARS! DONATE!
Donations:
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References:
wearyourvoicemag.com
Huffington Post Women
Huffington Post Black Voices
Google.com
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Episode 26 : Gossip Girl
0:56 – Jen Sinkler and Power Clashing
6:10 – ALL THE TYPES OF GOSSIP
7:41 – Repositioning ourselves in the conversation of gossip – AND holding ourselves accountable
12:04 – Venting and not creating positive experiences for yourself
14:43 – Pop culture gossip = A OK
16:22 – Gossip as small talk (and we DESPISE small talk)
20:17 – Feeling triggered?
21:46 – Salon Gossip Pact
22:44 – It’s time to unpack: WHY do I feel the need to gossip?
26:38 – Venting cut off + Stepping into a new space
30:55 – Giving people passes for their behavior vs. setting boundaries
34:23 – “…I want to punch you in the face.”
36:12 – The bottom line
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Episode 25 : Self-Presentation
00:32 – Videos of myself…with myself
2:00 – Privacy when littles are constantly playing with our phones
2:57 – Intro to this week’s subject
6:16 – Policing our kids’ clothing – especially girls
11:48 – How I see kids expressing themselves now + How community perpetuates self-expression
14:35 – As a woman, you can either be sexual OR you can be intellectual…
18:21 – Being comfortable in what you choose vs. being comfortable in what your peers choose – and the freedom to make that choice
22:55 – Self-reflection on judgment, triggers, and beliefs
24:50 – What I wish more men were upset about…
27:44 – “We don’t respect you and you’re not safe” – CULTURE
29:19 – There is no outfit that will communicate exactly who you are
33:58 – That’s not appropriate for children…
37:47 – Underbutt + judgment
41:48 – Moving forward thoughtfully…
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Episode 24 : The Lie of Having Your Shit Together
0:57 – There’s a LOT of pressure for millennials today
1:35 – I feel so fortunate that social media wasn’t a part of my younger life
3:08 – What we were doing in our early twenties
7:43 – The most important thing Neg learned in her 20s
9:54 – For the first time the other day, I reflected back on college and realized I love the woman I was
13:24 – How I feel like I have my shit together
20:32 – Perfectionist society and choosing your own priorities
23:24 – Stop auditioning for relationships + Hustling for worthiness
29:30 – Getting over it
32:23 – Unpacking, authenticity, and honest relationships
34:48 – It’s OK to be vulnerable
37:36 - Whatever you do, someone is going to make fun of you
42:13 – It was like reading a whole different book
44:15 – Tools we would recommend
44:30 – Finding people through social media that resonate with you, not what you think you should be doing
45:21 – Connections vs. comparison
47:00 – There’s not really an “all together”
48:43 – “Is this gonna be FOREVER??”
51:45 – Doing our best
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Episode 23 – Body Hair!
0:46 – Neg’s body hair removal inner dialogue
2:37 – The why and how of body hair removal – a history
6:54 – Make yourself slippery and then no one will attack you
8:47 – “Who wears short shorts?”
10:48 – How marketing plays into female hair removal
12:52 – “Lady Pens”
13:20 – So, Neg, what’s YOUR body hair sitch?
“I’m not embarrassed or ashamed of it, and I don’t keep myself from showing up because of it, but I do like removing it.” Neg
16:58 – Erin’s body hair sitch – and making sure its removal is for her
19:52 – No more with, “I’m OCD,” unless you have that.
20:35 – On the topic of not wearing underwear
23:06 – A woman is supposed to look like whatever the fuck she looks like
25:34 – It doesn’t make you less of a feminist if you shave your legs
26:26 – I’m just excited, because I didn’t know I was trash. And now I am.
28:12 – We get to decide for ourselves what is classy or elegant or attractive…and if we give a fuck about any of those things
30:00 – If you remove it, more power to you. If you have it…
31:23 – Who only shaves when they shower, and who makes a ritual out of it
34:33 – You do NOT have to suffer!
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Episode 22: Second Listener Q&A
0:20 – Neg’s Nipples
1:00 – Choices for decorating our faces: does it leave us more or less empowered?
4:30 – How do I know if changing my physical appearance is for me and not for someone else?
6:55 – You don’t have to show up bared faced on social media to be authentic
8:21 – Neg’s Nails
10:34 – Your opinion of me and how I dress, decorate, etc. is your problem
15:16 – Anybody know where I can get a swimsuit in my size to have my butt out in?
16:30 – On to listener questions…
16:50 – What are the consequences of a woman having sex because she feels obligated to, and just because she wants it to be over?
20:14 – Nothing prevents cheating, except for…
“Your role as a woman is whatever the fuck you decide your role as a woman is.” – Neghar Fonooni
25:16 – Tarot: where do I begin?
39:35 – Any advice on showing up vulnerably and powerfully in the workplace?
42:24 – “I love everything Neghar said, but it looks like she forgot her pants.” Say WHATTTTT?
53:50 – “You GUYS”
Resources:
Learning the Tarot – book by Joan Bunning
Holistic Tarot – basically tarot bible
Google: “witch store”
Shopeverydaymagic.com
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Episode 21: What the FUCK is happening right now?
**Erin isn’t often at a loss for words…so this episode is monumental for SO MANY REASONS**
1:27 – Philando Castile verdict – also, not an isolated issue
7:23 – When someone dies in an every-day restraint scenario, EVERY fucking thing changes
9:20 – It’s not even a police officer’s job to execute a dangerous criminal
11:05 – Obviously there are great police officers
12:21 – When I see police officers, I think, “Am I fucking something up?”
13:12 – Dear White People + being treated differently on a regular basis
16:00 – Jordan Peele’s Get Out
17:04 – Colin Kaepernick’s movement – Know Your Rights
18:30 – I don’t know how to correct for a legitimate fear that is based in racism
22:41 – What are we going to demand for our own communities around this?
24:23 – In HAPPY news, Beyonce had a couple of babies + how she handles drama!
28:48 – Back to bad news – NC says you can NOT revoke consent once it is given…
34:14 – This is where we are at in America today
34:56 – What the HELL is going on with this Trump investigation???
39:52 – I am really tired of people avoiding discussing politics
42:30 – Trump supporters: I implore you to have conversations of substance with people in your life who are NOT.
43:13 – There’s a difference between having a different opinion from you and thinking you shouldn’t exist or have rights
46:11 – The 20th anniversary of the release of the very first Harry Potter book – MAGICCCCC
48:03 – I love having these conversations – it feels free not to bottle it up!
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Episode 20 (??): Wonder Woman and femininity and whatever else pops up!
00:54 – Neg’s thoughts on “Wonder Woman” (movie, 2017)
Side note – the director is from Lawrence, KS (where Erin hails from), and, a WOMAN!
1:45 – “As the sociopolitical climate stands currently, we can’t afford for this film not to crush”
2:32 – Mentioning the controversy around Gal Gadot
4:36 – Here at NWR, we don’t want to avoid the messy conversations…
5:21 – Gal isn’t my hero. Wonder Woman is! + what Neg learned about her training
6:56 – Uh…Robin Wright TOTALLY made up for Buttercup (finally)
7:45 – Erin’s thoughts on the movie
7:57 – SPOILER ALERT!!! FAST FORWARD TO…
10:30 – Fair criticism – when you get ONE female superhero movie, there is so much that it won’t get right!
13:57 – Something we can learn from Wonder Woman – preparing girls in our culture…
14:42 – Ann Wolfe – world-class badass who is NOT afraid to take up space!
16:00 – We need to stop saying “Women CAN be strong”
16:39 – The new animated “Snow White” movie…things aren’t looking good
17:26 – I would love it so much if she was fat and it was never talked about
18:08 – Playing into awful marketing
19:13 – MORE SPOILERS!! FAST FORWARD TO…
19:36 – Segway into FEMININITY!
22:04 – Addressing over-sexualization and romantic plotline in Wonder Woman
24:08 – Femininity as a social construct, necessary energies, and stripping feminine energy from men
26:47 – There’s no nailing it when it comes to femininity!
30:03 – I feel both masculine and feminine in energy ALL the time!
31:31 – We have to be able to show up authentically (and feel things in a REAL way)!
31:49 – “I get teased a lot at the gym” – Neg
36:09 – Pullups and having your nails done don’t have to be masculine/feminine
36:40 – Girl World Magazine – letter to the editor
39:36 – I shouldn’t have to explain why sometimes I like to wear snapbacks, and sometimes I like to wear lipstick! + EVERYBODY should be able to have all of these forms of expression available to them!
41:30 – Is there any way to avoid religion in this conversation?
42:07 – Nothing’s off topic anymore…we are talking about marriage and religion now!
43:14 – Talking intersectionality with my guy friends over beer
46:46 – Warrior archetypes!
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Episode 19: Consent
00:25 - Definition
1:34 - “I would just do it anyway.”
4:20 - It’s too bad Erin hates men…
5:20 - It’s about OUTERcourse, too
8:00 - Conversations with our kids about sexual consent
16:20 - Is it possible to rape your spouse?
17:41 - Sneak attack games at the pool and safe words
22:57 - Thinking of “pesky” sexual assault allegations
25:40 - Consent is SEXY
26:50 - There are APPS!!
28:00 - Dick pics: I would like to share an artistic portrayal of my dick with you!
33:32 - We always question the victim.
34:45 - It’s about power and control, not about sex - there are PLENTY of willing participants!
35:21 - Explaining “The Bachelor” + digging into “Bachelor in Paradise” news…
43:14 - Bottom line: EVERYONE has to be on board.
47:27 - The beginning of the lack of consent comes from immaturity and the inability to discuss this stuff
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Episode 18: Activism
1:17 - Clothing sizes are bullshit
4:02 - Today we thought we’d talk about different forms of activism after seeing some really cool walk outs recently at graduations
6:45 - Organizing via Facebook
8:05 - Speaking to the young white women who looked so confused/shocked during the ND walkout...
9:56 - This is a really inflammatory time in America because we have inflammatory politicians
14:53 - Lots of ways to get involved - Planned Parenthood
17:38 - The most important pieces of activism to Erin right now…
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19:22 - How do you respond to comments from coworkers that are inflammatory/bigoted?
23:47 - I’m not necessarily looking to change someone’s mind all the time, I just want to make it significantly more annoying for them to show up with that perspective…
26:04 - If we started speaking up, it would be a much less safe place for people to be bigots
32:40 - Violence Against Women Act
34:05 - Volunteering as a form of activism
35:28 - Donating as a form of activism
36:38 - Social Media/Digital forms of activism
39:19 - Everybody’s busy...but you have SOMETHING to offer
41:15 - When someone tells you their story, listen and believe that is their experience. How can you show up for them?
44:35 - Don’t support spaces that actively go out of their way to go against causes you care about
46:21 - Figure out how to be an activist that makes sense to you + use your voice in ways that are safe!
48:30 - Don’t overwhelm yourself
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Planned Parenthood
ACLU
Erin’s YT channel
VolunteerMatch.org
Book - Rules for Radicals
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Episode 17: Internalized Vulva Phobia
2:00 – Neg: How’d you become the princess of camel toe?
5:05 – Our feelings about camel toe ARE internalized misogyny
6:24 – Female genitalia shaming
7:43 – Taking on camel toe activism and normalizing the SHIT out of it
8:24 – Is Jen Sinkler now Princess Moist?
9:48 – Internalized vulva phobia is just internalized misogyny and unpacking that
11:48 – Camel NO and moose knuckles
13:24 – We’ve been conditioned to hide it, but you can love how it looks!
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Episode 16: Reverse Racism - It’s a lie
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Episode 15 : Street Harassment
1:20 – I experience this EVERY SINGLE DAY + getting desensitized
5:10 – My experience with Midwestern hospitality vs. street harassment
7:18 – The psychology of cat-calling
8:13 – It makes me feel small, it makes me feel unsafe…
9:30 – I want to see more men say, “Knock it off!” + implied ownership
10:50 – It’s really possible to give compliments without being skeezy
12:29 – If I want to engage with a woman, how else am I supposed to do so?
14:25 – It’s evolutionary for men to want to spread their seed, right? [eye roll]
15:34 – Why aren’t more men offended by this? + and what we do when we see an attractive person
17:17 – The topic of rape culture + arguing with me about my experience
18:24 – The: “But, this isn’t just an issue for women…” argument
21:27 – Don’t ask me what I was wearing
25:15 – When women experience it, we feel unsafe
27:45 – LISTEN!!
28:16 – Hollaback and what we can do
34:00 – Why do I need a gun to feel safe?
36:09 – Raising our kids to be aware and respectful
38:24 – My biggest hope…
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References:
Hollaback (organization)
Feminista Jones (blogger/writer)
JarrettandJennie.com (brass knuckles)
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Episode 14 :: Is Fitness Feminist?
0:36 – Erin messed up! “Exploring” and “experimenting” are terms that feel a little heteronormative…
2:33 – I catch myself saying “You guys”!
6:10 – Slow the FUCK down
8:28 – Consistency and cycles
9:45 – Tease: “I just read a book about orgasmic meditation!”
11:24 – Let’s get on topic, here!
12:22 – There is a lot of controversy in the stock photo world
13:29 – Is it ok to want to become lean, and use fitness to do so?
15:16 – Autonomy as a driving force of feminism
16:00 – Focus is on women becoming smaller and/or fitting into a narrow standard of beauty
18:37 – Fitness is SO important for mental health, so take the parts of fitness that you don’t want to be part of your inner dialogue, out!
21:43 – How social media is helping the feminist movement in fitness
23:49 – Erin stopped lifting weights + you can just move
27:49 – You have to feel your best to show up and give your best
29:00 – Doing it for someone else is a distraction I can’t afford…Dammit, we’ve got to care about something else
31:55 – What I am sure of is that the narrative keeps us small
37:55 – What is anything that you want to do worth to you?
39:43 – We have the habit of judging peoples’ fitness based on how they look
40:50 – When I was a fitness model, I was super disempowered
42:31 – I’ve been thinking a lot about my body recently…
46:58 – So, Neg, why do you work out?
49:45 – I was PISSED when I started working out regularly and noticed the difference it made in my mental health
50:36 – I enjoy feeling more capable
52:51 – YOU get to choose what strong means
56:37 – Do you have any tips for making something a practice if it’s new for someone?
1:00:55 – It’s really easy for me to get to a place where I feel energetically paralyzed
1:02:13 – Anything can be a form of meditation
1:05:22 – Focus on what aspects you like - and on enjoying it – while exploring fitness!
1:06:14 – Question: Is fitness feminist? Answer: It depends!
1:07:24 – Showing up and doing my thang
1:12:10 – I want you to move, because…
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Episode 13 :: SLUTS??
1:12 – Capturing our menses and dissecting THINX under fire
5:33 – Sending lady nudes to my friends, and peers
8:54 – Should we shop THINX and what do YOU want to take a hard stand on?
12:46 – SLUTS: a term of endearment?
15:09 – I don’t know what a slut is
15:45 – Using it derogatorily – WHY?
17:11 – I wonder if my being called a slut leant to more aggressive experiences for me (NOTE: the aggression is ALWAYS on the aggressor)
18:52 – How did YOU respond to being approached as “easy”? + learning to be NICE
21:37 – Societally, we think we have some kind of right to judge how people show up in their bodies and lives
22:45 – We aren’t educating our children at all
23:40 – TRIGGER WARNING STORY (through 24:20)
25:00 – I wish more men would speak to this…
26:10 – Putting our daughters in protective outfits
31:04 – I am at the point where I am so sick and tired of being street harassed that I’m aggressive about it now
33:50 – Erin’s big fancy news!
35:44 – I am SO glad to have grown up in a world without social media and why
36:45 – Moments of shame when I was a child, and how I thought I deserved it
40:55 – Let’s pretend for a moment that Trump had consent to grab the pussies…
43:03 – Googling “slut shaming” videos – here’s what I found (cat-calling is excused as evolutionary??)
46:19 – What’s our role in this?
48:33 – Keep asking yourself WHY you have these ideas of how women SHOULD act, dress, etc. (HINT: 100% of the time it’s misogyny)
51:26 – Make empowered choices for your body, in your body, for you & “I was just raised better than you”
53:06 – Stop judging people, it’s none of our fucking business!
55:08 – It’s all about “What’s wrong with these girls?” What holding the men responsible?
56:34 – We are choosing to show up differently, and we expect you to join in
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Episode 12 :: First Listener Q&A
2:23 - I just took Plan B for the first time…
3:37 - Do we talk about tampons enough?
5:40 - Plan B continued
7:08 - RADIANCE RETREAT: Details & Real Talk (http://womensradianceretreat.com/)
11:05 - Whose period is more powerful?
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13:06 - We got TROLLED and what makes me physically ill about it
16:51 - ANAL episode feedback, our missteps, and NEVER go B to V!!
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23:27 - What’s the deal with mansplaining and men commenting on the female body?
26:38 - We’re CALLING OUT THE MEN: Why DO you want to talk about women’s bodies and give us unsolicited advice?
30:14 - How do I get out of the comparison trap? + Make your own stuff & FUCK your table
36:36 - Addressing Roles: Gender Roles, Over-Identification with Roles, Role Reinforcement, etc.
45:25 - How do you deal with everything - socially, politically, etc. - without letting it affect you on a cellular level (i.e. getting bummed out or depressed with it all)??
53:28 - “Could you go back in time and do this show when I was a teenager?” and what we would go back and tell our teenage selves.
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References:
Radiance Retreat - http://womensradianceretreat.com/
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ANAL episode - YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oslKqtdX9JE
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Episode 11 :: Cultivating Confidence
0:43 - The myth of consistent confidence and worthiness
3:30 - Your presence matters
4:36 - Navigating feedback and not taking things personally
10:06 - Showing up as I am
11:06 - What makes you feel low and moving out of it (the pendulum)
16:15 - Internal Struggle: the judge and the victim
17:38 - Beyonce doesn’t wake up as Beyonce + tangent (putting energy towards change...and Beyonce)
20:12 - What happens when you put too much stock in others’ opinions
21:02 - Attaching outcomes to projects
23:24 - “Write drunk, edit sober.”
26:25 - They key to feeling confident is…
27:09 - Inviting clarity in and tree huggers
35:21 - Tear experiment - It’s OK to cry
37:56 - This idea of perfection shows up everywhere
39:27 - What’s in the way of you showing up as you need
40:05 - Confident people own their mistakes
42:27 - When it’s appropriate to apologize
45:44 - Let’s talk daily confidence rituals
51:38 - Music as a confidence boost
52:28 - Borrowing power
54:48 - Nobody is doing it like you are
56:16 - We should all have the confidence of a mediocre white guy
57:07 - We need you now
59:41 - PRACTICE
1:01:30 - “The Charisma Myth”
1:03:38 - Do you experiment with confidence?
1:07:51 - It’s not just you + girl club
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References:
Book - “The Charisma Myth”
Book - “Feminist Fight Club”
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Episode 10 :: BAD MOMS
1:19 - Seeking diversity in Momming, not some standardized “perfection”
3:10 - I lived so many years feeling guilty that I wasn’t the mom I was supposed to be
5:33 - The politics of PTA & not room parent material
9:56 - Talking about, and unpacking, guilt
13:10 - Have you ever been mom-shamed?
16:26 - I censor myself around other people's’ kids while still showing up as myself
20:37 - I am someone’s mom...and I am a whole person raising a whole person
21:58 - Female Speakers at events → do they exist? + a solution
25:51 - My primary identifying characteristic isn’t “MOM”...does that make me a bad mom?
28:24 - “I had all of these hopes and dreams. And then I had you…” & adding self-care to the mix
32:19 - The taboo of not wanting kids and talking about it
35:30 - Defaulting to Mom Group
42:39 - Pregnant friends, mom forums, and support
48:27 - Finding your place as a mom and permission to show up as you want -
Episode 09 :: BODY IMAGE
1:30 – Addressing #BoPo & Body Image Overview/Intro
2:39 – You might not realize you have issues with your body until something sparks it
3:20 – Neg’s story
8:30 – “If, Then…”
11:10 – Neg’s main healing mechanism
13:00 – Erin’s story
15:14 – “Just love yourself”, and other bullshit tropes
20:50 – You have to be mindful of your own stuff…it’s not one-size-fits-all
21:05 – Is it worth it for me to track macros?
22:29 – Freedom vs. Restriction
24:28 – “Everybody knows that if you lose the correct amount of weight, guys don’t cheat anymore”
26:37 – We aren’t thinking about ourselves and what we want
26:53 – How Erin suggests people start…
27:27 – Nothing will change unless we change.
30:00 – Magazines are NOT fully to blame for where we are...
31:12 – The Beauty Myth
32:27 – Stepping OUT of the box just to create a new one?
35:04 – There’s ALWAYS a way for you to be failing…
35:56 – It’s all about that ROOT wound
42:49 – Where I agree with the body positivity community…
43:43 – I FUCKING HATE: “We’re all works in progress”
47:27 – Big difference between “gray hair” and “gray hair, gross”: Taking thoughts as truth
49:11 – Today, I am not really excited about every part of my body, AND I love my body.
52:05 – What makes Erin mad
55:04 – What I love about beauty
57:43 – Our challenge for you...
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0:01 - I try to convince all the women I know to have anal sex
1:06 - Why we are talking about it
2:15 - Erin’s brief narrative - It wasn’t working for me
3:45 - “I think I should create detailed metrics about this” - Neg
4:10 - Let’s talk EXPLICIT CONSENT
5:24 - Communication is sexy
9:03 - “Pure” societies and the “sanctity of your asshole”
11:30 - Opening up to conversations on pleasure
13:18 - Shout out to the Punany Poets & Pussy Potions Tea!
14:53 - Finding extreme pleasure
15:43 - You don’t have to try it, but I ask you to…
17:22 - It’s far easier to time simultaneous climax
18:42 - Laying out options...choose what’s best for you
19:52 - Fear of having an accident
20:40 - What made you continue exploring this option for yourself?
23:07 - Avoiding accidents
24:20 - How anal sex is portrayed in porn
25:40 - Safety & security conversation
27:20 - Erin’s labor poop story
29:35 - Positions in porn make anal uncomfortable & positions for most pleasure
35:36 - Is there prep work? What’s the foreplay for anal?
36:25 - Olive oil?
38:30 - Taking care of the mess
40:28 - Main take aways
42:00 - What’s the pitch for anal when I’ve got this other thing that’s working??
46:09 - Exploring your body and feminist standpoint
46:58 - How much lube?
50:33 - Modern day anal sex with an empowered woman
54:00 - The Aftermath
55:30 - Submission can be hot
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