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Weâre in shock.
Jenn Tranâs Bachelorette story comes to a horrifying ending in the season finale, and we are devastated and frankly livid with this franchise. In this Bachelorette recap, we review the season finale where we learn Jenn and Devinâs engagement came to a near-immediate end shortly after filming ended and then see a disgustingly cruel After the Final Rose live finale where Jenn is made to watch her proposal to Devin for the first time on stage with him setting next to her. This show failed Jenn in so many ways.
We are absolutely aghast that this season â which we had been so excited and hopeful about, which loudly promoted Jenn as their first Asian American lead and promised us an incredible love story with her as the main character â ended in such a horrific way. We unpack that horrible ATFR segment, what happened between Jenn and Devin (and why we werenât surprised by his swerve), as well as takeaways from the Jenn and Marcus breakup (because weâve known men like Marcus).
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Fantasy suites brought us *two* surprise confessions of love, and if weâre being honest, neither of them felt great.
In this Bachelorette recap of Jenn Tranâs season episodes 8 & 9, we deep dive into Jennâs connection with Marcus and why sheâs so invested in making their relationship work when thereâs little reciprocationâ and why one of us (for better or worse... er, well, mostly for worse) actually swooned just a little over them this week.
Then, we get to the Devin of it all. Devin spirals with doubt, Jenn confesses she doesnât know how to be in a healthy relationship, and they finish with âI love youâsâ prompting us to dig into how the conversation couldâve really goneâif they were being honest.
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Why did Jennâs hometown dates feel so⊠concerning?
Itâs hometowns week on Jenn Tranâs season of The Bachelorette (Season 21, Episode 7). Usually hometowns is a big olâ nothing-burger, but Jennâs hometowns with Devin, Jeremy, Jonathon, and Marcus actually raised many new questions and concerns about her final four men and the relationships she has with each of them. Devin says I love you to Jenn, but the rest of the men seem to be way far behind in terms of their feelings for her. Jeremy goes home for it, but Jonathon and Marcus both also seem to be struggling to emotionally get there with Jenn.
In this Bachelorette recap, we dig into why Jennâs final men all seem to be hesitating now that weâre getting to the end of the season, how Marcus became the new unavailable man in Jennâs life, and how Jenn get still get the happy ending she deserves.
Weâre Kelly and Julie, and weâre Here to Find Love: a show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy sh!t. We post reality TV dating show analysis and Bachelor recap videos. Welcome to HTFL! (And in case you're wondering: this is a spoiler-free Bachelor podcast!)
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This episode helped us learn a lot about Jenn - and it was heartbreaking. In this Bachelorette recap of episode 5 of Jennâs Bachelorette season with special guest Jeremy, we break down her dates with Jonathon and Grant. We chat about Austin self-eliminating created an important vibe shift to her season, and one of Jennâs most vulnerable moments to date. We go over why going back to an ex doesnât always work, what it looks like to date someone in the middle of a big healing journey, and who we could see her ending up with at the end.
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Sam M goes off-script, and Jenn sends him packing!
In this Bachelorette 2024 Episode 6 of Jennâs season, Jenn has her first one-on-one date with Marcus. We werenât totally sure about Marcus â weâve heard some fairly gruesome allegations about his past and we donât know if heâs ready to get married with Jenn â but we can finally see why Jenn likes him so much.
We talk about Sam M and Jennâs drawn-out breakup and why itâs important she completed the process on her own time. We dissect Sam M short-circuiting on the show, his misogyny, and how Jennâs family patterns may have subconsciously influenced their attraction. Then we chat about her surprising connection with Jeremy and their cute interfaith connection, our shock on Grant and Spencer going home.
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We donât often get a Bachelor date with so many red flags to unpack all at once, but the one-on-one between Jenn and Sam M. was really chock full of concerning moments. In this Bachelorette recap of episode 4 of Jennâs Bachelorette season, we break down each interaction from this date and what went wrong, from the way he unilaterally made decisions on her behalf to ignoring her feelings and boundariesâ and also the complex way Jenn herself responded to the stressful situation.
We also talk about Jenn and Marcus who make notable strides in their connection this week, as well as what we know about Jennâs ex Matthew who she apparently only dated for a few months several years ago.
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Itâs week 3 and weâve finally formulated a theory for Jennâs season! Letâs get into it.
In this Bachelorette 2024 Episode 3 recap, the conflict hasnât stopped and Thomas N and Sam M are continuing to perpetuate a culture of pettiness and negativity. We chat through their (many) red flags obsessing over the other men in the house, putting down Sam N, and focusing on anything other than Jenn. We chat about our complicated feelings liking Devin (with some trepidation) and how he may have the only genuine connection with Jenn. We talk about our excitement seeing Jenn making sense of her dating story, finding her voice, cutting off the toxic men in the show, and refining her dating pickerâall in real time.
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Itâs only week 2, and the villains are already emerging. But⊠which guy is it?
In The Bachelorette 2024 Episode 2, conflict begins to brew among Jenn Tranâs menâin particular, between Devin, Aaron, and Thomas N. Devin is quickly becoming a controversial character, with some fans on the internet saying he did nothing wrong and others already ready to get him off the screen. In this Bachelorette recap, we dig into some of the key moments between these three men that helped us form our opinions of the situationâand why weâre secretly not so fond of any of them.
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Weâve been waiting all season for Jenn Tranâs season premiere, and it did not disappoint! The episode kicks off with Jennâs intro package where she opens up about her Asian-American background, her passion being a physical assistant, and her history with toxic relationships. We start the night at a new mansion (!) where she meets her 25 men â and she gives her first impression to Sam McKinney and giggles with Thomas Nguyen, Dylan Buckor, Devin Strader, and others.
Throughout this Bachelorette recap, we also dissect our early first impression of Jenn, our mixed emotions about her early standouts, her slow approach to physical intimacy and why that may be due to her upbringing, and then dig into our predictions for her season.
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Joeyâs season was one for the history books.
During the season finale, we speak about the beauty of Daisy and Kelsey subverting the inherently comparative and competitive dating model of the show, if we thought Daisy stole their thunder, and how we wish the show highlighted Kelseyâs incredible emotional intelligence to be there for her friend during her proposal day. We discuss our shifting feelings on Daisy, the refreshing narrative of sisterhood the show is featuring, and our happiness on Joey and Kelseyâs engagement. Then we gush over Jenn Tranâs history-making debut as the Bachelorette, if we think sheâll get married, and all of the things we canât wait to cover.
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This was an emotional Women Tell All episode. Rachel opens up about the racist messages sheâs been receiving, and it gives us all a lot to think about when it comes to the ways in which we all interact with popular media and create the culture we live in. Throughout this Bachelor recap we also talk about Jennâs cycle-breaking story this season, our complicated feelings about Maria (spoiler alert: we werenât impressed by her behavior at the WTA), and why weâre starting to get a little worried about Joey and Kelsey after what happened with that letter.
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In this weekâs Bachelor 2024 Episode 9 recap of Joeyâs season, weâre getting into Fantasy Suites week and is it hot in here or is it just Kelsey and Joey STEAMING up the TV? We talk about their palpable chemistry and her frontrunner energy.
We analyze her conversation with Golden Bachelor frontrunner Leslie, and why itâs important to hold space for someone with skill. Then we go over Joeyâs sweet yet lackluster connection with Daisy (weâre still not seeing it!!) and his rocky date with Rachel. We bring up Rachelâs recent negative social media backlash and why we need to uplift diverse stories in media.
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Joey knew what he wanted this episode - and chaos was not it. In this Bachelor recap, we talk about why Joey sending home Maria was a good idea, and our speculations that Rachel might be next on the chopping block. We analyze his strong connection with Kelsey and how it feels slightly different to Daisyâs sweet albeit slightly underdeveloped relationship. In between, we discuss our favorite frontrunners for Joey and how much we missed Jennâs potential hometown this week.
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You have to know someone to love them, but who is Joey really? In this Bachelor recap, we talk about why we think Daisyâs really not that into him and our surprise on Joey sending home Jenn who is actually super into him.
We talk about Mariaâs conflict styles and how theyâve been polar opposites the entire season - except for how they need their partner to show up for them. And why that quality may be Joeyâs dealbreaker. Along the way, we discuss why Kelsey A is a perfect combination of what heâs looking for, plus our doubts that heâll actually choose her.
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Relationships are all about timing, and for Joey and Lexi, timing is not on their side. In this Bachelor recap, we talk about Lexiâs surprising decision to leave the show after learning that Joey wants a longer engagement and marriage before having kids - something that she canât get on board with. We discuss the challenge of navigating differing timelines in relationships and why Lexiâs choice is so commendable.
We also dig into what weâve long surmised would be Joeyâs greatest struggle as the bachelor: figuring out how to open up and put himself first. As these issues start to come to the forefront, which woman will be able to embrace Joey in all his struggles and imperfections? We have our thoughtsâŠ
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We were rooting for you, Lea!!! Why?!
This weekâs two-day Bachelor special brought the demise of one villain and the rise of the next. Maria and Sydney went head to head in a two on one date, and we were disturbed and also just kinda saddened by Sydneyâs behavior before she left. Then we get into the Lea of it all, including her squishy confrontation with Madina, her hard line with Maria, and why weâre both disappointed in her⊠but also sort of question the nature of the criticism sheâs now facing.
Along the way, we talk about the ways in which therapy can fail us, how age can affect the ways we show up to disagreements, and the importance of taking womenâs pain seriously.
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Letâs talk about this Sydney and Maria conflict, because there are SO many nuances to this situation. At first glance the drama seems to be about something pointless (a comment Maria made challenging the idea of age 31 being âoldâ), but Episode 3 unveils many more layers. In this Bachelor recap, we unpack the use of the words âbullyingâ and other therapy speak, the power of âinâ and âoutâ group dynamics, and how Maria and Sydney each handled (and mishandled) the conflict.
We are SO excited and honored to be joined by the wonderful JENNA from DATE CARD, one of our absolute favorite Bachelor podcasts! Jenna analyzes the The Bachelor franchise from a queer feminist lens, and her critique (and hilarity) always blows us away.
Weâre Kelly and Julie, and weâre Here to Find Love: a show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy sh!t. We post reality TV dating show analysis and Bachelor recap videos. Welcome to HTFL! (And in case you're wondering: this is a spoiler-free Bachelor podcast!)
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Joeyâs Bachelor season is upon us, and we are actually super excited! After the season premiere and limo entrances, we have our initial thoughts on who we think Joey Graziadei is most compatible with among his cast of womenâand what we think heâs going to struggle most with this season. Itâs episode 2 of Joey Grazideiâs Bachelor season, and we have some new dating theories! We discuss our new frontrunner picks, why we love Maria Georgas flirting game, and what Joey is really looking for in a matchâand itâs not what you think.
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Joeyâs Bachelor season is upon us, and we are actually super excited!
After the season premiere and limo entrances, we have our initial thoughts on who we think Joey Graziadei is most compatible with among his cast of womenâand what we think heâs going to struggle most with this season.
Weâre Kelly and Julie, and weâre Here to Find Love: a show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy sh!t. We post reality TV dating show analysis and Bachelor recap videos. Welcome to HTFL!
(And in case you're wondering: this is a spoiler-free Bachelor podcast!)
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Even though Bachelor in Paradise is over, some of the couples (Eliza & Aaron B, Kylee & Aven, John Henry and Kat) are still going strong way after the finale. We discuss if we can see them working as a couple, why itâs so hard to date someone with too many expectations, and how everyone is deserving of loveâyes even the âvillainsâ who donât end up learning anything from their past experiences.
Weâre Kelly and Julie, and weâre Here to Find Love: a show where two Asian American dating coaches go deep on frothy sh!t.
We post reality TV dating show analysis and Bachelor recap videos. Welcome to HTFL! (And in case you're wondering: this is a spoiler-free Bachelor podcast!)
Watch the live recording of this podcast on our YouTube channel: youtube.com/HereToFindLove Get personal with us on Instagram: @heretofindloveshow - Visa fler
