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Do you ever feel like you’re just not what women want? Like you’re not charismatic or interesting or attractive enough? It’s frustrating. The good news? You can fix it—fast! In this special live coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett guides his client Nick to a powerful breakthrough. In just one hour, Nick transforms from feeling insecure to truly magnetic, simply by destroying his biggest limiting belief. (This coaching session first aired in 2023. Now, in 2025, Nick is dating a wonderful woman!)
You’re about to learn:
2:00: The Real Cause of Dating Insecurity (and How to Fix It)
5:28: The Secret to Confidence: Awakening Your Higher Self
23:05: How to Identify the Limiting Belief that’s Hurting Your Dating Life
38:30: A Simple Way to Erase Self-Doubt for Good
52:17: Nick’s Aha Moment: Ditching his Insecurities and Realizing his True Worth to Women
1:07:14: The Confidence Breakthrough: Awakening Your Most Amazing, Authentic You
Listen now to stop feeling insecure and start feeling confident and magnetic to women.
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Are you just not sure how to talk to women, either on the apps or in real life? Top UK dating expert Hayley Quinn is here to show you how to flirt effortlessly, confidently read women, and get them asking YOU out. She knows exactly what creates attraction—and how you can get better results fast. You’ll learn how to talk to women in a way that feels authentic and sparks real connection, without overthinking or using weird “pickup” moves.
Hayley and dating coach Connell Barrett will teach you:
2:55: How to Overcome Your Fear of Rejection and Attract the Right Woman
4:00: Why Women Prefer Meeting Men in Real Life, and How to Make It Happen
7:58: How Her Client Approached a Woman in the Daytime and Turned it into a Deep Connection
15:30: Why Many Women Want Men to Talk to Them IRL, Not on the Apps
21:03: The Game-Changing Move that Instantly Improves Your Love Life
23:45: Hayley’s Top Tips for How to Read Women
36:33 The #1 Approach Mistake Men Make—and How to Fix It
50:27: How Hayley Changes Men’s Lives with In-Person Coaching
Listen now and let Connell and Hayley show you how to attract your dream girlfriend!
TO LEARN MORE ABOUT HAYLEY OR TO APPLY TO WORK WITH HER: http://www.hayleyquinn.com/
CHECK OUT HER TED TALK THAT HAS 3 MILLION VIEWS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jmUayKnHWWM
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You see a stunning woman across the room and want to talk to her… but what do you say? How do you start a conversation without fear of rejection? In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Jason master this skill—live on air. Plus,
hear how Jason conquered crippling approach anxiety and dated an L.A. Lakers Cheerleader! Connell shares actionable strategies to help Jason (and you!) connect with women. No cheesy “pickup artist” tricks. Just authentic confidence that works.
You’re about to learn:
8:40: The #1 Shift to Overcome Social Anxiety and Build Dating Momentum
10:30: How Jason Walked Up to a Woman and Made Out with Her in Minutes (with Connell’s In-Person Help)
18:38: 3 Proven Anti-Flaking Techniques to Keep Her Interested
23:35: The 3-Text Rule that Gets Women Replying and Asking YOU Out2
9:23: The Risk-Taking Strategy that Makes You Instantly More Attractive
41:47: The One Thing She Secretly Hopes You’ll Do When You Approach Her
47:53: What to Write when She Doesn’t Reply to Your Text
52:57: The Right Way to Ask Her Out and Not Get Flaked On
This episode is like getting a personal coaching session with Connell—for free. Listen now!
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What if watching so-called “chick flicks” could make you a chick magnet and bring romance into your real life? It may sound far-fetched, but dating coach Connell Barrett has learned a lot about finding love—what works and what doesn’t—from rom-com movies. Introducing “It’s Rom-Complicated,” a new series that reveals the dating wisdom hidden in Hollywood’s most beloved comedies. In the first episode, Connell and his special guest—his charming, witty girlfriend Jessamin—analyze “Groundhog Day,” the 1993 time-loop comedy starring Bill Murray and Andie MacDowell.
Episode Highlights:
4:05: What’s the One Day from Your Life You Would Relive Again and Again?
10:45 How ‘Groundhog Day’ Helped Connell Escape His Own Dating Time Loop
17:15: The Rom-Commie Awards: The Best and Worst Dating Moves in ‘Groundhog Day’
19:46: Why Arrogant Men like Phil Connors (Bill Murray) Make Women Cringe
26:17: The Best Dating Move You Should Absolutely Steal from Phil
27:39: The ‘Don’t Do This!’ Award: A Dating Mistake to Avoid IRL
31:08: The Creepiest Pickup-Artist Tip Connell Ever Got (And Why It’s So Wrong)
36:20: Bill Murray: Comedic Genius or Total Nightmare on Set? (It’s Complicated…)
44:46: What if ‘Groundhog Day’ got the Cinemax After Dark Treatment?
52:32: The Truth About What Makes Women ‘Chase’ Certain Men (It’s NOT Looks or Money)
57:35: The Movie’s Biggest Love Lesson that Every Man Needs to Know
If Phil can escape Punxsutawney, you can break out of your dating rut. Bing! Listen now!
Introducing ‘It’s Rom-Complicated!’ How to find love by watching—wait! Haven’t we done this before?
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Not getting enough quality matches on Hinge, Bumble or Tinder? Here’s the problem: Your photos aren’t making the right impression. But there’s a simple fix. Dating coach Connell Barrett reveals the 6 essential photos that he and his clients use to consistently get good matches on the apps. Connell’s client Ben puts it best: “I went from zero good matches on Hinge to getting 83 matches in one week. Suddenly I had too many dates!” Connell also reveals the 5 photo mistakes that make women swipe left—so you don’t sabotage your own success.
You’re about to get the blueprint for the perfect profile, down to the ideal photo order:
3:40: Essential Photo No. 1: The “Radically Authentic” Portrait to Hook Her Interest
9:25: Essential Photo No. 2: The “Intriguing Photo” that Makes Her Want to Learn About You
12:25: Essential Photo No. 3: The “Aww Factor” Image that Melts Her Heart
15:50: Essential Photo No. 4: The “Man of Action” Shot that Turns Her Head
18:55: Essential Photo No. 5: The “Social Man” Pic that Showcases Your Attractive Life
20:48: Essential Photo No. 6: The “Wildcard” Photo that Makes Swiping Right a No-Brainer
24:01: Plus! 5 Photo Mistakes that HURT You on the Apps!
Listen now, update your photos, and start getting dates with women you actually want to meet.
WATCH THIS VIDEO SHOWING YOU THE 6 ESSENTIAL PHOTOS:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lcSb0-cMbsU&t=4s
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How do you make her want YOU to be her boyfriend? It’s simpler than you think. Just show her these 10 “green lights.” In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett teaches you 10 attraction triggers that help women see you as boyfriend material. And these are NOT sketchy pickup moves. They’re practical strategies to showcase your most authentic, confident self, and create true connections. Because women are drawn to authentic gentlemen!
You’re about to learn…
03:32: Green Light No. 1: How to Be Authentic and Spark a Romantic Connection
09:29: Green Light No. 2: How to Lead a Date with Confidence
12:42: Green Light No. 3: How to Play Up Your Passions to Stand Out from Other Guys
16:17: Green Light No. 4: How to Talk About Your Future in a Compelling Way
19:48: Green Light No. 5: How to Be Playful and Create Instant Chemistry
26:16: Green Light No. 6: How to Flirt in the Way Women LOVE, without Being Cringey
30:04: Green Light No. 7: How to Ask Great Questions that Keep Conversations Flowing
34:40: Green Light No. 8: How to Talk About Your Ex the Right Way
37:48: Green Light No. 9: How to Tell a Story that Helps Her Open Up to You
40:24: Green Light No. 10: How to Make Her Laugh and Feel Instantly Drawn to You
Listen now, apply these techniques, and find your dream girlfriend!FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
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Ready to finally get great matches on Tinder? Who better to guide you than the man who invented swiping and changed dating forever: Tinder’s visionary co-founder, Jonathan Badeen. Back in the day, Jonathan was struggling to meet women and get dates. (Sound familiar?) He launched Tinder in part to help his own love life, and the world has never been the same. In this exclusive interview with dating coach Connell Barrett, Badeen shares the lightbulb moment when he came up with the swiping idea, reveals the biggest mistakes men make on the apps, and explains why he would absolutely swipe right on Minnie Mouse.
In this episode, Jonathan and Connell talk about:
2:37: Why Tinder is for More than Just Hookups
14:01: The Aha Moment when Jonathan Came Up with Swiping
17:26: Why Authenticity is What Women Want—on Tinder and in Real Life
26:33: The Real Reason You’re Not Getting Good Matches
30:15: The Myth that “Dating Apps Just Don’t Work”
34:04: How to Inject Fun into Your profile to Get Women Messaging You First
35:47: How Shy Guys and “Nerds” Can Win on the Apps
47:01: Why Jonathan Would Swipe Right on Minnie Mouse and Swipe Left on “The Godfather 3”
Listen now for wisdom from the man who changed dating—and start landing great Tinder dates today.
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Ever had a woman ghost you, friend-zone you, or suddenly lose interest—and you had no idea why? Odds are, you accidentally pushed her away. There are 10 invisible red flags that turn women off, and most men don’t even realize they’re making these mistakes! In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett reveals these attraction-killing errors and shares easy, practical fixes for each one.
Here are the 10 red flags that turn women off:
04:29: #1 Hiding Your Authentic Self and Being Someone You’re Not
06:03: #2 Coming Off as Insecure or Needy
09:20: #3 Long, Awkward Pauses in Conversations
11:26: #4 Lying or Exaggerating About Your Life
14:35: #5 Using Canned, Rehearsed Pickup Lines
16:01: #6 Touching Her Too Much…or Not Enough!
18:42: #7 Planning Boring, Forgettable Dates
22:38: #8 Failing to Be Playful and Fun
26:39: #9 Bringing Up Your Ex the Wrong Way
29:56: #10 Trying Too Hard to Impress Her
Listen now, to turn red flags into green lights—and get a great girlfriend!
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Do the apps frustrate you because you just don’t get many good matches? Here’s the problem: Your bio is boring women! Let’s fix this fast. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares his 7 secrets for writing an online-dating bio that women
love—and that’s authentic to YOU. Using his simple formula, you’ll finally get good matches on Tinder, Bumble, or Hinge. Plus, his 10 funniest bio prompts will get women giggling… and swiping right.
You’re about to learn:
02:40: Why Authenticity is Your Online-Dating Superpower
4:43: The Bio Mistake that Costs You Matches—and How to Fix It
6:00: Don’t! Do! This!8:45: The Right Way to Flirt on Your Profile
12:00: The 3-Line Bio Formula that Women Can’t Resist
15:01: How to Write About Yourself in an Attractive Way
17:50: The Flirty Line that Gets Her Messaging You First
20:55: A Hinge Hack to Triple Your Matches
23:01: Connell’s Top 10 Funniest Bio Lines that Women Love—Steal Them!
Ready to flood your inbox with good dating leads? Listen now and write a bio that will bring you a BIG step closer to meeting your future girlfriend.
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It’s time to “Ask the Dating Coach!” as Connell Barrett takes your questions. If you struggle with what to say on dates, Connell shares three essential flirting moves to help you spark romantic connections. (Farewell, Friend Zone!) He also reveals why women prefer nice guys over so-called alpha males. And a listener has a “sheepish” question about talking dirty in bed.
Highlights from this episode:
01:51: Andrew Asks: “A Woman Wants Me to Baa Like a Sheep in Bed. What Do I Do?”
03:19: How to Talk Dirty Without Feeling Awkward
08:57: Zach Asks: “Am I Too Nice? Do Women Only Want to Date Alpha Males?”
11:25: Why the “Alpha Male” Is a Total Myth
13:48: How Kindness, Confidence and Authenticity Will Help You Get a Girlfriend
24:30: Barry Asks: “Why Can’t I Get Past the First Date?”
25:52: Connell’s Aha Moment that Made Him Magnetic to Women
31:07: Three Flirting Moves to Escape the Friend Zone and Land Second Dates
Hit play and start transforming your love life today
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Burnt out on dating apps? The endless swiping, the lack of quality matches, the fake profiles—it’s exhausting! But Inner Circle is changing the game. Equal parts social club and dating app, Inner Circle is built for ambitious singles who want to swipe less and connect more, forming real, meaningful relationships. In this episode, dating coach Connell Barrett welcomes Inner Circle’s founder David Vermeulen. He shares how his innovative platform helps successful, driven men and women connect authentically—first online and then IRL at fun, exclusive events in cities like New York, London, Paris and Rio.
With Connell and David as your guides, you’ll discover:
4:46: The Dating Horror Story that Inspired David to Start Inner Circle
6:38 How Inner Circle’s Technology Virtually Eliminates Fake Profiles
7:55 Why the Platform’s IRL Events is “Where the Magic Happens”
10:43 A Game-Changing Strategy for Introverts to Meet Women in the Real World
11:25: Connell’s One-Sentence Dating Mantra that Will Transform Your Love Life
19:29: How “Tinder is Like McDonald’s,” in David’s View
27:41: Why Quality Matches Always Beat Quantity
30:54: How to Decide if She’s Worth a Second Date
33:36: A Simple Writing Tip to Make Your Bio Magnetic to Women
35:32: David’s Surprising Rule for Online-Dating Success: “Opposites Don’t Attract”
Ready to finally connect with women on a dating app that actually works? Listen now!
LEARN MORE ABOUT INNER CIRCLE:
https://about.theinnercircle.co/
CHECK OUT INNER CIRCLE ON INSTAGRAM:
https://www.instagram.com/innercircleco/
DOWNLOAD THE INNER CIRCLE APP:
https://apps.apple.com/us/app/inner-circle-dating-community/id838136374
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The new year is here, and now’s the time to attract your dream girl. But not knowing where to start can feel overwhelming. You need a clear, tested plan for success. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett shares 5 proven strategies that practically guarantee you’ll find love in 2025. These aren’t flimsy resolutions you’ll abandon by February. They’re bold, revolutionary daily rituals to authentically connect with wonderful women.
Using Connell’s tested moves, you’re about to learn:
01:30: Why Resolutions Fail—and How to Build Rituals that Get Dating Results
05:45: What Women Really Want—Authenticity!—and How to Give it to Them
14:20: How to Truly Connect with Women Who are Your Type
24:18: A Morning Ritual that Supercharges Your Motivation and Confidence
38:10: The Daily Practice that Virtually Guarantees You Will Find Love in 2025
51:10: The Online-Dating Secret to Skyrocket Your Number of Quality Matches
1:08:30: What You MUST Do Today to if You Want a Great Girlfriend
Your dream girl is waiting—don’t wait another day to start your journey. Listen now!
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Feeling stuck in a dating dry spell? So was Jake. At 30, this shy, nerdy engineer (and proud Creed fan) felt too afraid to talk to women. And he hadn’t had a girlfriend in a decade. But with personalized guidance from dating coach Connell Barrett, Jake learned how to confidently connect with women on the dating apps and IRL. In one whirlwind week, Jake went on five first dates. “That’s more than I’d had the entire previous year,” he said with a laugh. Then he met bright, bubbly Allie, who’s now his girlfriend. “I knew she was the one.”
Channeling Creed, this episode will take your love life… higher! Connell and Jake discuss:
09:30: The Missed Approach Opportunity that Ignited Jake’s Breakthrough
13:35: The Mindset Shift Every Man Needs to Attract His Dream Girlfriend
16:30: How Jake Landed Five Dates in Just One Week
17:28: The First-Date Aha Moment that Led to a Sexy Make-out
20:25: A 15-Minute Ritual for Instant Confidence22:06: How Connell’s “80-20” Flirting Rule Helps You Know What to Say to Women
34:17: A Playful Teasing Move that Builds Attraction on Dates
40:45: The Wordless Approach Technique that Works in Loud Venues
45:38: How to Help the Right Woman See You As Her Dream Guy
58:19: Connell’s No. 1 Daily Dating Tip to ApplyWith Allie as his partner, Jake’s decade of loneliness is behind him.
Listen now and start your journey to finding the girlfriend you deserve!
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With over 1,000 dating apps out there, it’s hard to know which one is right for you—and which will waste your time and money. In this episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett reveals his top 7 apps that he and his clients used in 2024. Whether you’re looking for meaningful connections or fun, casual dates, this guide will help you find the perfect app to help you get matches and dates… and even find your soulmate!
Here’s what Connell covers in this episode:
1:30: Why Choosing the Wrong App Costs You Matches and Dates
2:45: No. 7: The League—it’s About Quality, Not Quantity
4:45: No. 6: Why Badoo is Great if You Aren’t Hollywood Handsome
7:11: No. 5 and No. 4: Match and eHarmony—Which Long-Term Relationship Platform is Better for You?
12:45: How Coffee Meets Bagel Will Help You Get Coffee Dates with Your Type of Women
15:15: No. 2: Bumble’s Latest Innovations that Make Finding Love Easier than Ever
19:07: No. 1: The Top Dating App of 2024 is… Hinge! Here’s Why Every Man MUST Be on Hinge
22:37: Bonus Tip: A Clever Way Hinge Can Help You Succeed on Other Dating Apps
Tune in now to turn your swipes into sparks—and matches into love!
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Do you struggle to attract the kinds of women you want to date? Chances are, you’re making some big mistakes that turn women off, and you don’t even realize it. Help is here! Lisa Hickey, CEO of the Good Men Project, joins dating coach Connell Barrett to identify—and fix—the hidden dating mistakes men make. You’ll learn how to connect with women authentically, flirt with charm, and boost your confidence. Plus, Lisa shares invaluable wisdom on modern masculinity. (Check out the Good Men Project for a treasure trove of practical advice, and to read Connell’s dating advice column.)
You’re about to learn:
2:30: What to NEVER do when talking to a woman you’ve just met
6:39: A simple first-date fix that turns women on
16:40: Why men feel more dating anxiety than ever
22:00: Practical ways to build self-esteem and confidence
25:50: How to give authentic compliments that women love
33:00: The single biggest dating mistake you’re making
39:10: Great topics to talk about that spark connection
47:30: How to turn fear and doubt into fun and excitement
59:17: Lisa’s no. 1 dating tip that every man must know
Are you ready to become an even better man? Listen now!
FOR GREAT READS AND PRACTICAL TIPS TO BE A BETTER MAN:
http://GoodMenProject.com
CHECK OUT THE GOOD MEN PROJECT’S DATING SUBSTACK:
http://gmpdating.substack.com
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"Meaningful compliments celebrate deeper attributes beyond appearance."- Lisa Hickey
"Building modern relationships requires the courage to take the next step after a good interaction."- Lisa Hickey -
It’s Christmas, and Santa Connell has a gift for you: Matches galore on the dating apps! Because endless swiping and ZERO matches makes you say, “ho, ho, NO!” It’s getting old, right? In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach Connell Barrett helps his client Zach fix the same issues that frustrate you. Zach—a personal trainer and 40-year-old single dad—learns 15 proven online-dating moves to turn his phone into a date-generating machine. And hey, the more good matches you have, the sooner you can attract a wonderful girlfriend who loves you for you.
Here are some of the strategies Connell shares with Zach. You’re about to learn:
6:41: How to Maximize Online-Dating Success with Minimal Effort (15 Minutes Daily!)
8:49: Why Being a Single Dad is a Feature, Not a Flaw—and How to Talk about it On Your Profile
14:35: Connell Crafts a Clever, Authentic “DILF” Prompt for Zach that Women Will Love
17:49: The 3 Photos Every Man MUST Have on his Hinge, Bumble or Tinder Profile
21:08: The Secret to Writing Funny Prompts that Make Her Message YOU First
23:18: Boosting your Profile: When, Why and How to Do It
27:07: From Matching to Texting to Getting the First Date, in 3 Simple Steps
30:04: How to use Video Clips to Skyrocket Your Matches
32:15: The 5 Big Profile Mistakes You Didn’t Know You Were Making
55:43: Hinge Hack: How to Write Poll Prompts to Triple Your Matches
1:01:17: How to Date Without Drinking Alcohol and Still Have Fun
Hit “play” now and start getting good matches on the apps.
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Quotes
"Transparency fosters genuine connections and sets clear expectations." - Zach
"The focus on self-improvement paves the way for deeper connections and fulfilling relationships." - Zach -
Are you facing a lonely New Year’s Eve? Just you, Ryan Seacrest, and the ball—along with your romantic hopes—dropping. (More like New Year’s ROTTEN Eve…) Guess what: 2024 doesn’t have to end that way! In this episode of the “How to Get a Girlfriend” podcast, dating coach and bestselling author Connell Barrett shares 25 powerful, practical approach moves to help you land that magical midnight kiss with someone special. You’ll learn how to defeat approach anxiety, confidently talk to women, and maybe ring in the new year with a new love—or at least a sexy make-out. And you’ll do it all with class. Think authentic charm, not creepy smarm.
With 12 years of experience helping men approach and talk to women, Connell shares these game-changing tips:
1:16: Why Ryan Seacrest Sucks (Let’s Vent)
5:17: A Mindset Tip to Fix Approach Anxiety
10:50: Three Openers to Use with Any Woman
12:01: How to Stop Fearing Rejection and Get in the Zone
14:39: The Bold Approaching Move that Dials Up Attraction with Women
18:12: The Three Questions to Ask Every Woman You Meet
20:45: The “Z Pattern”—a Technique to Create Romantic Tension with Eye Contact
22:11: Three First-Kiss Moves that Work Almost Every Time
Listen now and make this New Year’s Eve as fun and sexy as a first kiss.
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http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Quotes
"True confidence comes from commitment, not from fearing the outcome." - Connell Barrett"
What seems risky is often the safest path to success." - Connell Barrett -
Maybe you’ve been in Jack’s shoes. He goes on a few dates, and everything seems fine. Then—bam! She says, “I’m just not feeling a connection.” Frustrating? Absolutely. “It happens a lot, and I don’t know what I’m doing wrong,” Jack, a 33-year-old sales rep., admits to dating coach Connell Barrett at the start of their first session. By the end of their call, Jack has a proven 3-date plan to make the right woman see him as boyfriend material. Listen as Connell uncovers Jack’s hidden flirting weaknesses (Jack’s aha moment hits at 52 minutes) and turns them into strengths.
Jack’s coaching session with Connell will show you:
6:41 – Why Women May Not See You as Boyfriend Material
9:33 – 3 Simple Ways to Build Romantic Tension on Dates
13:25 – The 3-Date Roadmap to Help the Right Woman See You as the Partner She Wants
17:53 – Creative Date Ideas that Make Her Want to Keep Seeing You
24:19 – How to Stop Getting Ghosted and Start Getting More Dates
27:30 – The Easy Way to Text Women without Seeming Needy
41:03 – How to Tease Women with Charm, NOT Tricks or Manipulation
52:49 – Jack’s Aha Moment: Why He’s Been Hitting the 3-Date Wall
57:12 – The Secret Flirting Move that Makes Nice Guys Irresistible
1:01:18 – How to Give a “Power Compliment” that Get Women Swooning
1:04:18 – The Power of Sharing AUTHENTIC Personal Stories on Dates
Listen now and start your 3-date journey to winning her heart!
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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Quotes
"Recognizing where you’re stuck is the first step toward finding your way forward." - Jack"
Shared laughter and playful exchanges frequently initiate the best connections." - Jack -
Have you ever settled—in love, life, or both? It can leave you feeling stuck. Garrain Jones knows what it means to be stuck. He grew up poor without a father, who was murdered, then served time in prison on drug charges. But he refused to settle. Garrain transformed his life, becoming
a bestselling author and renowned coach who now inspires millions. Oh, and along the way he landed his dream girl—his wife, Blair! In this episode, Garrain joins dating coach Connell Barrett to help you become the best version of yourself. “To attract a high-value woman,” he says, “you need to become a high-value man.”
Here’s what you’ll learn in Connell and Garrain’s powerful conversation:
3:50 How to Bounce Back from Rock Bottom
15:30 The 5 Books Every Man Should Read
21:33 Why Women Want Authentic Men, Not Fake, Toxic “Alpha Males”
32:00 Why Playfulness Is a Man’s Secret Flirting Weapon—and How to Use It
39:42 The Biggest Dating Lesson Garrain Learned Before Meeting His Wife, Blair
40:44 A Flirting Move You Can Steal: How Garrain Used to Get Women to Approach HIM at Bars
52:07 How to Become the Charismatic Man Women Want to Date
58:45 The Jaw-Dropping Truth Bomb Garrain Told Blair on their First Date
60:03 Garrain’s 3-Step Formula for Never Settling Again
It’s time to stop settling and start thriving! Your dream relationship awaits. Listen now.
LEARN MORE ABOUT GARRAIN JONES’S INCREDIBLE STORY:
https://www.garrainjones.com/
TO APPLY TO HIS “ARTIST POWER” PROGRAM:
https://go.garrainjones.com/apply-artist-power-leadership-program
READ GARRAIN’S BESTSELLING BOOK, “CHANGE YOUR MINDSET, CHANGE YOUR LIFE”:
https://www.amazon.com/Change-Your-Mindset-Life-Transformation/dp/1734155507
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Are you shy? Do you want to approach attractive women at bars, but you freeze up, unsure of what to say? So you stand there and do nothing, while outgoing guys chat up the women you wish you could meet. You’re not alone. For shy guys, starting a conversation can feel impossible. In this live-coaching episode of “How to Get a Girlfriend,” dating coach Connell Barrett helps his introverted client Eric get out of his head and confidently talk to women in bars. Discover proven techniques to start conversations, dodge awkward silences, and become the guy others watch approaching—and charming—wonderful women.
Here are some highlights from Eric’s coaching session with Connell:
6:45—How to Talk with Women Authentically—Not Like Some Weird Pickup Artist
10:50—Connell’s Go-To Icebreaker for Approaching ANY Woman
11:30—The “Karaoke Opener,” Which Gives Shy Guys Instant Charismas
19:10—The Wrong Way to Approach Women (Never, Ever Say This!)29:00—How to Be Bold, Not Timid, in Your Approaches
31:23—The One Word That Instantly Sparks Attraction
39:30—What Women REALLY Find Creepy (It’s Not What You Think!)
46:20—3 Playful Ways to Start Conversations that Lead to Numbers
52:01—The Word Every Woman Wants to Hear when You First Meet Her
1:03:08—Learn the “Push-Pull,” the Flirting Move to Keep You Out of the Friend Zone
1:09:02—How to Text Her and Get Dates (and Not Get Ghosted)
1:12:17—The 2 Kinds of Photos You Need on Your Dating Profile to Get Good Matches
1:20:00—Why Women LOVE “Interview Mode”… When You Do it Connell’s Way
Are you ready to get out of your head in bars and get into some flirty conversations? Hit play and take one step closer to finding your dream girlfriend.
FOR A FREE STRATEGY CALL WITH CONNELL TO LEARN HOW TO HAVE GREAT FIRST DATES:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/contact
TO GET FREE ACCESS TO “THE FLIRTY 30,” CHARMING QUESTIONS TO ASK WOMEN ON DATES, ON THE APPS, AND WHEN YOU APPROACH:
http://www.datingtransformation.com/FLIRTY30
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