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episode 42: when do I get a life? with Kathi
When your loved one has dementia and can't be left alone, and you are the only caregiver, it can leave you asking the big question,
When do I get a life?Listen in as we discuss
Letting go of driving Mild cognitive impairmentIce cream and the pandemicSiblings and caregiving Caring for parents vs caring for children China and traveling out of countryParent daycare
Life is very short and anxious for those who forget the past, neglect the present and fear the future- Kathi's favorite Stoic quote from Seneca
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Kathi's Instagram Ice Cream with Mom Kathi's TikTok Ice Cream with MomLani's website Caregiving PhilosophyLani's Instagram Caregiving PhilosophyFree Will - the newsletter for caregiver inner peaceListen & Subscribe on
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xoxo Lani
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Death is something people aren’t comfortable talking about. Lucky for you, Jess and I aren’t those people. I dive right in and ask Jess the biggest caregiver question of all,
“Are you ready for your mom to die?”Listen in as we discuss
Long-distance caregiving challenges and stress Caregiving toll on the caregivers Dealing with anxiety through self-awareness and meditation How people that stress you out the most can be your greatest teachers The negative voice inside your head Grief, legacy planning, and death doula work The challenges of caring for loved ones with dementia
“It’s an individual journey in a group setting”- Jess from Alzheimer’s Awakening
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Jess’ Instagram Alzheimers_Awakening Jess’ Substack Alzheimer’s Awakening Lani's Website Caregiving PhilosophyLani's Instagram Caregiving PhilosophyUntethered Soul by Michael Singer Going with GraceFree Will, the newsletter for caregiver inner peaceListen & Subscribe on
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xoxo Lani
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It's difficult to watch a parent die. It's much more frustrating when the doctor says your parent has been cured from cancer, but they decide to give up on living anyway.
"She didn't want to be helped. And then to watch somebody, like, give up like that was just really hard." MelissaListen in as we discuss
How parent's can be selfish when it comes to caregiving The different way siblings reactPutting off one's life to wait for parents to dieThe one thing you wish your mother would do on her deathbedHow to make it easier on children after you dieLeaving a memoirThe benefit of having someone to talk toMelissa's favorite philosophy quote:
“It’s okay to live a life others don’t understand.”- Jenna Woginrich
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Melissa's website The Prosperous PhotographerMelissa's Instagram Wandering MissyLani's website Caregiving PhilosophyLani's Instagram Caregiving PhilosophyFree Will - the newsletter for caregiver inner peaceListen & Subscribe on
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xoxo Lani
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Do you know, we're allowed to feel "good enough" whenever we choose?
Yep, it's a choice we can freely make.
In this episode, I share a personal story of a challenging moment at dinner the day before my father died of dementia.
Caregiving is mentally hard, and we have to understand how this takes a toll. Having self-compassion for the way we and others act and react is a necessary ingredient for peace of mind.
xoxo Lani
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Do we have free will?
That's one of those philosophical questions that I never even thought about before a friend of mine insisted that the future is fixed.
Then I looked into the research and, low and behold, Einstein himself thought the future is fixed. This is actually a widely held theory of physics.
Listen as I discuss this idea as it relates to caregiving and decide what you think.
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Take care,
xoxo Lani
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It's often hard to calm our own minds when we're in panic mode.
Sometimes we freak out.
Sometimes it takes a calming word from a friend or even a stranger.
Listen to what worked for me.
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Take care,
xoxo Lani
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Do you talk or text?
Texts are the mode of communication with my family when I'm out of state caregiving.
My husband and I also send lots of photos back and forth.
Listen to see what kind of steamy texts we like to give each other.
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Take care,
xoxo Lani
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My cousin is missing.
Lost among the thousands of others in the tragic fire in Lahaina, Maui 5 days ago.
Wishing everyone peace as we figure out the way forward.
I’m here whenever you need to chat.
Take care,
xoxo Lani
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Did you know it's possible to choose to live in a Perfect World?
Yes, it is. And, it's a wonderful place to be.
Listen up and I'll show you how.
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Take care,
xoxo Lani
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I just want to die!
Not words that you want to hear when you're a caregiver.
Because, caregiving is hard. No matter the circumstances.
It's especially hard to tell the difference between when you're actually needed and when it's ok to take time for yourself.
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xoxo Lani
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Ever wonder how to have the best life ever?
Well, I've got 6 great tips for you right here.
To you on my 60th birthday.
I hope they serve you well.
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Take care,
xoxo Lani
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Sometimes you just have to remember what life is all about.
You live and you die.
And, hopefully have the most wonderful ride in between.
Wishing you the best.
I’m here whenever you need to chat.
Take care,
xoxo Lani
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I think it's a rare family that gets through life without family drama.
Because humans think thoughts - good and bad thoughts about other people.
That's ok.
What hurts is holding on to those thoughts.
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xoxo Lani
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Want to know the beauty of multi-generational caregiving?
It's finding the little sentimental treasures and remembering them and bringing them to mind during life's not so fun moments.
The more you practice, the better you get.
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xoxo Lani
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What does it feel like when a parent dies?
I'm sure that's as unique as each individual.
Here's my viewpoint after 5 days.
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xoxo Lani
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How did this happen so fast? my mom asked
I suppose, the end is always too fast.
The time with your loved one is too short.
There's never enough time.
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xoxo Lani
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Did you know you can always start over again?
Yep. You can begin again.
You can have a do-over.
It's never too late.
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Take care,
xoxo Lani
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Do you like to be early, right on time, or late?
I'm probably the way I am because my mother is the way she is.
Does your punctuality run in the family?
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xoxo Lani
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Sometimes things that make us So Sad aren't really useful things to be sad about.
Here's my take on the situation.
I hope you have a day like ukulele man.
Take care,
xoxo Lani
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Are you unknowingly speaking in ways that cause shame?
Here are a few ideas to know whether you are.
Because shame is never a fun place to be.
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xoxo Lani
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