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If you’ve ever felt pressure to “just move on,” to suppress your emotions, or to act like everything is fine when it’s not, then today’s episode is for you.
We’re tackling a powerful truth: Healing doesn’t mean pretending it didn’t happen. You can rebuild your life and marriage without denying your pain. In fact, true healing requires facing it.
Let’s talk about what that looks like, why suppressing emotions can actually make healing harder, and how to move forward in a way that honors both your pain and God’s restoration.
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I want to get real with you today...
Healing after betrayal is hard.
Some of you have been doing all the “right things,” yet you still feel stuck, overwhelmed, and unsure if your marriage can be restored.
Why?
Because there are key mistakes that many betrayed wives make that keep them trapped in the cycle of pain.
So today, I’m breaking down the 3 biggest mistakes that keep women stuck after betrayal—and what you can do instead to move forward in true healing. If you’ve ever felt like healing is taking longer than it should or wondered “Will I ever feel normal again?”—this episode is for you.
And stick around, because at the end, I have a special invitation for those of you who are ready to take the next step toward healing in a safe, supportive community of women who truly get it.
Let’s dive in!
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I am asked this question quite often, "My husband is having and affair and he refuses to stop. What do I do?"
Beautiful, I hear you. I understand that anguish. I was there.
My husband refuses to stop his affair for 1.5 years. It was devastating and exhausting.
Today’s topic is one that I know weighs heavy on many of you: What do you do when your husband refuses to end the affair? You’ve prayed. You’ve pleaded. You’ve cried more tears than you can count. And yet, he’s still choosing the affair over your marriage. So where does that leave you? What can you do, and just as importantly, what can’t you do?
Sis, if this is you today, I want you to know this: You are not powerless. You are not alone. And this is not the end of your story. So let’s dive in and talk about what your next steps should be when your husband won’t end the affair.
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Why do women fall into the trap of comparing themselves to the affair person after betrayal?
In today's episode, we’re tackling a trap that so many betrayed wives fall into—competing with the affair person. If you've ever felt like you need to “win” your spouse back by trying to be sexier, more exciting, or more like the other woman, this episode is for you. We’re going to break down why this mindset is harmful and give you five powerful ways to stop competing and start reclaiming your God-given worth.
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🚨TRIGGER WARNING🚨
Today's episode tackles a tough but necessary question that many Christian couples struggle with:
Is watching pornography or engaging in masturbation outside of intimacy with my spouse really considered cheating?
The world says no—it’s harmless, normal, and even beneficial.
But as Christians, we don’t define marriage through the world’s lens—we define it through God’s.
What is the standard for Christian Women and Men and What does God say about it?
We’ll explore why most Christian denominations consider these actions a serious sin against marital fidelity, break down the impact they have on a marriage, and give you steps to find healing.
We will also reveal the truth behind the industry and how it is designed to harm you, your marriage and your family.
And if this is something you or your spouse struggle with, don’t miss the end of the episode, where I’ll share how you can get the support you need inside my Marriage Redesigned program. Let’s dive in!"*
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Why Do Women Self-Sabotage After Betrayal?
After betrayal, the emotional pain can feel overwhelming. The enemy wants to keep you stuck in a cycle of fear, doubt, and self-destruction. Self-sabotage is often a subconscious way to protect yourself from further pain, but in reality, it keeps you from experiencing the full healing and restoration that God desires for you. But there is a better way. You can stop the self-sabotage and move forward into true healing.
Wan to know how?
Let's dive in...
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One of the most painful aspects of choosing to reconcile after marital betrayal is facing the disapproval of family members who don’t agree with your decision. They may believe they are protecting you, or they may struggle to trust your spouse again after seeing your pain. Sometimes, this disapproval can lead to being shut out, leaving you feeling isolated and torn between your marriage and your family.
If you are in this situation, know that you are not alone. Many women who choose the path of reconciliation face resistance from loved ones. While you cannot control their reactions, you can take intentional steps to rebuild communication and foster understanding.
In today's show, I am sharing 3 strategies to help open the door to reconnecting with your family.
Let's do this...
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Are you ready to reclaim your life and restore your marriage after betrayal?
Do you wonder if you could actually find healing inside of a group coaching program?
Will it be safe?
Today, I'm sharing 3 reasons why healing happens faster inside of a group coaching program when you have experienced betrayal trauma.
Let's talk about it...
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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If you’ve been struggling with overwhelming emotions, confusion, or even physical symptoms after betrayal, you are not alone. Today, we’re going to dive deep into the top five symptoms of betrayal trauma, how they affect you, and how you can begin the healing process.
I also have an exciting opportunity for you—my 6-month group coaching program, "Roadmap to Recovery: Healing from Marital Betrayal God’s Way," begins on February 10th. If you’re ready to accelerate your healing in a Christ-centered, supportive community, I’ll share more about how you can join at the end of this episode.
Let’s get started.
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 17, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Emotional dysregulation is a state where your emotions feel overwhelming, unpredictable, or out of control. It’s as if your emotional thermostat is broken—one moment you’re completely numb, and the next, you’re consumed by anger, grief, or panic. For women experiencing betrayal trauma, this is a common and natural response to the immense emotional shock and pain of discovering infidelity.
In today’s episode, we’re tackling that important topic: emotional dysregulation from betrayal.
What is it?How does it affect Christian women who’ve experienced the devastating impact of their husband’s betrayal?How can you begin to re-regulate your nervous system and find peace in Christ?Stay with me because we’ll also cover five practical steps you can take to regain emotional balance.
Let’s dive in.
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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What Is Betrayal Trauma? And...
Is it even real?
If you’ve ever felt dismissed or wondered whether what you’re experiencing is valid, I want you to lean in. We’ll talk about what betrayal trauma is, its symptoms, and, most importantly, three ways to start your healing journey.
So grab a cup of coffee or tea, find a quiet moment, and let’s dive in!
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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D-Day—discovery day—is a moment that forever alters the landscape of your life. It’s the day when the truth about your spouse’s betrayal comes to light, whether through confession, discovery, or confrontation.
The emotions you experience can be overwhelming, devastating and complex. But what is really happening to you?
PhysicallySpirituallyEmotionallyIf you’re a Christian woman seeking healing after the devastation of betrayal, you’re in the right place. Today, we’re talking about D-Day—the day you discover your spouse’s betrayal—and the emotional whirlwind that comes with it. We’ll also cover three critical steps to take immediately to secure your healing.
Let’s get started.
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Register for our next Group Coaching Program that starts February 10, 2025: Roadmap to Recovery - Healing from Marital Betrayal God's Way
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Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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2024 was a year of EXPLOSIVE growth for Beauty Beyond Betrayal Podcast! Thank you for being such a loyal listener!
I want to share with you a recap of 2024 and what's to come in 2025. If you are new, WELCOME! We know you are here by divine appointment. God wants to heal you and restore you to wholeness after marital betrayal. And YES, it is possible!
The Story of Us - Our journey from Betrayal to Redemption -- Lisa & Britt Limehouse | E197 The Story of Us - Part 2 | E1985 Ways to Help You get out of Survival Mode due to Betrayal Trauma | E181Unraveling Soul Ties: 3 Signs You May Have a Soul Tie After Infidelity | E179Tips to improve your emotional regulation after betrayal | E180My husband is addicted to Porn. What do I do? | E1885 Reasons why you hold on to the pain of the betrayal | E196What happens when you find out your husband has betrayed you? | E185Why Do I Keep Getting Triggered by My Spouse's Betrayal (and How Do I Stop)?" | E200Behavior Modification VS True Heart Transformation in the unfaithful spouse | E204 5 Practical Ways to Stop Reliving the Pain of Betrayal | E211::
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Schedule your FREE CONSULT
Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women
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Today’s episode is one many of you have asked for: "How to Stop Reliving the Pain of Betrayal."
Betrayal is devastating, and it’s all too easy to get stuck replaying the hurt, which only deepens the trauma.
But there is hope, and today, I’ll be sharing 5 practical ways to stop reliving the pain—and why doing so is vital for your healing.
Let’s dive in.
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The holiday season can be one of the most beautiful times of the year, but let’s be real—it can also amplify the pain of betrayal and trigger feelings of isolation, resentment, or loss. Today, I want to share three tips that will help you not just survive this holiday season, but truly thrive, even in the midst of betrayal.
If this resonates with you, grab a warm cup of tea, find a quiet spot, and let’s dive into this conversation that I believe could transform your holiday season.
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Today's episode dives into a topic that lies at the heart of healing after betrayal: The Role of Faith in Healing from Betrayal.
Betrayal shakes the foundation of trust, not only in your spouse but sometimes even in God. If you're wrestling with questions like, "Where was God in my pain?" or "Can my faith help me truly heal?", this episode is for you.
We'll explore how faith is a cornerstone of the healing process and share five practical ways to walk in faith while healing. So grab your journal or a cozy spot, and let’s dive in!
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Today, we’re tackling a deeply raw and vulnerable question: How can I, as the betrayed spouse, be thankful for anything when my husband’s affair has shattered my world? This is a question so many of my clients ask, and it’s understandable. Betrayal shakes the very foundation of trust, love, and hope in a marriage, making gratitude feel impossible.
But today, I want to offer you five practical ways to cultivate thankfulness after betrayal—not as a denial of your pain, but as a path toward healing and restoration.
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Have you completely shutdown since you discovered your husband's betrayal?When he opens his mouth to say something, do you cringe?Do you just want silence and not hear anything he has to say?
If you said YES to any of these, I completely understand.
I remember not wanting to hear a word out of my husband's mouth after I found out about his affair. I remember thinking, "It's all a lie anyway, so why do I want to hear anything he has to say."
I get it, Beautiful.
But, I also know that COMMUNICATION after betrayal is crucial if there is any chance of reconciliation.
Today, we’re tackling one of the most challenging but essential aspects of healing after betrayal: COMMUNICATION. Whether you’re struggling to express your feelings or unsure how to rebuild intimacy and trust through words, this episode is for you.
So, grab your journal or just take a deep breath, and let’s dive into ‘How to Communicate With Your Spouse After Betrayal.’”
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In this episode, we dive into a delicate but crucial topic: how to support a friend who’s just discovered her husband's betrayal. As Christians, we want to help in a way that truly honors God and provides comfort, but it can be challenging to know what to say or do. We'll discuss practical, compassionate ways to walk alongside her in this painful season, offering her the emotional and spiritual support she needs without overstepping boundaries. Whether you're unsure how to respond or want to be a source of Godly encouragement, this episode will equip you to be a steady presence in her life as she navigates through the heartbreak.
Supporting a Friend Through Marital Betrayal | E205
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Today’s episode is a very important one. We’re diving into how to support a friend who has just discovered she’s been sexually betrayed by her husband. It could have been through an affair or porn addiction - betrayal is betrayal.
It’s a heart-wrenching situation, and knowing how to respond with love, empathy, and wisdom can make all the difference.
Whether you’re supporting a friend or trying to understand what you needed when you were in a similar situation, this episode is for you.
So grab a cup of tea, find a quiet space, and let’s dive in."
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Grab our Early Black Friday Special: How to Thrive through the Holidays after Betrayal
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