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In this heartfelt episode of UnYoked Podcast, host Todd Turner sits down with Victory Lyric, a guest who sheds light on finding hope and renewal after life's devastating blows. They delve into the complexities of personal belief in the aftermath of divorce.
- Discussing how the concept of everything working out for good evolves after challenging life events like divorce.
- Victory Lyric shares her personal journey of overcoming the disappointment of divorce and readjusting her life and beliefs.
- Exploring the theological implications of bad things happening to good people and the struggle to maintain faith in such times.
- The balance of acknowledging victimhood in a broken world while avoiding a negative victim mindset, and the power of words in shaping one's life.
- Advice for those grappling with their own disappointments and the importance of allowing oneself time to process before trying to push positivity.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join us in a raw and revealing session on the 'UnYoked Podcast' as host Todd Turner teams up with guest Carrie Vitt in Season 2, Episode 3, titled "Losing Friends." In this intimate conversation, which delves deep into the personal upheaval following a divorce, we peel back the layers of church relationships, societal judgments, and the quest for genuine connection.
Timestamps:
- [00:01:15] Todd Turner's disillusion with the Bible as a self-help guide
- [00:04:40] The stigma around male emotion and friendship
- [00:08:10] Losing friends and the quest for authenticity post-divorce, with personal insights from Todd and Carrie
- [00:14:30] Rumors in the crosshairs: Trusting the truth in times of trial
- [00:19:55] Defying societal and cultural religious norms: Staying true to one's heart
- [00:26:40] Friendship dynamics in flux: The evolution of coed camaraderie after a breakup
- [00:33:20] Supportive vs. Judgmental: Friends who stand by you in the storm
- [00:38:50] Singlehood and suspicion: The single woman's struggle within married circles
- [00:43:35] Divorce's double edge: Losing a spouse and friend, and the complexities of keeping mutual friends
- [00:51:10] A rally cry for men's groups: Craving connection beyond the altar
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join host Todd Turner and guest Carrie Korem Vitt for a forthright and personal look into the complexities of navigating life after divorce in Season 2, Episode 2 of the UnYoked Podcast. Dive into the heart of trauma, healing, and moving forward as we explore the often-misunderstood journey through the lens of faith, forgiveness, and self-discovery.
- The emotional impact of divorce on individuals and their children, and the importance of maintaining a respectful relationship with an ex-spouse for the sake of the kids.- Strategies for personal healing and growth post-divorce, including the significance of self-reflection and avoiding hasty decisions such as jumping into a new relationship.
- The role of faith and forgiveness in the healing process, with a Christ-centered approach to moving forward and healing from past hurts.
- The pitfalls of receiving and acting upon well-intended but potentially harmful advice during the vulnerable time post-divorce.
- Insights on the social challenges and lack of support some divorcees face from their church communities, and practical steps towards finding peace and restoration.
Divorce Support, Coping with Divorce, Divorce Healing, Divorce Recovery, Christian Divorce Support, Co-Parenting after Divorce, Forgiving Your Ex, Finding Yourself After Divorce, Divorce Community, Church and Divorce, Personal Growth after Divorce, Divorce and Children, Emotional Healing, Divorce TraumaSupport the show
UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join Todd Turner and special guest Carrie Korem Vitt in the UnYoked Podcast Season 2 Premiere as they dive deep into the heart-wrenching and often taboo topic of divorce within the Christian community [00:00 - 05:00]. With unflinching honesty, they explore the challenges faced by believers trapped between the extremes of enduring unhappy marriages and the ease of falling out of love [05:01 - 10:00]. The episode shines a light on the silent struggles within abusive relationships, as they advocate for a wider support network and trusted counsel [10:01 - 15:00]. Listen in as they reveal the plights of their "avatar," a single Kansas woman, to discuss the stigma and pressure faced by many in similar circumstances [15:01 - 20:00]. They tackle topics from the fears of leaping into the unknown to the intense pressures of religious dogma, always emphasizing the paramount importance of one's well-being [20:01 - 25:00].
Throughout the conversation, Carrie shares her personal journey of feeling crushed in an abusive marriage and the path to finding help and clarity [25:01 - 30:00]. Todd and Carrie discuss the complex ripple effects of divorce, with poignant reflections on the significance of children, community, and the church's role in these challenging times [30:01 - 35:00]. As the discussion progresses, they cautiously dissect the misbeliefs surrounding quick fixes to happiness post-divorce and stress the critical nature of communication in fostering successful marriages [35:01 - 40:00].
The episode also addresses the topic of moving on, understanding one's emotional needs, and the potential pitfalls of dating too soon after a split [40:01 - 45:00]. In the final segment, they contemplate the tension between finding joy amidst brokenness and the necessity of offering more mercy and support to those fighting to mend or responsibly leave their broken marriages [45:01 - 50:00]. This eye-opening and heartfelt episode is a must-listen for those grappling with the complexities of faith and divorce, pulling back the curtain on a subject that is often shrouded in silence within the church.
Don't miss this powerful conversation that strikes at the heart of Christian values, love, and the sometimes harrowing quest for personal peace. Subscribe, share, and embark on this challenging journey with Todd and Ca
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join us in the premiere episode of UnYoked Season 2 where host Todd Turner welcomes the esteemed Carrie Vitt, a celebrated functional nutritionist and writer who's bravely sharing her tumultuous journey through divorce from a Christian perspective. From the depths of despair to finding hope and empowering others, Carrie uncovers the raw emotions and the healing process of her 21-year marriage dissolution. Engage in deep conversations about faith, wellness, and personal growth as this episode challenges stigmas and encourages open discussion.
- [00:01:30] A New Beginning: Todd Turner introduces Season 2 and Carrie Korem Vitt
- [00:03:15] Carrie's Transition: Back to Maiden Name and Life Changes
- [00:05:50] The Unspoken Christian Divorce: Shattering Silence on a Sensitive Topic
- [00:08:40] The Emotional Gravity of Divorce Podcasting
- [00:10:20] Carrie Korem Vitt: From Thyroid Health to Emotional Wellness
- [00:14:05] The Cultural Complexity of Divorce: Perspectives from Home and Abroad
- [00:17:45] Gender and Cultural Viewpoints: Male Lens in Female Experiences
- [00:21:30] Long-suffering in Silence: Carrie Discusses Her Resistance to Separation
- [00:24:10] Real Talk: Sharing Scars and the Role of Authenticity in Healing
- [00:27:00] A Crucial Pivot: The Decision to Separate and Seek Divorce
- [00:30:55] Wellness Beyond the Physical: A Holistic Approach to Health in Times of Stress
- [00:34:40] Journey Through Fire: Surviving an Abusive Relationship and Finding Strength in Faith
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Make sure to follow and subscribe to the UnYoked Podcast for a season filled with unflinching honesty, heartfelt stories, and thought-provoking discussions aimed at healing, discovery, and connection.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Welcome to Episode 17 of the UnYoked Podcast: 'The Secrets to Rebuilding Your Life After Divorce' with your compassionate and insightful host, Todd Turner. This episode dives deep into the personal and spiritual rebirth that can emerge from the ashes of a Christian divorce. Todd takes us on a journey of empathy and healing, filled with thought-provoking insights and practical advice for anyone navigating the aftermath of a marriage’s end. From redefining 'good' in God's eyes (22:14) to embracing the role of tragedy in our lives (27:50), listeners will discover the transformative power of perseverance and faith.
Todd candidly discusses the stigma and loss of community faced by divorcees within the church (09:32), shattering misconceptions about divorce recovery and the power of connection and understanding (03:56). Tune in for personal anecdotes (15:12) and real-world advice for dealing with blended family challenges and forming new relationships with a clean slate (36:08).
This episode cuts through "cheap t-shirt theology" (29:30) and emplores listeners to embrace their place in God's grand narrative (32:40), all while addressing the very real challenges and opportunities that present themselves post-divorce (12:20).
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Welcome to Episode 16 of the UnYoked Podcast with host Todd Turner: "Intimacy and the Single Divorced Christian." In this episode, we dive deep into the taboo yet pressing topics that face divorced Christians today. We explore a range of intimate matters [00:02:15], from the moral implications of masturbation [00:03:45] to the real definition of sex and establishing boundaries in new relationships [00:05:30]. Todd Turner challenges the hypocritical judgments [00:07:20] and the silence that often shrouds sexual behavior within the Christian community [00:11:50].
With candor and insight, Todd shares personal experiences and discussions [00:14:10] that shed light on the complexities of navigating intimacy as a single, divorced believer [00:18:25]. We confront the damaging effects of "purity culture" [00:19:45] and debunk myths about God's promises relating to sex and marriage [00:21:00].
Join us as we address the sensitive issue of friends with benefits [00:32:22], recommend key resources for healing and shame [00:35:55], and discuss how to cultivate a healthy, biblical view of sexuality
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join Todd Turner in Episode 15 of the UnYoked Podcast, titled "Keeping Secrets after your Divorce," as he navigates the delicate terrains of grace, transparency, and redemption in the aftermath of a relationship. Timestamped discussions take you through an enlightening conversation that explores personal anecdotes and biblical parallels, leaving no stone unturned in the quest for honest post-divorce connections.
Use the tips provided by Todd to approach your dating life with openness, bringing forth your true self. Stay tuned for heartfelt guidance on when to share sensitive information and how to handle potential partners' responses. #Divorce #PostDivorceDating #Relationships #ChristianPodcast #DatingAdvice #TransparencyInLove #RedemptionStory #UnYokedPodcast
Remember to subscribe, rate, and review the UnYoked Podcast for more insightful discussions on navigating life, love, and faith post-divorce.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join host Todd Turner on the UnYoked Podcast in Episode 14: "The Dark Truths Behind Happily Ever After," where he delves deep into the soul-stirring journey of post-divorce recovery. This episode is an unfiltered examination of life after the crumbling of matrimonial dreams, assessing if societal norms have truly given us a realistic understanding of marriage (00:02:15 - 00:06:40). Capturing insights from his own life altering changes, from a secular career to a purpose-driven life in ministry (00:22:10 - 00:25:30), Turner fervently discusses the ripple effects of divorce on personal identity, societal expectations, and intergenerational family dynamics (00:10:50 - 00:13:20). If you're wrestling with the realities of starting afresh or seeking solace in spirituality (00:08:00 - 00:09:25), this is a must-listen. Episode 14 does not shy away from the hardships faced when faith, hope, and love are put to the ultimate test. Find motivation to blossom from your most vulnerable state and gain a healthier perspective on life's unexpected turns (00:18:55 - 00:20:45). Come for the raw truths, stay for the liberating freedom as you navigate your roadmap to healing (00:27:50 - 00:30:00). #DivorceRecovery #BrokenWorldHealing
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join Todd Turner on the UnYoked Podcast as we dive deep into the timeless quest for love and connection in Episode 13, "Finding Your Next Forever Partner." Whether you're starting anew after a Christian divorce or looking to refine your approach to dating, this episode is packed with provocative insights and advice tailored for the modern Christian single. Let's explore the timestamps:
- [00:07:30] The surprising truth about men's pursuit and women's independence in relationships.
- [00:13:45] A critical analysis of the three types of men in the dating game.
- [00:18:50] Todd's take on emotional connections and the sex-emotion dynamic.
- [00:25:40] Insightful promotion of "Unyoked Choices" - a guide through wise divorce decisions.
- [00:32:00] The importance of being "equally yoked" and authenticity in Christian partnerships.
- [00:38:25] How to create a plan for dating and marriage that aligns with your faith and values.
- [00:44:50] A cautionary tale about aligning on key lifestyle aspects before saying "I do".
- [00:50:35] Recognizing red flags and trusting your instinct for a healthier relationship.
- [00:58:10] The role of culture and lifestyle in finding the right partner.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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UnYoked Podcast presents Episode 12: "Counseling Post Divorce - Just Do It," a candid conversation hosted by Todd Turner exploring the intersection of faith and psychological healing after marital dissolution. In this enlightening session, Todd addresses the church’s shortcomings in dealing with complex post-divorce issues and why spiritual remedies like prayer may not be enough (00:02:13). Hear why some pastors may be doing more harm than good when it comes to mental health and counseling services (00:05:40), and discover why it's essential to collaborate with professionals who transcend traditional church boundaries (00:06:55).
Whether you're struggling with unresolved personal issues or you're searching for a post-divorce counselor that aligns with your faith (00:41:10), Episode 12 offers insights into balancing truth with grace in Christian counseling and the journey towards self-discovery (00:45:27). It's a must-listen for anyone seeking growth and healing on the other side of divorce.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Welcome to UnYoked Podcast Episode 11: "Rediscovering Identity - Finding Yourself Post-Divorce," hosted by the compassionate and insightful Todd Turner. In this pivotal episode, we navigate the tumultuous waters of life after a Christian divorce, confronting both the anguish and the opportunity that come with letting go and moving on. (00:00:10)
Join us as Todd delves into the stages of shock, the reality of being divorced, and how to embrace the 'new you' season. (00:02:40) Hear firsthand how Todd grappled with guilt and ultimately found freedom and personal growth in his post-divorce journey. (00:05:15)
This episode is packed with practical encouragement, from resetting your life in singleness (00:10:20), sidestepping the social media comparison trap (00:15:30), to placing spiritual health at the forefront of your recovery process. (00:18:28)
Discover why "The Body Keeps the Score" is a pivotal read for physical well-being post-divorce (00:22:12) and why journeying with others can be life-changing. (00:24:50) Learn why meaningful friendships are a post-divorce lifeline (00:28:30), and how a simple handwritten letter can strengthen those bonds. (00:32:22)
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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What does Grace and Divorce have to do with one another? Well, a whole lot.
Join Todd Turner in a soul-stirring Episode 10 of the UnYoked Podcast: 'The Transformative Power of Grace in a Divorce'. Delve into a journey from religious constraints to liberating spirituality, as Todd shares eye-opening insights into the true nature of grace, challenging the misconceptions that plague modern Christian culture.
[00:05:12] Discover how extending grace, even in the wake of betrayal, can rebuild bridges and foster healing. [00:17:45] Get inspired by 'The Grace Awakening' by Chuck Swindahl and witness how it has transformed Todd's understanding of religion versus relationship with God. [00:29:00] Understand the delicate balance between justice and grace in the throes of divorce and the importance of prioritizing mercy. [00:32:22] Todd dives into deep reflections on his personal faith journey, shedding light on the transformation one undergoes when breaking free from the pressures of religious 'dos and don'ts'. [00:44:55] Learn the importance of 'horizontal grace' in our day-to-day relationships and how it can cultivate a culture of forgiveness and empathy.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Join host Todd Turner on the UnYoked Podcast, Episode 9, aptly titled [Edgy Title], as we delve into the heart and soul of Christian co-parenting after divorce. Todd shares his experienced insights on maintaining a child-centric approach despite the whirlwind of post-marital challenges. He uncovers the key to amicable relations with your ex-spouse and offers actionable advice for keeping the peace and prioritizing your little ones.
[00:01:40] Discover Todd's personal journey through divorce and how Micah 6:8 guides him in his co-parenting strategy.
[00:03:15] Todd lays down the golden rules of co-parenting, from communicating respectfully to ensuring consistency for the kids.
[00:05:20] Learn about the resilience of prayer in overcoming single-parent struggles and how Todd's faith has been his anchor through tumultuous times.
[00:07:30] Episode 9 brings a big announcement: the UnYoked podcast series, initially set for 17 episodes, will now continue with fresh perspectives from a female co-host, diving deeper into divorce recovery and single living as a devoted Christian.
[00:09:45] Todd invites listeners to be active community members, giving feedback on episodes and sharing their personal stories of navigating co-parenting waters.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Embark on a raw and insightful journey with Todd Turner in Episode 8: "Your children are suffering post-divorce," a hard-hitting exploration of the often-overlooked emotional aftermath faced by children of divorce. Discover strategies and heartfelt advice that will empower you to navigate these turbulent times with compassion and wisdom.
[Disclaimer: "Unyoked" is not a replacement for professional counseling or legal advice. If you or your children need immediate assistance, please seek the support of qualified professionals.]
- [00:02:00] Crucial Coparenting Tactics for Child Stability Post-Split- [00:07:30] The Pillars of Effective Communication with Your Children
- [00:15:00] The Bitter Truth: Your Divorce-Sparked Hypocrisy and Its Cost to Kids
- [00:22:45] From Marriage to Single Parenting: Juggling Identity in a Christian Framework
- [00:28:20] Real-world Scenarios: The Single Parent Dilemma and Dating While Divorced
- [00:39:55] Prioritizing Self-Care While Supporting Your Child Through Their Grief Odyssey
- [00:52:10] Complex Blended Families: Charting the Path Through Love and Assurance
- [01:00:00] Todd Turner’s Personal Take on Daddyhood Under Duress
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
Visit ToddTurner.com/Divorce for more resources. -
In this episode of the Unyoked podcast, join us as we delve into the challenges of loneliness after divorce and the journey to finding purpose and meaningful connections as Christian divorcees. Host Todd Turner shares personal experiences and expert insights, guiding you through the cold, hard realities of post-divorce loneliness and offering practical steps to overcome it. Hear stories of resilience, discover the importance of healthy boundaries, and explore the potential for new friendships and fulfilling activities. Together, let's embrace the healing process, practice self-compassion, and unlock the possibilities of a fulfilling life beyond divorce. Join the conversation and be empowered to embrace a new chapter with hope and assurance.
Topics Covered:
- The Cold, Hard Realities of Loneliness After Divorce
- Coping Strategies for Dealing with Loneliness
- Risks and Consequences of Seeking Companionship Out of Loneliness
- Steps to Overcoming Loneliness After Divorce
- Embracing the Healing Process and Finding a Path to Recovery
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Welcome to Episode 6 of the UnYoked Podcast, where host Todd Turner delves into the sensitive topic of divorce within the Christian church. In this eye-opening discussion, Turner shatters misconceptions and confronts the challenges divorced individuals face when seeking solace and understanding in their faith communities.
For feedback and discussion: toddturner.com/divorce
00:00 Navigating Christian divorce in today's American churches.05:08 Church teachings on divorce leave members feeling unwelcome.
06:58 Challenges of divorce in church community discussed.
09:55 Churches' judgmental treatment of divorce and remarriage.
15:26 Navigating Christian divorce with faith and struggle.
18:50 Church groups should focus on real support.
20:45 Donating aid; church focus on show over help.
25:19 Misguided advice leads to disappointment and hurt.
28:30 Church prioritizes systems over actual ministry outreach.
30:37 Church singles ministry: meat markets or healing?
35:27 Men overworked, prioritize family and recovery.
37:55 Subscribe, rate, review, share, follow, pray, resources.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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Welcome to Episode 5 of the *UnYoked Podcast* with your host Todd Turner. In this stirring installment, "Online Dating for Divorcees Stinks," we dive deep into the murky waters of dating as a divorced Christian in the age of omnipresent dating apps. Todd tackles everything from the complexity of matching your political beliefs with your potential partner (02:34), to unwrapping the misconception of "Christian enough" in the online dating scene.
Join us as we discuss the evolving landscape of Christian dating and how dating apps have revolutionized the way we connect and find potential partners. We dive into the complexities of navigating these platforms while remaining faithful to our beliefs and values.
03:49 Dating in small town politics, limited choices.
08:32 Healed, understand preferences, use dating app solution.
10:52 Christians struggle with stigma of dating apps.
15:12 Dread spiritual choice, unclear meaning, political distancing.
17:53 Healing before dating, healthy attention, and warning.
24:21 Women being fooled by men on social media.
29:32 Navigating complexities of political affiliation and love.
34:50 Recognize red flags and act accordingly.
Support the showUnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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After the storm of divorce, many Christian divorcees find themselves navigating not just the pain of a broken marriage, but also the complexities of shifting friendships. In this heartfelt episode, host Todd Turner delves into the all-too-common experience of why friends may abandon you post-divorce, and how to form new, supportive connections. Whether it’s the awkwardness of couple friendships, societal judgments, or simply the fear and grief that come with change, Todd tackles these issues with compassion and insight, sharing personal stories and biblical wisdom. Discover how to treasure real friendships, create meaningful coed groups, and approach these challenges with grace. Tune in to Episode 4 of the UnYoked Podcast, "Finding Faithful Friends: Navigating Friendships After Divorce as a Christian," and start fostering a supportive community that will stand by you in times of trials and transition. For more empowering resources, visit our website and step into a journey of recovery and reconnection.
Welcome to the UnYoked Podcast, where we explore the untold stories of divorce from a Christian perspective. Join Todd Turner, your Creative Digital Guide, as he dives deep into the emotional and spiritual challenges faced by those going through the process of unyoking. In each episode, we'll discuss the impact of divorce on friendships, family, and personal growth. Tune in as we share inspiring stories, practical advice, and valuable insights to help you navigate the complexities of divorce and rediscover your purpose. Don't forget to subscribe and join our supportive community!
Support the showUnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
Visit ToddTurner.com/Divorce for more resources. -
You just took the courageous step of filing for divorce! Whether you've already finalized the paperwork and are eager to embrace your new life or find yourself caught in the complexities of separating two intertwined lives, this episode of "UnYoked" is tailored specifically for you.
Dive into the emotions, challenges, and opportunities of post-divorce life with Todd Turner on the Unyoked Podcast. Learn from his experience and gain insights on what not to do during the critical 90-day period after divorce.
Divorce Next Steps Resource:
https://www.toddturner.com/unyoked-christian-divorce-decisions/Join us as we explore the crucial period of the first 90 days after filing for divorce and provide valuable advice for Christians navigating this transitional phase. We understand that divorce proceedings can sometimes take longer than anticipated, especially when considerations such as finances or children come into play. But rest assured, we are here to offer sound guidance during this critical time.
In this episode, we delve into practical advice, emotional support, and essential considerations that can help you navigate the initial phase of divorce with confidence. Whether you're dealing with finalizing legal matters or addressing the emotional aftermath, we've got you covered.
Our expert guests share valuable insights and strategies to ensure your well-being during this transitional period. We discuss financial considerations, providing guidance on budgeting, asset division, and rebuilding your financial foundation. Additionally, we explore co-parenting strategies to help you establish a healthy and supportive environment for your children.
As Christians, we understand the unique challenges faced during divorce. We provide faith-based perspectives on forgiveness, healing, and finding renewed purpose in this new chapter of your life. Our aim is to support you in embracing your journey of self-discovery, personal growth, and healing from the pain.
Join us as we provide practical tips, expert advice, and a roadmap to help you navigate the first 90 days after filing for divorce. Let us walk alongside you during this transformative phase, empowering you to emerge stronger and ready to embrace new opportunities.
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UnYoked - The Post Divorce Podcast: Navigating your divorce and recovery with grace.
Divorce and the new single life is hard but it is even more complex when you made a promise to God to "keep your marriage till death do you part." American Christian culture doesn't make navigating the decisions and ripple effects of divorce any easier. Christian marriage and divorce advice runs rampant yet often conflicts with the realities of pain, abuse, loneliness, and the real world.
God has a lot more to say than, “I hate divorce.” God gives a standard and then graciously restores and renews people even when His standard isn't met.Those of us who are navigating the life changing event of unYoking from a spouse and/or uprooting a family have to journey through some dark, lonely, and confusing places. Our issues aren't frequently tackled from the pulpit and the advice we receive isn't always relevant to our current place.
The UnYoked podcast is just for you. A safe place to wonder, ponder, relate, and consider your steps of navigating a divorce, singleness, and the future. A place where we live in the tension between God's plan and the realities of living in a broken world with broken people and broken relationships. Buckle up... remove the mask.. and let's get real about discussing the ripple effects of divorce and equip ourselves to survive being unYoked as a Christian.
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