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  • Last year, I came across an essay called “Book Publishing is Broken” by today’s podcast guest, Kathleen Schmidt .

    Using her decades of experience in book PR & strategy, Kathleen laid out several reasons why traditional publishing fails writers. (If you haven’t already read that post, you’ll get to hear Kathleen’s reasons in our interview).

    And the essay really stood out…not just because Kathleen presented solutions to the problems she diagnosed…but also because her perspective was clear-sighted, well-informed, but also so honest, direct, and personal.

    I’ve been hooked on Publishing Confidential , Kathleen’s Substack newsletter, ever since. With over 5,000 subscribers, I think of it as one of the must-reads for any writer looking to understand today’s publishing landscape.

    In our interview, we talk about that landscape, about the utility of hiring an independent publicist, and the value of creating work that reaches beyond traditional media outlets.

    We also discuss why memoirs are one of the hardest categories for agents to sell right now, and what authors can consider to make their books more marketable.

    Kathleen Schmidt is the Founder and President of Kathleen Schmidt Public Relations, a boutique firm specializing in branding, PR, marketing, consulting, and business strategy for authors, publishers, and booksellers. She also writes and publishes the Publishing Confidential newsletter.

    Warning: this episode includes a brief mention of suicidal ideation. If you or someone you love is struggling with a mental health crisis, you can contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK (8255). (In Spanish, dial 1-888-628-9454).

    Some of my biggest takeaways:

    Publishing too many books and lack of marketing support are primary reasons why the industry struggles.

    Publishers produce more books than the market can sustain, often neglecting to back many with substantial marketing efforts. "They publish far too many books," Schmidt states unequivocally. It's a perplexing situation that challenges authors and industry insiders alike. The ramifications of this are profound—not just for the discoverability and success of individual titles but for the long-term sustainability of publishing entities themselves.

    Schmidt expresses her consternation over the lack of direction regarding advances and acquisitions: "It's all kind of garbled and I feel like if you're not able to pay authors an amount that they can live on, what are we doing?" These pivotal industry dynamics are not just numbers on a spreadsheet but represent the livelihoods of creatives whose stories shape our culture.

    Authors need to participate actively in the marketing and publicity of their books, using strategies tailored to their specific audience.

    In the digital age, a robust social media presence is often considered non-negotiable. But where should authors concentrate their efforts? Schmidt advocates for targeted strategies—"find where your audience lives when they're not reading books"—and identifies threads and Instagram as effective platforms. However, she aptly recognizes that "every author should do" does not mean straitjacketing all writers into a one-size-fits-all approach. Instead, authors need to be authentic, engage with their readers, and leverage digital surrogates when necessary to carry their message.

    Schmidt's distinction between pitch-focused publicity versus sales-driven strategies underscores the complexity of book marketing in the current landscape. "I am the publicist who thinks about how are we going to sell the book?" she poses, aligning author success with commercial viability and practical application.

    Memoir faces challenges due to market oversaturation and authors should consider additional angles to be sellable.

    The realm of memoir publishing is undergoing profound change, leaving many authors pondering the fate of their personal stories. With the market oversaturated by similar stories, distinguishing a memoir requires more than just a riveting life story—it requires a unique angle or an additional layer of value such as the 'Memoir Plus' concept.

    Schmidt pushes authors to grapple with the real question: "is it a book or is it an essay?" This discernment is crucial in a world where the distinction between public sharing and a publishable memoir is increasingly blurred by the constancy of social media narratives. The trend now demands memoirists to consider if their life narratives are enough to stand alone as books or if they are better shared in smaller, perhaps digital, formats.

    "Know who your audience is. Be very specific about that because, again, your book is not for everyone."

    Writing and sharing personal stories can connect with audiences deeply, but authors should thoughtfully consider the platform and format.

    In a moment of vulnerability, Schmidt shares her battles with depression, shaping a compelling narrative of resilience. This particular insight is significant not only for its personal nature but for its illustration of the human element that pervades the publishing world—a reminder that beneath industry trends and strategies lie individual stories of struggle and perseverance.

    Writing her substac essay on depression was both a personal catharsis and a means to reach others amidst their trials. Her advice resonates powerfully: "tomorrow is a new day... it's a brave decision to be alive."

    Additional Links:

    * Kathleen Schmidt Public Relations

    * Find Kathleen on Twitter | Threads | Instagram | Tiktok

    * “Do You Need to Build a Platform?” by Kathleen Schmidt, Feb 6 2024.

    * “Book Publishing is Broken,” by Kathleen Schmidt, July 19, 2023.

    * “A Personal Note About Mental Health,” by Kathleen Schmidt, May 12, 2023.

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  • In this converation with memoirist Abigail Thomas, we discuss the backstory of writing Safekeeping, and that now-classic memoir was initially turned down by all the editors the book was sent, except for one.

    We talk about how crafting a memoir-in-fragments like Safekeeping allows a writer to depict memories in a way a more conventional structure doesn’t permit. She talks about why writing what you don’t remember is as important as what you do; and the value of following what interests and obsesses you, even if it doesn't seem to go anywhere at first.

    Thomas’s is one of the great voices in memoir—shrewd, warm, devoid of self-pity—and like all wise teachers, she imparts insights about a life well spent, even when talking about a book well-crafted.

    This conversation was recorded in 2022 and just updated.

    Abigail Thomas is the author of several memoirs, including Safekeeping, A Three Dog Life, What Comes Next and How to Like it, and most recently Still Life at Eighty, as well as three works of fiction: Getting Over Tom, An Actual Life, and Herb’s Pajamas.

    Some of my biggest takeaways

    “Chronological order makes little sense to me…”

    Most of Thomas’s memoirs eschew the conventional chronological approach, opting instead for fragmented structures that mirror the way memory works. Abigail Thomas believes that "life has been lived like a series of moments," and memoirs are stronger when they reflect that.

    "Well, I will confess that I have a poor memory, except for the things I remember. So putting them in chronological order makes very little sense to me. It's why this now? Why am I thinking of this now? Why this memory? Write it down. You'll find out why. The trick is not to boss them around, you know. Just let them come, and they will."

    This memoir-in-fragments approach unexpectedly draws the reader in

    Safekeeping, for example, is comprised of dozens of short sections—some four or five pages, others as brief as a single sentence. Then there’s the narrator herself, frequently switching between past and present tense, or between first- and third-person.

    With all that lack of connective tissue, all that shifting of tenses and point-of-view, you’d expect the narrative flow to be constantly disrupted. Instead this approach creates a genuine connection with readers, in part because it invites them to piece together the narrative puzzle

    The key to writing a great memoir-in-fragments is to have a strong, unified voice

    Married for the first time at 18, remarried at 27—Abigail Thomas’s life was full of wrong turns. She had a lot of living under her belt. Yet the narrator here keeps things light and crisp, avoiding self-judgment. Instead, here the persona is vulnerable, startlingly honest, unsentimental, wry, and above all, entertaining.

    In The Situation and the Story, Vivian Gornick writes that great memoirs feature a “truth-telling” narrator. We trust the voices of George Orwell, Annie Dillard, or James Baldwin because they seem so honest and self-aware. Thomas’s narrator is one of these.

    "The more vulnerable you make yourself, the stronger you become”

    Thomas urges writers to be honest and vulnerable, since revealing truths about oneself tends to have a liberating effect. This openness serves as a conduit through which readers can see their truths reflected in the author’s life, reinforcing the fact we all tend to feel similar things inside.

    The key is to write without an agenda—to connect with an emotion and let go of outcomes.

    “You need to write about the stuff you don't wanna write about…[but] you have to find a side door, and it isn't therapy. Writing isn't therapy. But if you're truthful, and honest, and write what you need to write, it has the effect of you've made something out of it separate from yourself, you've revealed things to yourself about yourself, and it's a way of forgiving yourself, you know, and others.”

    “The past is every bit as unpredictable as the future”

    The unpredictable nature of memory can be troubling for both writer and reader. Yet, Thomas says that this unpredictability is where the real magic of memoir writing lies. The unpredictable becomes an asset, turning writing into a journey of self-discovery and an act of creative courage.

    “I don't believe in chronology. And the older you get, the more you don't believe in chronology or even time. What is it? I mean, I'm at the age now where I live entirely in the moment. Sometimes the moment is a good one, sometimes it's a more interesting one, but that's where I am. I never think about the future. I do have memories, and I write about them because I wrote somewhere, ‘You discover that the past is every bit as unpredictable as the future.’ And for me, the future is behind me. You know, I don't have... I just have now.”

    What you don’t remember can be as powerful as what you do

    Many writers (me included) tend to get hung up by the fact they don’t remember enough when it comes to memoir. But embracing the fallability of memory is exactly the point of memoir, says Thomas. It’s what makes a narrator more authentic—and believable:

    “I really do think that what you don't remember belongs in there, because in the course of writing this, you may begin to remember, or you may begin to remember why you don't remember. But it is interesting for the reader to know that the writer is at least honest enough to say, ‘I don't remember why I did this. I don't remember what came before,’ because it's so human.”

    Discussed on this episode

    * “Getting Started” - reflections on how Abby started writing Safekeeping

    * Safekeeping: Some True Stories from a Life Bookshop.org | Amazon

    * What Comes Next and How to Like it Bookshop.org | Amazon

    * Still Life at Eighty: The Next Interesting Thing Bookshop.org | The Golden Notebook | Amazon

    * Read my essay “How to create narrative tension in a memoir-in-fragments”

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  • In this episode, I talk with author, musician and audio producer Chérie Newman about her humorous experiences pet-sitting unruly critters during the pandemic. The need to turn this one-time side hustle into a fulltime gig coincided with a more sobering reality: the way that wealthy out-of-state residents reshaped her hometown of Bozeman, Montana.

    Newman merges both stories into her debut memoir, Other People’s Pets: Critters, Careers, and Capitalism in Yellowstone Country. We also discuss her highly focused approach to writing, which helped her complete a first draft of her memoir in 83 days. And we delve into her decision to pursue an unconventional publishing route, one that allowed her to retain control and profits, and permitted her to get her book out quickly.

    Chérie Newman is a former producer and and on-air host for Montana Public Radio, and a freelance writer. She founded a weekly literary program, The Write Question, which is still broadcast on several public radio stations, and her articles and essays have appeared in many publications. She is the owner of Magpie Audio Productions, and produces The Book I Had to Write podcast.

    Some of my biggest takeaways:

    Chérie was compelled to write Other People's Pets less as a typical “feel good” story and more to explore the humorous challenges of corraling disobedient pets—and her own deep connection to animals.

    In this interview, Newman describes how she set about writing her memoir after frequently hearing from friends that she ought to record her stories. But while the unexpected challenges she faced pet-sitting unruly dogs made for humorous stories, the reality of her job sometimes left her unmoored. "I came away from this year of intense pet sitting with a little bit of PTSD," she says.

    The pandemic brought about immediate and dramatic changes to Bozeman, Montana as real estate prices soared and community dynamics shifted.

    Newman's memoir addresses some of the significant societal shifts she saw in her home city of Bozeman, Montana during the pandemic. And our interview highlights rapid socioeconomic changes, with real estate prices doubling and the influx of people seeking “the last best place,” as writer William Kittredge dubbed Montana.

    One of the drivers of this influx was no doubt a glorified depiction of Montana in shows like Yellowstone, which don’t have a lot of basis in reality, at least as Newman sees it. She juxtaposes media depictions of Montana with some of starker realities for long-term residents.

    People were moving here so fast that there was no place for anybody to live. We started getting, for the first time, rows and rows of RVs parked on streets that were near places that were going to be subdivisions but weren't yet. And it was just insanity.

    This phenomenon, fueled by the pandemic, led to a bifurcation of the local community where “there's a lot of animosity between people who've lived here for a long time and people who've moved in.”

    Newman set an ambitious and structured writing goal, completing the first draft of her book in less than her goal of 90 days…

    While Other People’s Pets isn’t Newman’s first attempt at a book, it’s one she was able to draft in record speed, thanks in part to her discipline of setting a writing schedule of (at least) 90 minutes a day for 90 days, and the transformational journey of taking that manuscript through numerous drafts.

    And so there were some times when it would be 7.30 at night and I still hadn't done my 90 minutes, but because I had this little chart on the wall and I was making, I was ticking off….I committed to those 90 days, and I committed to those 90 minutes, and I wasn't gonna let bad self-confidence defeat me.

    …But the book really came together in revisions.

    In this interview we also discuss the ways Newman’s approach mimicked but also diverged from strategies such as one recommended by Allison K. Williams in her book Seven Drafts: Self-Edit Like a Pro from Blank Page to Book.

    I did pay attention to [Williams’s] Seven Drafts but I just also went way beyond seven drafts because every time I went through it I found a way to make it better and I found a way to make it more succinct and I found a way to say what I wanted to say in a richer, deeper, clearer way.

    Choosing the Path Less Traveled in Publishing

    The publishing journey that Newman chose reflects a rising trend among authors seeking greater autonomy. She discusses the importance of time, quality control, and financial considerations in her decision to forgo the search for an agent and large publishing deal.

    In her case, Newman chose a publisher that served as both a curator and distributor, enabling her to maintain control over the final product and gain a more significant portion of profits from sales.

    In many ways, Newman’s approach is also indicative of the changing relationship to hybrid and self-publishing, as authors now feel more empowered to make decisions that align their financial goals with their visions for their work.

    "I decided I didn't want to... wait two years to have my book published and getting none of thse [returns],” she says.

    Discussed on this show

    * Other People’s Pet: Critters, Careers, and Capitalism in Yellowstone Country Bookshop.org | Barnes & Noble | Amazon

    * Magpie Studio Productions, specializing in storytelling and podcast production

    * “Economic Disparity in the Treasure State,” blog post about economic realities in Montana

    * “How to Write a Book” blog post about publishing Other People’s Pets

    * Listen to my episode with editor Allison K. Williams, author of Seven Drafts

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  • In this episode, I talk with author, professor, journalist, and rabbi Jay Michaelson. After publishing nine other books of nonfiction and poetry, and hundreds of stories for publications like Rolling Stone, The Daily Beast, and New York magazine, Michaelson has just come out with his first work of fiction, The Secret That's Not a Secret.

    We discuss the nearly 20-year journey behind the writing of this book, and how the tensions between sexuality and religious beliefs in the lives of its Orthodox Jewish characters reflect some of Jay’s own journey.

    As an expert on Kabbalah and heretical (historic) figures like Jacob Frank, Michaelson has made a career of carving out a space for mystical imagination beyond patriarchy and heteronormativity.

    Finally, we also talk about how writers pick between esoteric and more mainstream topics when choosing between book projects, and how current events—including the rise of authoritarianism and the Oct 7th Hamas attacks— reveal and the intersection of religion and politics today.

    Some of my biggest takeaways

    * Writing fiction gave Jay Michaelson access to describing experiences and inner states not always accessible through nonfiction.

    Michaelson began the first versions of some of these stories almost 20 years ago, and he’s written 8 books of nonfiction alongside the development of this collection.

    And though those books deal with many of the same subjects—Jewish mysticism, the interplay between sexuality and religion, and so on—he was able to depict their inner reality in ways that feel deeper or more liberating than he was able to in nonfiction:

    I now have written [several] non-fiction books and hundreds of articles. And that does come very naturally and easily to me. And yet I really feel like…this really is the book I'm the most proud of. It feels the closest to my way of seeing the world, even though it's fiction…And I think a lot of that is that….there's a lot of imagination in this book and that was so freeing.

    * The book represents Jay's own journey of self-discovery and the evolution of the stories over two decades.

    Michaelson talks about the fact that when he started writing these stories, he himself was closeted—not just sexually, but in terms of his ability to be honest with himself about the writing he wanted the freedom to do:

    “When I was finishing up college, deciding what I wanted to be when I grew up, there were two main choices on the agenda. My experience of the closet for me was, it wasn't just about sexuality. It was like closeted from all kinds of desires.

    And so for me, it was like being an English lit professor or being a lawyer and trying to save the world. And being a writer….that was like the dream that wasn't mine to reach for.”

    * The book delves into the tension within Orthodox Jewish communities and their potential for spiritual liberation.

    Recent American Jewish fiction has featured plenty of Orthodox Jewish characters, but most often these depict people who have left the restrictive confines of their faith.

    By contrast, the characters in this collection remain in their Orthodox environment, but are seeking spiritual and sexual liberation:

    "[The stories] deal with gay orthodox men who are wrestling, sometimes quite literally, with the tension between their sexuality and their religious beliefs."

    By focusing on the sensory details and physical depictions of these struggles, Michaelson transforms abstract spiritual conflicts into immersive experiences.

    * This book’s exploration of Kabbalistic thought is connected to Michaelson’s previous scholarship on heretical figures like Sabbatai Zevi (1626-1676) and Jacob Frank (1726-1791).

    The interview also touches upon Michaelson's broader academic and journalistic work, which considers the significance of Jacob Frank and other heretics who diverged from orthodox religious traditions. It suggests that these historical figures may reflect a desire for a spiritual revolution that could have lasting impacts on contemporary socio-religious dynamics.

    “One of the things that Jacob Frank also did was preach a kind of a teaching of liberated sexuality and sexuality as spiritual messianic experience…as a kind of, the world to come, the messianic age, through a kind of spiritualized sexual act or ritual. And that's in the book, definitely.”

    * This was very much a book Michaelson had to write—but it also made him think consciously about choosing smaller and more esoteric projects versus writing bigger, more mainstream books.

    Some of Michaelson’s previous books, such as God vs. Gay, where very much written with a mainstream audience in mind—an attempt to write an activist book that would appeal to as large an audience as possible. By contrast, Michaelson understood his story collection might draw a smaller readership. The calculus of personal passion vs readership is one that many seasoned writers have to make:

    “There are times where I've chosen consciously, that book God vs. Gay was an example, where I chose to write a more mainstream book and I wanted to do something with it with a larger audience and I was lucky I found a somewhat larger audience…

    But when it comes time to think about the next book I have to write, which is where I am now…I have one [idea] that I think would [potentially attract] a larger audience, and then there's like the other one that I sort of want to do anyway, even though it wouldn't [attract as large] an audience. And it's such a question of what our creative hopes and ambitions are, I think, as well as financial ones.”

    Discussed on this episode

    * Buy The Secret that is not a Secret at Bookshop.org | Amazon.com | Ayin Press

    * The Heresy of Jacob Frank: From Jewish Messianism to Esoteric Myth, by Jay Michaelson

    * Jay Michaelson’s website

    * Jaymichaelson.substack.net

    * ‘Deprogramming" the Trump Cult,’ CNN appearance on how people develop conspiratorial and group-think beliefs... and how they can be coaxed out of them, July 6, 2023.

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  • Last fall, administrators at Gettysburg College announced the shuttering of the prestigious Gettysburg Review. This just seemed like the latest in a long string of magazines and journals that have closed the past few years.

    Curious about what’s going on, I called Travis Kurowski, a leading expert on literary magazines, to help me understand what was happening. Today’s podcast features the interview we recorded in the immediate aftermath of the news last October.

    But, Kurowski, who has also appeared on CNN.com and elsewhere, was able to shed light on broader themes and trends. We discuss why an entire ecosphere of literary journals—supported for nearly 100 years by institutions of higher ed—may also be in deep trouble.

    And we explore the ways in which recent tech has changed reading habits, and why that will continue to doom some journals, even as others are adapting themselves to stay relevant to 21st century literary culture.

    This conversation is well worth listening to for anyone who wants to publish in—or is concerned about the well-being and future of—literary magazines and journals.

    Some of my biggest takeaways from this interview

    * Outside prestige isn’t enough to save storied journals like The Gettysburg Review.

    While many writers took to social media to point out that most of the world wouldn’t know about Gettysburg College if it wasn’t for the Review, that argument didn’t seem to matter much to administrators.

    The problem was, rather, one of economics…and the readiness with which both college administrators and corporate interests are willing to cut arts funding.

    As with pretty much every business in the world, the pandemic gutted operating revenues at Gettysburg; it has been running significant deficits recently—a $6.7 million deficit in 2021 alone.

    When the college was looking for expense lines to cut, they focused on those (like the Review) which, they claimed, didn’tdirectly enhance student life.

    That last argument is a highly dubious one, by the way. Plenty of students learned a ton about literary publishing thanks to helping to produce the Review over the years. But this is the story that the administrators told themselves and the rest of us.

    * The sustainability of literary journals—especially those connected with colleges and universities—feels more fragile than ever.

    Literary journals have been associated with higher ed for almost a century. Often these journals were seen as prestige projects, aimed at enhancing the institutions beyond its walls—even as these journals were often subject to the vagaries of institutional budgets, priorities, and department allegiances.

    "Literary journals have been on higher education campuses for...almost 100 years now...and sometimes they get cut from the budgets," Kurowski says.

    The difference today? Higher ed is facing greater economic pressures than ever before. Bloated administrations and a major decrease in enrollments—what Kurowski calls “the cliff of 18-year-olds”—are shrinking budgets.

    And with college and university budgets facing bleak prospects for the foreseeable future, the days of university-funded literary journals and similar prestige projects may be behind us.

    * Many literary journals haven’t adapted to the digital “literary economy”…and they’re getting left behind.

    It won’t be news that the way we consume media has radically changed even in the span of a decade or two.

    With the advent of the internet and mobile technology, readers have migrated, en masse, to the digital landscape.

    And that has major implications for old-school print literary journals:

    “You walk down any hallway, anywhere in your house, right? And we're just staring at their phones. We’re reading differently, we’re writing differently, we’re talking differently online. But our literary journals kind of look the same as they did 50 or 70 years ago,” Kurowski says.

    By way of example, Kurowski points out that when he went to look at the Gettsyburg Review website to prep for our interview, he wasn’t able to click on any of the poems or short stories.

    So it’s really necessary for journals to reassess how readers today (and beyond) are accessing their content.

    * Readers are no longer reading cover-to-cover…and journals need to embrace that change.

    The problem goes beyond clickable websites. The very way we consume print magazines has profoundly shifted—something that publishing expertJane Friedmanhas explored extensively.

    In her book The Business of Being a Writer, Friedman argues that the digital revolution has brought about the “disaggregation” of media. She means that journals are no longer consumed whole, cover-to-cover, but experienced in pieces, sometimes on platforms or in environments disaggregated, or pulled out, from their original format.

    Today, you can engage with the New Yorker through its website, podcast, app, or even live, as with its New Yorker festivals. In other words, the magazine has unbound—or disaggregated—itself.

    Similarly, lit journals may have to learn to move beyond their print editions if they want to connect with new readers today. “You don't want to focus too much on the container but rather the content,” Kurowski says.

    * Additionally, journals need to do a better job of “community building” …and those that are doing so are succeeding.

    Kurowski underscores the importance of creating community beyond the physical pages of the journals. The value of literary journals today goes well beyond the content they feature…and has a lot to do with the cultural experience they can offer.

    “If a journal is not doing that, if they're not creating a brand, creating a community, creating an experience…it's going to be hard for them to fit into the 21st century, where content is essentially expected to be free,” he says.

    He cites publications like The Georgia Review and even the newly-revived The Believer magazine as examples of journals that have successfully reconceptualized what it means to be connect with readers today.

    About My Guest

    Travis Kurowski is an associate professor of creative writing at York College. He’s the editor of Paper Dreams: Writers and Editors on the American Literary Magazine, winner of an Independent Publisher Book Award, and co-editor of Literary Publishing in the Twenty-First Century (Milkweed).

    Further reading/discussed on this episode

    * Paper Dreams: Writers and Editors on the American Literary Magazine, edited by Travis Kurowski (Atticus Books)

    * Literary Publishing in the Twenty-First Century, coedited by Travis Kurowski, Wayne Miller, and Kevin Prufer.

    * The Little Magazine in Contemporary America, coedited by Ian Morris and Joanne Diaz.

    * “Are Literary Journals in Trouble?” by , July 18, 2023.

    * Get the latest updates about literary magazines and journals from the wonderful by

    * Check out my own essay, “What is the future for literary journals?”

    Credits

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  • Why would anyone want to jumpstart their memoir? For one thing, you’re tasked with plumbing your memory for sometimes difficult material. Added to that is the burden of turning out writing that often feels underwhelming—so much less than we know we can do. For recovering perfectionists, the combination can be daunting.

    In today’s episode of The Book I Had to Write, UK-based author Amity Reed and I discuss strategies for starting a book that we picked up at a recent generative memoir bootcamp led by writing coach Katie Bannon.

    (Learn more about Katie Bannon by reading her post, 5 Reasons To Write Your Taboo Stories, or her reported essay, “I couldn’t stop pulling my hair, What was wrong with me?” published recently in the Washington Post).

    We talk about the importance of staying in drafting mode, letting go of perfectionist tendencies, the benefit of doing plenty of “scaffolding” before writing, and embracing a flexible approach to structure. We also discuss the value of accountability and finding a writing practice that works for your schedule and temperament.

    Amity Reed is an author and midwife. Her first book was called Overdue. It’s part memoir and part manifesto—a look at her experiences in maternity care in the UK. She’s currently working on a second book, also a memoir. She lives on the south coast of England with her husband and two children.

    Some of our biggest insights and takeaways

    Keep focusing on lower the stakes: In an episode two weeks ago, described being a “recovering perfectionist.” I can cop to that label too. In my case, it meant spending more than my fair share of time over the years writing and rewriting beginnings and then running out of time; or else not really getting to the things I most wanted to.

    How ‘slowing down and letting go’ helps with perfectionism: Amity talks about how, at one point, she felt the need to have a perfectly polished sections before moving forward. But she realized this approach hindered her progress. One big transformation happened when she embraced the idea that writing a memoir is a long-term commitment, and that it will take time.

    Scaffolding exercises really help—even if you haven’t written a word of your book. Katie’s generative memoir bootcamp was filled with exercises to help participants better understand the building blocks of literary memoir. We came up with character traits, sketched out possible narrative arcs, and developed a potential list of key scenes, among others.

    One big takeaway from the week is that doing some planning work even at the beginning stages of drafting can be incredibly helpful in both sharpening the focus and creating more of an arc from the outset.

    Your book’s structure is going to evolve…if you let it. In our conversation, Amity describes how, initially, she tried to force her writing into a predetermined structure. But she soon realized that it was constraining her creativity. With guidance from Katie Bannon, Amity explored alternative structures, drawing inspiration from art, poetry, and philosophy. She learned that the structure doesn't have to be explicitly spelled out for the reader but can be an implicit guide for her writing process.

    Build in some accountability through co-writing groups and some kind of writing schedule. Accountability is crucial for writers, especially when working on a long-term project like a memoir. Amity says found support and accountability through Zoom writing groups that provided her with a place to share progress, set goals, and hold each other accountable.

    As for me, I recently signed up for a co-writing “container”—a Zoom co-writing group, led by author , that meets three times a week for two hours over 12 weeks. It’s still early days, but I’ve found that knowing I have to show up at least those hours every week has allowed me to produce many more super-rough pages than I would’ve otherwise during a very busy time.

    Further reading/discussed on the show

    * Overdue: Birth, burnout and a blueprint for a better NHS, by Amity Reed Bookshop (UK) | Amazon (UK)

    * “The Illusion of the First Draft,” by Katie Bannon, Brevity magazine

    * “Five Reasons to Write Your ‘Taboo’ Stories,” by Katie Bannon

    * Katie Bannon’s Generative Memoir Bootcamps

    Credits

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  • In this week’s episode of The Book I Had to Write, I talk with Margo Steines, the author of Brutalities: A Love Story.

    This memoir-in-essays documents her journey through a series of extreme experiences including her time as a pro dom, a welder on a high-rise crew, her addictions to exercise, her interest in MMA fighting, and more.

    We talk about her journey to discovering the power of the braided essay—in her case, a combination of memoir, essay, research, and reporting—that allowed her to write about several difficult experiencees “in conversation with one another.”

    We also discuss other key issues for anyone engaged in memoir: about her commitment to truth in her writing, the challenges of self-exposure, finding confidence in one's writing, and how to write about difficult material without retraumatizing yourself.

    Some of my biggest takeaways:

    How pain can reveal an authentic self: The concept of pain and its role in self-discovery is a central theme in Brutalities. Steines explores her own fascination with physical extremes, such as her enthusiasm with MMA fighting and her dedication (bordering on addiction) to intense physical exercise, even (most difficult for me) an early fascination with being hit in the face.

    I admired Steines’s approach to truth-telling in her work. In an author's note at the beginning of Brutalities, Steines described the challenges of writing memoir and the limitations of memory.

    Writing about violence and physical extremes is hard work… Steines says mining her own experiences was emotionally and psychologically challenging.

    …yet it was the emotional intimacy of her current relationship that proved even harder to render: “The parts that were the hardest to write were actually the memoir, interstitial pieces about my partner... It felt like it broke me open in a certain way,” she says.

    Writing can be both a means of self-exposure and self-acceptance: “Once I tell the truth on the page, I can't redact it to myself anymore,” she says.

    Steines’s needed the unconventional form of the braided essay to get closer to her own truth. She describes the braided essay as a hybrid of memoir, essay, cultural criticism, and immersion journalism. This form allows her to bring together multiple strands of thought and experience, creating resonance between seemingly unrelated ideas.

    Speaking of structure, finding the final form for her book also proved challenging. Steines had to navigate the balance between narrative storytelling and idea exploration, ensuring that each essay contributed to the overall theme of the book.

    As a teacher, one of her jobs is helping writers find a sense of agency in their own writing. She tells me she believes that writers already possess the resources they need within themselves and that her role as a teacher is to provide hard skills and belief in their own convictions.

    Writing about trauma without retraumatizing oneself is key for writers of difficult personal material. She’ll be broaching that subject at an AWP panel this February. She acknowledges the importance of self-care and (somatic experiencing) therapy in navigating the emotional challenges.

    Check out more of Margo Steines’s work

    * Buy Brutalities: A Love Story via Amazon | Bookshop | W.W. Norton

    * “Run Home,” The Sun, August 2023

    * “A Very Brutal Game,” The Sun, November 2020

    * “Depredations,” Brevity magazine, January 17, 2020

    Show Credits

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  • In the Season 3 launch, Jeannine Ouellette, author of the memoir The Part That Burns and creator of the Writing in the Dark newsletter, shares insights into her writing process, her extraordinary year on Substack, and the unique blend of craft, wisdom, and kindness that makes her a beloved teacher of creative writing.

    Key Takeaways

    * Writing around a difficult topic can hinder the writing process, and embracing your need to write about it can lead to growth as a writer.

    * Writing from the perspective of a child in memoir offers a unique vantage point; and force writers to consider the limitations of what they can understand.

    * “Defamiliarization,” or casting a strange light on objects and experiences, is a technique that can make writing more engaging and wake readers up to new perspectives.

    * Lowering stakes and embracing mistakes can lead to more exciting and authentic writing.

    * Writers should be aware of the distinction between internal and external details in their writing and strive to find a balance between the two.

    * Understanding what your piece is really about (or what Ouellette calls “aboutness”) ois crucial for guiding the revision process and ensuring the work resonates with readers.

    Discussed on this Show

    * Writing Child Narrators: If you’re writing a memoir about childhood and want a thorough discussion of how to approach writing from the child’s perspective, read Jeannine’s essay “That Little Voice: The Outsized Power of a Child Narrator” (Assay: A Journal of Nonfiction Studies)

    * For another perspective on writing about childhood, check out my essay: https://bookiwanttowrite.substack.com/p/such-such-are-the-joys

    * Annie Ernaux/Flat Writing: French Nobel Laureate Annie Ernaux has described her style as “l’écriture plate” or “flat writing”— a voice that is “…flat, but not quite affectless…[striving] for balance between feeling and reporting, writing with almost sociological objectivity,” according to the Paris Review. Read more.

    * “What Substack Taught Me About Nimbleness, Improvisation, and the Absolute Necessity of Mistakes,” by Jeannine Ouellette, Brevity Magazine, June 22 & 23, 2022. Part 1 | Part 2.

    Find Jeannine Ouellette Online

    * On Substack: https://writinginthedark.substack.com/

    * At her writer website: https://www.jeannineouellette.com/

    * The Part that Burns (Split/Lip Books, Moon Palace Books, Bookshop, Amazon, or your favorite independent bookstore!)

    Credits

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  • For this final post of 2023, here’s one from the archives — perhaps the most popular episode of The Book I Had to Write podcast.

    In this segment, I talk with Sari Botton, the author of the memoir/essay collection …And You May Find Yourself, and the founder of Oldster magazine.

    Back around 2010, Sari started an interview series at The Rumpus called “Conversations with Writers Braver Than Me.”

    By definition, memoir and essays inevitably include stories about the people in our lives. But figuring out what the lines are – who we feel we can write about and how to do it – that takes time. And lots of real-world practice.

    However, when she herself was first working on memoir, Sari says she felt paralyzed by the fear of hurting those closest to her.

    Over the course of a dozen years, Sari grappled extensively with how to give herself permission to write about herself and others. As her 2022 memoir-in-essays, And You May Find Yourself..., started coming together during the pandemic, she landed on a different way to understand this issue.

    Writing about herself is really an act of defiance, she says. Women, and particularly women writing memoir, are often derided for first-person writing.

    Or, as she writes in the foreword to her book: “I remembered that my voice matters. I’m using it now, to take up space, to say, ‘I was here.’”

    In this interview, we also talk about Gen X identity, and about Oldster magazine, which was then a newer project for Sari, and is now an extremely-popular Substack aimed at exploring of how we live inside our aging bodies.

    Sari Botton is also the editor of two anthologies, the award-winning GOODBYE TO ALL THAT: WRITERS ON LOVING & LEAVING NY, as well as the NYT bestselling followup NEVER SAY GOODBYE: WRITERS ON THEIR UNSHAKEABLE LOVE FOR NY.

    In case you’re curious, here are some related from this episode

    And You May Find Yourself... available from Bookshop | IndieBound | Barnes & Noble | Amazon

    After Fifteen Years, I Stopped Panicking, Started Declawing, and Finally Published My Memoir, by Sari Botton (Catapult)

    Conversations with Writers Braver than Me by Sari Botton (The Rumpus)

    Oldster Magazine

    Working on a memoir? Here are some additional resources for how to handle writing about others

    A Big Shitty Party: Six Parables of Writing about Other People, by Melissa Febos

    Other People’s Secrets: An Interview with Kerry Cohen by Paul Zakrzewski, (Brevity Magazine)

    The Truth of Memoir: How to Write about Yourself and Others with Honesty, Emotion, and Integrity, by Kerry Cohen Bookshop | Amazon

    “Other People’s Secrets” (essay) by Patricia Hampl, collected in I Could Tell You Stories: Sojourns in the Land of Memory

    Credits

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  • I’ve just wrapped up season 2 of The Book I Had to Write, and I hope you’ve enjoyed the show.

    I’ll be back in the fall with a new season that I hope you’ll love. But before I do that, I have a big favor to ask...

    I’ve created a short survey and would love for you to fill it out.

    In a world of many podcasts, including many books podcasts, I want to be sure I’m doing all I can to reach the kind of listener who's writing life I can impact, inform & inspire!To do that I need YOUR help. I really want to learn more ABOUT you and what you’re looking for in a show like this one.

    Plus, if you complete the survey by Tuesday, August 8th, you'll be entered into a draw for one free 1:1 "Instant Clarity Session" (value $350) -- a highly-focused, supportive call to help you get clear on a writing project or publishing question. You'll leave with immediate actionable steps that will move you forward.

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  • About this Episode

    Back in the 1990s, Leah Eichler, then a young reporter, interviewed her grandmother extensively about her experiences as an Auschwitz survivor. In this episode, Leah discusses her book-development journey working with coach & TBIHTW host Paul Zakrzewski. If you’ve been overwhelmed by a book you want to write – but aren’t sure where to start – this is the episode for you.

    Discussed On This Episode:

    · The Lost: A Search for Six of Six Million, by Daniel Mendelsohn

    · My uncle often went missing. I worried about the day he wouldn’t come back, The Globe and Mail, Oct 8, 2021

    · Esoterica Magazine

    Important Moments

    How Leah's interview with her grandmother in the 1990s resulted in the "bubbe tapes"

    How the book coaching process helped Leah evolve her idea

    Influence of Daniel Mendelsohn's The Lost: A Search for Six of Six Million

    Highlights of Leah's June "roots" trip to Hungary to research her grandmother's story

    Leah's recent publication successes with an essay about tattoos & intergenerational trauma; and another essay about being in a interracial marriage and competing historical traumas

    Leah's background as a journalist and its impact on writing her memoir

    Leah's work as creator and editor of Esoterica Magazine

    Credits

    This episode was edited and produced by Chérie Newman at Magpie Audio Productions. Theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.



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  • "There's a big gap between the dream and the published book--what's happening there?" asks book coach Joelle Hann (aka the Brooklyn Book Doctor). Joelle joins host Paul Zakrzewski to talk about why writers face resistance when they start their books, the sense of power that happens when you finish, & the big shifts happening in Big 5 publishing right now.

    Looking to season 3, we're going on a journey! We'll be tweaking the show format, quests, and types of guests to provide help & inspiration as you navigate your book writing journey. Have ideas? Drop me a line.

    Discussed On This Episode:

    Millions of Followers? For Book Sales, ‘It’s Unreliable’, The New York Times, December 7, 2021.

    The Brooklyn Book Doctor’s Book Proposal Academy

    Joelle Hann's personal website

    Key Takeaways

    Writing about your specific topic, like yoga, can provide a lens to explore larger cultural questions

    Book coaching can include developmental editing, but at its core it's about guiding writers through mindset challenges and expectation management.

    Clients approach book coaches at all stages of the book-writing journey, from initial idea to rough drafts to completed manuscrips

    First-time book writers often face the fear of perfectionism, and their motivation can crash after the initial excitement.

    Managing mindset and understanding the challenges inherent in writing is crucial for a successful book-writing journey.

    Credits

    This episode was edited and produced by Chérie Newman at Magpie Audio Productions. Theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.



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  • Paul interviews writer, scholar, and archival expert Julija Šukys, author of Siberian Exile: Blood, War, and a Granddaughter’s Reckoning. Part way through this project, Šukys received documents that pointed to her grandfather’s possible complicity in Holocaust-era war crimes. Their conversation traces this major discovery and how it changed her work-in-progress. They also discuss the need to find the right form for your book, the allure of archival research, and the power of short, sharp essay-like books.

    Get all the important takeaways

    >> Click here to get the full show notes, links and resources, and the complete transcript.

    Discussed On This Episode:

    Jane: A Murder by Maggie Nelson Dear Memory, by Victoria Chang Ongoingness by Sarah Manguso Cancer Journals by Audre Lorde

    Buy the Book

    Siberian Exile: Blood, War, and a Granddaughter’s Reckoning is available from University of Nebraska Press | Bookshop.org | Barnes & Noble | Amazon

    Credits

    This episode was edited and produced by Chérie Newman at Magpie Audio Productions. Theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.



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  • Paul interviews author and cultural critic Stephen Marche about his new book On Writing and Failure. We delve into the challenges faced by writers in the digital age, and the evolving landscape of publishing, and discuss the inherent failures that are part of writing process, and the struggle to bridge the gap between intention and reception.

    Discussed on this Episode

    “The End of the English Major,” by Nathan Heller, The New Yorker, Feb 27, 2023

    CanLit's Colonial Habit: Literature in the age of Reconciliation and ‘peak’ diversity, Literary Review of Canada, November 2017

    Death of an Author is an AI-generated novella published in April 2023 by Stephen Marche and Pushkin Industries.

    Buy the Book

    On Writing and Failure is available from Bookshop | IndieBound | Barnes & Noble | Amazon

    Credits

    This episode was edited and produced by Chérie Newman at Magpie Audio Productions. Theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.



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  • About this Episode

    In Canada, essayist Susan Olding is well-known as the author of smart, beautifully crafted essays on topics like parenting, illness, our changing relationship to reading & more. In this episode, Susan discusses her journey as an essayist, and her newest essay collection Big Reader. She also discusses the power of writing essays, the challenges of writer's block, the power of re-reading classics as an adult, and the use of experimental forms in storytelling.

    Key Takeaways:

    Susan emphasizes the importance of making connections in essay writing, whether through traditional or experimental forms.

    Susan talks about how self-doubt and perfectionism can contribute to writer's block, but that finding a way through is crucial to developing one's own writing

    Susan describes finding inspiration in the essay tradition that blends criticism and autobiography or memoir

    She discusses how rereading literary classics she loved when younger, like Anna Karenina, can lead to new insights and perspectives

    She discusses experimental forms in essays and how they offer fresh perspectives and help writers explore challenging topics.

    Discussed:

    Banff Literary Journalism Program

    Brenda Miller on Braided Essays & playing with form

    Buy the Book

    Big Reader: Essays is available from Bookshop | Barnes & Noble | Amazon | Indigo (Canada)

    Credits

    This episode was edited and produced by Chérie Newman at Magpie Audio Productions. Theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.



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  • Overview

    In this episode of "The Book I Had to Write" podcast, Paul interviews Josh Lambert, author of The Literary Mafia: Jews, Publishing, and Postwar American Literature. Josh shares the story of how the term 'Jewish literary mafia' came about in the 1950s and 1960s. They delve into the problems of gatekeeping and publishing's lack of diversity, and ask whether a 'literary mafia' could point to ways to make the industry more inclusive.

    Discussed

    Editor Gordon Lish, most famous for cutting Raymond Carver's stories, but who was instrumental in championing Jewish writers like Cynthia Ozick

    The concept of the Jewish literary mafia, the evolution of literary representation, and the importance of diversity.

    The experiences of Jewish women writers in the 20th century publishing industry

    The phenomenon of "whisper novels" as a way for women to address their experiences in the publishing industry

    Exploring tokenism and lack of diversity in the publishing industry

    Buy the Book

    The Literary Mafia: Jews, Publishing, and Postwar American Literature is available from Bookshop | IndieBound | Barnes & Noble | Amazon

    Credits

    This episode was produced by Chérie Newman at Magpie Audio Productions. The theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.

    Thoughts? Drop Paul a line at [email protected]

    If you like the show, please leave a review on the platform of your choice or www.thebookihadtowrite.com!



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  • Paul is back with a new season of The Book I Had to Write!

    This time around, the show explores nonfiction writers and stories from Canada.

    Upcoming interviews will be published every other Tuesday starting on May 9, 2023.

    Highlights include:

    Josh Lambert (The Literary Mafia: Jews, Publishing, and Postwar American Literature) on the story of Jewish editors and writers who helped to shape many 20th century American literature, and how the idea of a “Jewish literary mafia” could actually help increase diversity in publishing.

    Susan Olding (Big Reader) on the power of hybrid forms in writing essays, on the changing nature of identity, and what she learned when she went back to re-read classics like Anna Karenina that she’d loved when younger.

    Stephen Marche (On Writing and Failure) on why the current moment is so challenging for writers trying to make a living, on the rise of AI in writing, and why authors need to embrace failure.

    Julija Šukys (Siberian Exile) on the power of discovering your real subjects during archival research, and on the impact of gun culture on campuses and beyond today.

    Just like on Season 1, you’ll learn tips and secrets to getting your own book done, and why publishing one will change your life.

    Subscribe in Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows. And go to www.thebookihadtowrite.com to see transcripts, show notes, and more.

    If you like the show, please leave a review on your podcast app or at www.thebookihadtowrite.com!

    Thoughts? Guest Ideas? Drop Paul a line at [email protected]

    Big Thanks

    This season would not have been possible without the generous financial support of the following people: Seth Wilson, Tony Bleasdale, Ron Gleiberman, Amy Hayes, Rebecca Spence, Mark Childs, Sari Botton, Karen Propp, Daniel Hochman, Nelly Reifler, Anonymous (2), Andy Ingall, Jennifer Mattson, Cherie Newman, Monica Steiner, and Elizabeth Bobrick. My heartfelt thanks to each of you.

    Credits:

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  • In this episode, I talk with writer and editor Sari Botton. Back around 2010, Sari started an interview series at The Rumpus called “Conversations with Writers Braver Than Me.” At the time, as a writer of first-person nonfiction, she felt paralyzed by the fear of hurting those closest to her.

    By definition, memoir and essays inevitably include stories about the people in our lives. But figuring out what the lines are – who we feel we can write about and how to do it – that takes time. And lots of real-world practice.

    Over the past 12 yrs, Sari has grappled extensively with how to give herself permission to write about herself and others. As her new memoir-in-essays, And You May Find Yourself..., started coming together, she landed on a different way to understand this issue.

    Writing about herself is really an act of defiance, she says. Women, and particularly women writing memoir, are often derided for first-person writing. Or, as she writes in the foreword to her new book: “I remembered that my voice matters. I’m using it now, to take up space, to say, ‘I was here.’”

    In this interview, we also talk about Gen X identity, and about Sari’s newest project, Oldster magazine, a Substack newsletter aimed at exploring of how we live inside our aging bodies.

    Sari Botton is also the editor of two anthologies, the award-winning GOODBYE TO ALL THAT: WRITERS ON LOVING & LEAVING NY, as well as the NYT bestselling followup NEVER SAY GOODBYE: WRITERS ON THEIR UNSHAKEABLE LOVE FOR NY. She teaches nonfiction at Catapult and in the MFA program at Bay Path University.

    Discussed in this episode:

    And You May Find Yourself... available from Bookshop | IndieBound | Barnes & Noble | Amazon

    After Fifteen Years, I Stopped Panicking, Started Declawing, and Finally Published My Memoir, by Sari Botton (Catapult)

    Conversations with Writers Braver than Me by Sari Botton (The Rumpus)

    Oldster Magazine

    Additional resources for writing about others:

    A Big Shitty Party: Six Parables of Writing about Other People, by Melissa Febos

    Other People’s Secrets: An Interview with Kerry Cohen by Paul Zakrzewski, (Brevity Magazine)

    The Truth of Memoir: How to Write about Yourself and Others with Honesty, Emotion, and Integrity, by Kerry Cohen Bookshop | Amazon

    “Other People’s Secrets” (essay) by Patricia Hampl, collected in I Could Tell You Stories: Sojourns in the Land of Memory

    Credits:

    This episode was edited by Paul Zakrzewski and produced by Magpie Audio Productions. Theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.



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  • This week, we’re featuring an episode from a great new show called The Bleeders.

    The Bleeders is a podcast (and support group) about book writing and publishing. The podcast emphasizes “transparent conversations with authors, agents, and people in the publishing industry about how to write and sell books.”

    The title is a wry nod to the famous Hemingway quote: “There is nothing to writing. All you do is sit down at a typewriter and bleed.”

    This episode features an interview with author Chloe Caldwell. Reminiscent of writers like Cheryl Strayed and Meghan Daum, but with a gritty, funny tone all her own, Chloe Caldwell is the author of three essay collections including Legs Get Led Astray, Women, and I’ll Tell You in Person, along with her latest book The Red Zone: A Love Story.

    In this interview, host Courtney Kocak talks with Caldwell about her rather unique path to publishing, as the pair talk about everything from cold queries to agents to small presses to trusting your vision.

    If you enjoyed today’s episode, I encourage you to listen to the rest of The Bleeder episodes and subscribe in your favorite app! https://pod.link/1628014529

    And make sure to sign up for The Bleeders companion Substack! https://thebleeders.substack.com/welcome

    I'll be back next week with an all-new episode of TBIHTW, which will wrap up Season 1 for me!



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  • About this episode

    It can be difficult for writers to learn to put our stories front and center. That was originally the case with today’s guest, Lilly Dancyger. She originally set out to memorialize her father, Joe Schactman, through a book that would feature artwork and stories she’d collected from friends.

    Schactman was a highly original artist and sculptor who was part of the same 1980s East Village art scene that included David Wojnarowicz and Jean-Michel Basquiat. He was a loving father but also struggled with addiction; he died when Dancyger was only 12.

    “I kept saying the book I was writing was an artist monograph, but every day the words stared back at me, so clearly, defiantly, a memoir,” she writes an essay entitled “Not a Memoir.” Through a long process spanning several years, however, she decided to foreground her own story, alongside that of her father.

    One big shift was learning to think of her memoir as more of a detective novel, where her 10+ year search to find out more about her father led to think of each interview or event as a “clue” that furthered the plot, and added “stakes” to the story.

    Lilly Dancyger is the author of the memoir, Negative Space, as well as the editor of the anthology Burn It Down: Women Writing About Anger. She lives and works in NYC.

    Discussed on this episode

    Negative Space (memoir) Bookshop | IndieBound | Barnes & Noble | Amazon

    Memoir as Detective Novel (essay)

    Writing & Publishing Addiction Narratives Workshop (with Erin Khar)

    Not a Memoir (essay)

    Melissa Febos: Abandon Me (Excerpt)

    LillyDancyger.com

    Credits

    This episode was edited by Paul Zakrzewski and produced by Magpie Audio Productions. Theme music is "The Stone Mansion" by BlueDot Productions.



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