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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tyson Adams. Tyson is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couples experiencing intimacy challenges. When he’s not working, you’ll catch him on a rock wall or riding a slackline in sunny San Diego.
Key points:
- Tyson reintroduces himself
- Defining mindfulness
- Benefits of mindful masturbation
- Challenges to mindful masturbation
- Mirror work and embodiment
- Psychedelic experiences and self-pleasure
Relevant links:
Tyson’s Instagram: @tysonadams__
Tyson’s website: https://linktr.ee/tysonadams
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From episode #52, a solo episode with just Cam.
More from that episode:
Introduction to and intentions for the conversation I understand the harm some porn has caused Anti-Porn vs Pro-Porn vs Anti-Anti-Porn What is porn? The problem with definitions The problem with the “porn is a drug” analogy Thought experiment: Where do you draw the line Operation Spanner and private sex groups Mainstream vs Ethical (Feminist) porn Messages, escalation, addiction, exploitation--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cam-fraser/message -
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Peter White from Bondimedical. Dr. White has over ten years experience treating patients in his practice, using non-invasive orthopaedic medical devices to improve confidence and quality of life. He has successfully treated numerous conditions, including Peyronie’s disease, side effects from urological surgery, and male enhancement.
Key points:
- Dr. White introduces himself
- Penile curvature treatment
- Using Phallosan Forte safely and effectively
- Expected results and longevity
- Addressing other penile health concerns
- Customer service emphasis
Relevant links:
Phallosan Forte website: https://www.phallosan.com.au/
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From episode #51 with Dr. Joe Kort.
More from that episode:
- Dr. Kort shares about his practice as a therapist
- Heteroflexible and homoflexible
- Discussing Jane Ward’s book, Not Gay
- Bisexual erasure
- Queering heterosexuality
- “Your anus doesn’t have a sexual orientation”
- Fragile masculinity
- Working with couples in therapy
- Wives’ experiences with heteroflexible men
- Sexual fluidity for men and women
- Practical advice for men
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Judson Brandeis. Dr. Brandies has been voted Top Urologist in the San Francisco Bay Area by San Francisco Magazine from 2014 to 2020. In February 2019, he opened his office in San Ramon, where he focuses his practice entirely on Men’s Sexual Health and Rejuvenation. Dr. Brandeis is the National Director of Clinical Excellence for GAINSWave and created and runs the SWEET Study, the largest study of Shockwave Therapy for erectile dysfunction ever performed. Dr. Brandeis is also a national sexual medicine educator who has run weekend educational seminars all around the United States.
Key points:
- Dr. Brandeis introduces himself
- Erectile dysfunction treatment options
- Low intensity shockwave therapy
- Penile enhancement
- Erection variability and hard flaccid condition
- Risks and adverse effects
Relevant links:
Dr. Brandeis’ website: https://brandeismd.com/
Dr. Brandeis’ Instagram: @judsonbrandeismd
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From episode #50 with Emily Claire.
More from that episode:
- Emily shares about her journey from Law to Tantra
- Mentoring with John Wineland
- Healing your relationship with men
- A woman’s experience working with men
- Mix-gendered spaces: Learning from other genders
- “Fuck and Kill to Consciousness”
- What are men’s natural desires?
- Integrating the animal part of ourselves
- Masculine and Feminine Energy
- Fight, Flight, Freeze, Feed and Fuck
- Practical advice for men wanting to begin this work
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I share an audio recording of one of my sexuality seminars. The title of this sexuality seminar is, "Presence and Masculine Sexuality. If you're interested in learning more, head to my website and check out what else I have on offer.
Key points:
- Who am I?
- What do I mean by "presence"?
- Practical tools for being more present
- What does "masculine sexuality" mean?
- Practical tools for embodying your masculinity
- An invitation to explore more
Relevant links:
Cam's website: www.cam-fraser.com
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From episode #49 with Johnathan White.
More from that episode:
- Johnathan shares about his teachings
- Creating your own personal practice
- Learning to listen to your body
- Your first non-ejaculatory ogasm
- Techniques for non-ejaculatory orgasms
- Mantak Chia’s “Million Dollar Point” technique
- Obsessing over and redefining orgasm
- The importance of non-sexual practices
- Semen retention and NoFap
- The energetics of ejaculation
- Conscious ejaculation vs semen retention
- Testicle breathing practice
Relevant Links:
Johnathan’s Instagram: @sexual.kungfu
Johnathan’s YouTube: Sexual Kung Fu
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Kate Balestrieri, a licensed clinical and forensic psychologist, certified sex therapist, founder of the therapy practice Modern Intimacy, and host of the Get Naked with Dr. Kate podcast. She helps people live more fulfilled lives by shattering stigma and erasing shame.
Key Points:
- Kate introduces herself
- Inequalities in emotional labour
- Addressing inequalities through communication
- Emotional labour and mental load
- Practical steps for individuals and couples
Relevant links:
Kate’s website: https://www.modernintimacy.com/
Kate’s Instagram: @themodernintimacy
Kate’s TikTok: @drkatebalestrieri
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From episode #48 with Tyran Mowbray.
More from that episode:
- Tyran shares some of his story
- What men talk about when they get together
- The flaws in taking back your power
- Men in the sexuality space
- “Fellahs, is it gay to talk about having sex with women?”
- Being a conscious man in a relationship
- Saying “No” and asserting boundaries
- Men can’t be raped
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Chad Braverman. Chad is the CCO and COO of Doc Johnson, a billion dollar sex toy company founded by his father in 1976. Chad has propelled Doc Johnson into the spotlight with cutting-edge technology and products. He is challenging societal norms and transforming the sex toy industry which is often shrouded in secrecy.
Key Points:
- Chad introduces himself
- Doc Johnson history and products
- Chad's experience joining the family business
- Shifting social attitudes towards sex toys
- Future plans for Doc Johnson
- Challenges of being a father in the industry
Relevant links:
Doc Johnson’s Website: https://docjohnson.com/home
Doc Johnson’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/docjohnsonusa/?hl=en
Doc Johnson’s X: https://twitter.com/TheOriginalDoc
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From episode #47 with Dr. Martha Tara Lee.
More from that episode:
- Martha shares about her studies and travels
- How Martha’s work is received in Singapore
- Singaporean culture and sexuality
- Working with “Asian cultural values” in sex therapy
- The stigma of being an Asian woman sex therapist
- Ancient Eastern sexual practices
- Who is teaching Tantra and Neotantra?
- Using Asian culture to make money
- Exploring cultural teachings and honouring your ancestry
Relevant links:
Martha’s Website: www.eroscoaching.com
Martha’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eroscoaching
Martha’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drmarthalee
Martha’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leemartha/
Martha’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drmarthalee/
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ella D’Aloia. Ella is a holistic sex coach, specialising in female sexuality, a yoni massage therapist and registered nurse. Ella's mission in life is to connect women back to their bodies, sexuality and pleasure. She is also deeply passionate about working with men in this space, educating them on female bodies, pleasure and menstrual cycles.
Key points:
• Ella introduces herself
• The gap in knowledge between nursing and holistic practices
• Yoni massage's healing benefits
• Self-pleasure to enhance intimacy and reduce anxiety
• Approach your partner's genitals with respect, curiosity, and consent
• Reclaiming stigmatized words for genitals
• Men's erotic journeys and the importance of shared learning
• The need for ongoing sexual education
Relevant links:
Ella’s Instagram: @ella_daloia_
Ella’s website: www.ella-daloia.com
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From episode #46 with Georgia Grace.
More from that episode:
- Georgia shares about her work
- Being in a sex-positive bubble
- Managing boundaries and online harassment
- Innovative sex-tech and new products
- The Arcwave Ion and Pleasure Air™ Technology
- Changing the way men masturbate
- Using sex toys to enhance pleasure
- Outdated science about sexuality
- Updating understandings about male pleasure
- Cultivating your curiosity
Relevant links:
Georgia’s Instagram: @gspot._
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure I chat with Tyson LaRone. Tyson is a Martial Arts Instructor, Strongman competitor and Monster Energy Drink Enthusiast who TikToks about politics, history, philosophy, society and generally trying to affect positive change however he can.
Key points:
- Tyson introduces himself
- Parenting philosophies
- Validating emotions in parenting and martial arts instruction
- Contradictory models of masculinity
- The harms of an exploitative view of relationships
- Finding fulfillment through honest self-reflection
Relevant links:
Tyson’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thewarriorphilosopher
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From episode #45 with Dominick Quartuccio.
Key Points from that episode:
- Dominick shares some of this story
- The final straw before rehab
- Sex Addicts Anonymous
- Is sex addiction real?
- Defining addiction and relapse
- Religion and negative attitudes towards sex
- Reframing your relationship with sex
- Talking to men about sex
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. James B. Stein. Dr. Stein is an Assistant Professor at Utah Tech University with a specialization in interpersonal communication. He has published over a dozen peer-reviewed journal articles, which can be found on his professional website JamesBstein.com. In addition to his work as a teacher and scholar, Dr. Stein can be found on social media (specifically, TikTok) under the username "J3wcifer." On that platform, Dr. Stein aims to distil complex relational, political, and pop-culture centred topics.
Key points:
- Dr. Stein introduces himself
- What is the “Manosphere?”
- The core of Red Pill ideology
- Exploiting vulnerable men
- Community, guidance, and personal development
- Andrew Tate and Jordan Peterson
- Exiting the manosphere
Relevant links:
Dr. Stein’s website: www.jamesbstein.com
Dr. Stein’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@j3wcifer
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#197 The Eunuch: The First Incel Novel
On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Charles Fischer, the author of The Eunuch—a darkly comic novel set in Babylon during the reign of Nebuchadnezzar II. Told from the point of view of Nergal, a eunuch slave-scribe who keeps the secrets of the king’s harem, the book is a tale of depravity and love in a time of imperial decline. Charles Fischer holds degrees from St. Olaf College, Harvard Divinity School, and the University of Washington. He lives in Seattle with his wife, Lisa, and teaches writing and humanities at Everett Community College in Washington. The Eunuch is his first novel.
Key Points:
- Charles introduces himself
- "The Eunuch": Journey of a decade's creation
- Babylon invasion story through a eunuch's eyes
- Nergal's struggle with masculinity and isolation
- Sublimating desires into art through writing
- Importance of community in personal growth
- Exploring love's forms: eros, philia, agape
- Finding love in unexpected places and forms
Relevant links:
Charles’ Twitter: https://twitter.com/cfischer2
Charles’ novel: https://www.gabbrohead.com/the-eunuch
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Harvey Laguerre. Harvey is a 49 year old, stay-at-home dad of 4. The emergence of Covid-19 led to the creation of a relationship podcast with his wife, called Love is Black. The success of that podcast emboldened him to create his own. Men Are The P.R.I.Z.E. Podcast is the result of years of learning what it means to be a man in the world today. The definition of masculinity has changed drastically and not for the better. Attributes that were once manly, are now toxic. What has not changed is the lack of safe spaces for men to express their emotions. Being a vulnerable man is not celebrated like it should be. This podcast is that safe space for men to open up and reveal their inner monologue. This podcast is the what, where, when, why and how of manhood.
Key points:
- Harvey introduces himself
- Damaging stereotypes impact black men's lives
- Need for safe spaces to express vulnerability
- Self-accountability leads to empowerment and growth
- High suicide rates, isolation during holidays
- Stereotypes affect black boys' and teens' identity
- Societal pressure limits emotional expression in men
- Importance of culturally relatable therapists and coaches
Relevant links:
Harvey’s website: www.HarveyLaguerre.com
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On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jeddy Azuma. Jeddy is the Founder of The Rising Man Movement, a Wilderness Rites of Passage Guide, and Men’s Leadership Mentor & Coach. Since 2008, Jeddy has been in the field of Men’s Empowerment and mentored a wide-range of men: from High-Powered Tech Founders and Corporate Leaders to hard-working family men and vision-driven millennials. He has impacted the lives of thousands of men on his mission to initiate an entire generation into purpose-driven leadership. Despite his achievements, he considers his most important roles in life to be Father and Husband.
Key points:
- Jeddy introduces himself
- Rites of passage and life transitions
- Absence of traditional rites
- Educating children
- Traditional status symbols vs materialism
- Engaging with other cultures
- Exploring personal growth
Relevant links:
Jeddy’s Instagram: @jeddyazuma
The Rising Man Movement’s Instagram: @risingmanmovement
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