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  • Ball etiquette and the Male MilSpouse, with Jay Ha'o as they discuss military ball etiquette and how it pertains to the male military spouse. Questions always arise what to wear, where to obtain, what is appropriate, etc. Also, who does what in various ball program events like toasts, receiving line, posting of colors, grog bowl, etc. So, if you were wondering what is different for us guys, this is the broadcast/podcast to listen to! Best of MMSRS, Episode 33, originally aired Mar 13, 2015.

    MMSRS is a 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Candid conversation with 2012 AFI Military Spouse of the Year Jeremy Hilton. Join us live as we discuss advocacy, EFMP, volunteerism, and anything else that comes up!

    MMSRS is a 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

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  • Join special guest and financial guru Doug Nordman as we explore the tax season - do's and don'ts of filing military family returns, we define the differences in the new retirement scheme and the existing scheme, and we will also touch on some financial savings tips to help make your dreams of worry-free life a reality. Doug is a self-made millionaire and surfer, a Navy submarine veteran, a Navy spouse, and Navy dad, and is the author of the Military Guide to Financial Independence and Retirement. I think we can trust his advice, huh!

    MMSRS is a 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Picking up where we left off three weeks ago - current events are perplexing to everyone. How do we, the Male Military Spouse handle things? Are we making progress on getting recognised in the spousal meetings? Are we still marginalized on the playgrounds as we watch our kids? Who's cooking the steaks tonight? These and other questions may (or may not) be answered by host Dave Etter and any or all of his call-in guests!


     


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Here's your opportunity to meet and ask Sean O'Driscoll anything you want - what's it like being a Navy spouse? What's CrossFit like? What's the goriest thing you've seen as an EMT? How's it feel to be a published Military Spouse Magazine blogger? Call in to (516) 453-9167 and ask him!


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Pokemon Go seems to have taken the world by storm. And Daesh seems to have upped their game of terror. Are the two related? As a Male Military Spouse, do you need to take greater caution about what you do on or around the military installation your spouse is attached to? What are you supposed to do as a male milspouse to protect your family? Join host Dave Etter, co-host Jay Hao and assorted other callers as they discuss these and other important issues that men have to deal with on a daily basis. Like when to open that first beer? What seasonings to use for the BBQ to make this time better than last? You know, the really important stuff!


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.


     

  • http://tobtr.com/s/9058821 - Favorite summer bratwurst recipies, BBQ tips, beer  finds - it's time to get grilling and chilling, Man Spouse ways! 


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.


     

  • New studies are showing the military is beginning to "get" what we are experiencing as a minority among the MilSpouse population. What are you seeing as working, and what do see still needs attention? Join host Dave Etter and co-host Jay Ha'o as the tallies come in. Weigh in as well by calling (516) 453-9167 and tell us what you see.


     


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Join host Dave Etter and co-host Jay Ha'o as we honor the women who gave their lives in service of our country since 9/11. Sobering show.

    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women since July 2014. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of almost 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Airs Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur, and available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Stereotypes. We've done over a year of Male Military Spouse Radio Show, and have never done a show dedicated to this subject! Are we still seeing the same stereotypes male military spouses hate like we did last year? Join host Dave Etter for this riveting uncensored 2 hour show!


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of roughly 10% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur (downgraded to G if we play nice), and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Join host Dave Etter and co-host Jay Ha'o, guests Susan Reynolds and Corie Weathers (and Christopher Burkhart via chat) as they discuss and maybe get down to the nitty gritty about secondary PTSD, how it happens and why it happens.

    *** Chat Room Log

    (0:11:13) - http://www.dsm5.org/Documents/PTSD%20Fact%20Sheet.pdf

    (0:13:49) - http://www.vietnow.com/ptsd-walking-on-eggshells/

    (0:14:13) - http://www.ptsd.va.gov/professional/PTSD-overview/dsm5_criteria_ptsd.asp

    (0:30:47) - https://www.istss.org/ISTSS_Main/media/Webinar_Recordings/RECFREE01/slides.pdf

    (0:38:09) - http://slideplayer.com/slide/4674639

    (0:42:25) - http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2080512/

    (0:42:33) - http://www.familyofavet.com/secondary_ptsd.html

    (0:50:06) - http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2013/01/ptsd-epidemic-military-vets-families

    (0:54:31) - http://www.familyofavet.com/secondary_ptsd.html

    (0:55:04) - what about children who could end up with the PTSD/Secondary PTSD??

    (0:55:51) - http://www.familyofavet.com/secondary_ptsd_children.html

    (0:57:12) - http://www.singingthroughtherain.net/2016/04/ptsd-special-needs-mom.html

    (1:01:46) - http://www.nctsnet.org/sites/default/files/assets/pdfs/secondary_traumatic_tress.pdf

    (1:09:14) - http://www.nctsnet.org/sites/default/files/assets/pdfs/what_is_child_traumatic_stress_0.pdf

    (1:10:39) - http://www.nctsnet.org/sites/default/files/assets/pdfs/understanding_child_traumatic_stress_brochure_9-29-05.pdf

    (1:16:34) - http://www.ptsd.va.gov/professional/treatment/children/pro_child_parent_ptsd.asp

    (1:21:19) - http://www.nctsnet.org/

    (1:23:54) - https://startpage.com/eng/?&hmb=1

     

  • Join host Dave Etter, co-host Jay Ha'o, and guests Susan Reynolds, Sean O'Driscoll and MJ Boise for a special open-mic edition of the Male Military Spouse Radio Show! We will talk about what YOU want to talk about... maybe the surprise death of music legend Prince... maybe Queen Elizabeth's 90th birthday... maybe the Olympic torch run that started Thursday... maybe TRICARE.... you decide!


    Show Links:


    http://www.collegescholarships.org/scholarships/spouse.htm


    http://salutetospouses.com/


    https://studentaid.ed.gov/sa/types/grants-scholarships/pell


    https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.sandboxx.android


    https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.ustyme.app


    http://ustyme.com/index.html


    http://www.familyofavet.com/secondary_ptsd.html


    http://www.nctsn.org/resources/topics/secondary-traumatic-stress


    http://www.psychiatrictimes.com/ptsd/secondary-traumatization-mental-health-care-providers


    http://legacy.wltx.com/story/news/military/2014/11/12/veteran-spouses-diagnosed-with-secondary-ptsd/18914105/


    http://www.beliefnet.com/columnists/depressionhelp/2014/11/secondary-ptsd-and-military-wives.html


    http://www.ptsd.va.gov/professional/treatment/family/partners_of_vets_research_findings.asp


    http://www.motherjones.com/politics/2013/01/ptsd-epidemic-military-vets-families


    http://www.govexec.com/pay-benefits/2016/04/no-one-really-understands-how-vets-preference-works-federal-hiring/127666/?oref=site-govexec-flyin-sailthru

  • Special time for this episode, we are getting our Alaska spouses involved today! Are you and your family going to a wonderland far far away? Or some duty station nobody has ever heard of before? Are you a "fringe" spouse? This episode is for you! We will be having the guys who are living the SAHD dream in Alaska joining the discussion, and this will become a podcast for the ages! 

    *** (13:17:25):Welcome to the MMSRS Chat Room.

    --- Show starts --- (13:30:00)

    MMSRS  (13:39:44): On today's show (so far) is Dan Hogan, Jack Lee, Wayne Perry, and Doug Nordman. Welcome guys!

    MMSRS  (13:51:54): Jay Hao has joined us!

    Doug Nordman (14:01:13): Dave, everybody else, I'm going to have to sign off here in about 15 minutes to work with the tree trimmers.  I just wish they had chainsaw drones!

    MMSRS  (14:12:57): http://militaryspouse.com/military-life/military-branches/national-guard/living-on-the-edge-of-my-community/

    Jay Ha o (14:32:25): http://beautifulinhistime.com/2016/03/06/military-bride-wedding-gown/

    Jay Ha o (14:35:24): http://athomedad.org/the-only-dad/

    Jay Ha o (15:22:03): http://articles.latimes.com/2013/dec/20/science/la-sci-sn-veteran-suicide-statistics-20131219

    Jay Ha o (15:28:06): http://www.cnrc.navy.mil/Regions-NRD-Map.htm

    --- Show ends --- (15:30:00)

  • Join host Dave Etter and co-host Jay Ha'o as the newest and latest information on the 2005 Federal REAL I.D. Act Collocation policy affects the Military Spouse. Ryan Nelson, from ESGR (Employer Support of the Guard and Reserve), joined in from the beginning and gave us great info on the rights and responsibilities employers have under the Uniformed Services Employment and Reemployment Rights Act (USERRA). Dan Hogan also joined in and asked about the REAL ID Act and how it might help him with a situation he has, which Jay provided the Marine specific link http://www.dfas.mil/militarymembers/SecondaryDependency/SDC/secondarydependency_Marines.html to address Dan's question.

    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of only 7%-8% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur, and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • As Permanent Change of Station orders loom on the horizon, you have to start thinking about what to take and what to leave. What, as the Man-Spouse in this military family do you pick and choose? Join host Dave Etter and other callers as we give you our take on what you leave, what you store, what you take and what you sell!

    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women since July 2014. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of only 7%-8% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Airs most Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur, and available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

     

  • Join host Dave Etter and other callers as we try to navigate through the process of getting the best information and resources.
    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women since July 2014. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of only 7%-8% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Airs Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur, and available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Join host Dave Etter and callers as they try and sort of TRICARE reform proposal up for consideration....

    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of only 7%-8% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs Fridays, rated R for the cussing that can occur, and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.



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  • Join host Dave Etter and assorted callers as we try and define what makes a good military spouse! Us guts do not have much in print on how to be that perfect partner while maintaining the standards set by the military branch we are forced to live with - so, what can we gleen from each other? This could get interesting, heated, nasty, sad, frustrating, fun.... who knows? You'll just have to listen and call in if it's during the live recording time!


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of only 7%-8% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Typically airs Fridays at 9am CT, rated R for the cussing that can occur, and always available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.

  • Financial experts Doug Nordman (1st hour) and Jack Lee (2nd hour) field questions about this new blended military retirement scheme and other debt problems.


    MMSRS is a weekly 2-hour web-based call-in radio show (516-453-9167), hosted by Dave Etter, focusing on the needs of men married to serving military members, both men and women since July 2014. Male Military Spouses are a small niche of military spouses, comprising of only 7%-8% of all military spouses. We feel left out, usually, at support functions - especially those designed with the spouses being identified as "wives"! We get cajoled at playgrounds where our kids play, from the mommies there who think we don't belong. We are proud SAHDs, who gave up our careers to follow our spouses as they dedicate thier lives to defend our country! Here, on this show, we come together and share beer recipes, diaper changing techniques, financial discoveries - manly things, for men! Airs Fridays at 9am CT, rated R for the cussing that can occur, and available for download (podcast) immediately following each show.