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  • Summary:

    Today, we’re delving into an exciting new therapy modality called Critical Memory Integration. This groundbreaking approach focuses on healing trauma by exploring unresolved critical memories and integrating them with neutral memories, fostering resilience in individuals.

    At the forefront of this creation, our incredible team of panelists joins us today. You might recognize one of our team members—Estefana Johnson—who shared her insights in our Valentine’s episode. Estefana is a cherished friend of Foster Arizona. Alongside Estefana, we have two remarkable psychologists: Dr. Brian Livesay and Dr. Diego Hernandez. Both experts bring extensive backgrounds in trauma care and post-traumatic stress disorder.

    Over the past two years, I’ve eagerly followed the progress of this project, and it’s truly remarkable to witness its practical implementation locally and globally.

    Resource Links:

    Critical Memory Integration (CMI) - ARISE Alliance Institute

    The trajectory of PTSD among youth in foster care: A survival analysis examining maltreatment experiences prior to entry into care.

    How We Feel

    Atlas of the Heart - Brené Brown

    Lighthouse Psychiatry

    Lt. Col Mann TEDx on Generosity of Scars

    The Generosity of Scars | Scott Mann | TEDxSantaBarbara

    Elizabeth Feldmann Barrett How Emotions are made

    How Emotions are Made (Cinematic Lecture)

    Luiz Pessoa: “The Entangled Brain: Integration of emotion, motivation, and cognition”

    Luiz Pessoa: “The Entangled Brain: Integration of emotion, motivation, and cognition”

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:00 - Opening

    00:33 - Intro

    02:03 - Dr. Brian Livesay

    03:40 - Connection is Fundamental

    04:35 - Dr. Diego Hernandez

    05:23 - Did I Make a Difference?

    06:38 - We Did Everything Together

    08:07 - Estefana Johnson

    09:57 - You were Made to Fly!

    10:46 - It Starts with the Therapist

    13:20 - Clinicians are more than Technicians

    15:42 - Survival is not Enough

    16:34 - Critical Memory Integration

    18:24 - The Deepest Conversations

    19:00 - We are Designed for Play

    19:47 - Getting Through the Bad Feelings

    21:54 - Recognizing the Signals

    22:59 - Tactical Disclosure

    25:02 - Power in Relatability

    28:55 - Where does CMI Fit?

    32:20 - Integrating CMI

    35:08 - Critical Memories

    36:14 - The Stories Movies Tell

    37:15 - Full Access to your Emotions

    40:21 - Teaching Kids to Experience Emotions

    43:33 - Stories are Wisdom

    44:18 - How to get this new Therapy

    47:10 - New Understanding

    48:03 - A Hub for Training

    50:18 - Resources

    51:15 - Final Thoughts

    55:10 - Conclusion

    55:40 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! In today’s episode, we’re picking up where we left off last week. Our microphones are live on location at Foster Cooperative’s first training day of 2024, where we’re soaking up knowledge and growing together. 🌱

    Last time, you had the pleasure of meeting some of our incredible presenters. This week, get ready to hear from three more remarkable human beings. They’ll share their stories, insights, and passion for fostering. 🎙️

    So, without further ado, let’s dive into this enriching conversation! Buckle up, because here we go! 🚀

    Resource Links:

    Foster Cooperative

    PAX Arizona Initiative – PAXIS (Frances Holguin)

    Mercy Care (Nichol Khan)

    Bali Blue Wellness (Dr. Jaime Parker)

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

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  • Summary:

    Today is all about something extra special! We've packed our gear and hit the road to bring you an exclusive behind-the-scenes experience. Right now, we're on location at Foster Cooperative's training day, immersing ourselves in a day of learning and growth.

    Foster Arizona, a beacon of support and empowerment, hosts these training events twice a year. And let me tell you, each time is a unique journey filled with eye-opening insights. Today, we're not keeping those gems to ourselves – we're bringing you along for the ride!

    Join us as we dive into various topics and explore valuable resources that shape the fostering landscape. Whether you're a seasoned advocate or just starting your journey, there's something for everyone. So, buckle up and get ready to embark on this enlightening adventure with us. Are you ready? Let's go!

    Resource Links:

    Foster Cooperative

    Learn From People Who Lived It (Mathew Blades)

    I Needed That Podcast - Chris Powell (Mathew Blades)

    Shift Happens Transformative Counseling (Wade Cordell)

    Lighthouse Psychiatry (Carol Melim)

    Internet Safety | Arizona Attorney General (Jillian Ashby)

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

  • Summary:

    It’s officially Hallmark’s week of love! 🌟 When it comes to parenting kids with trauma, we often hear the words, “All You Need is Love.” But is that really true? This week, we dive deep into this question.

    We’re thrilled to have Estefana Johnson joining us in the conversation. Estefana, a clinical social worker, began her career working with youth in residential treatment facilities. She’s a mover and a shaker, bringing innovative approaches to trauma therapies. Plus, she’s a favorite trainer at our semi-annual Foster Cooperative training events. And let’s not forget, she’s one of the most loving people we know. Tune in for insightful discussions and heartfelt stories! ❤️🎙️

    Resource Links:

    Trainings

    Arizona Council of Human Service Providers – Neurosequential Model in Caregiving© Webinar Series

    History | ChildTrauma Academy

    [email protected]

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:12 - Opening

    00:35 - Welcome!

    01:41 - Estefana's Journey

    03:39 - Radical Acceptance

    04:46 - Moving Beyond Fear

    06:31 - Being Curious

    06:59 - Therapy

    08:07 - The Hero Complex

    09:58 - What is Love?

    11:00 - If you Loved them Better...

    13:10 - "We're on Your Team"

    14:35 - Rose-Colored Glasses

    17:40 - Your Purpose is Greater

    19:01 - The Heart Connection

    21:17 - Handling Trauma

    24:07 - Drip Drip Drip

    26:00 - Self-Judgment

    28:09 - It is not a Fault

    30:17 - Deep Connections

    32:01 - Choosing to Show Love

    36:34 - Gratitude

    36:55 - The Takeaway

    37:58 - Resources

    39:09 - Connect with Us!

    39:33 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    Discover the profound journey of becoming a foster parent in a nation grappling with a staggering shortage. In this episode, we explore the critical issue of the national decline in foster parent numbers, intensified by a 60% drop since the onset of the pandemic. Arizona, mirroring this trend, has witnessed a drastic decrease from 5,559 licensed foster homes in 2019 to a mere 2,798 as of November 2023 – marking a nearly 50% loss.

    Against this backdrop, our guests, Elisia and Jade from Step Stone Youth Agency, shed light on the challenges and rewards of foster parenting. At a time when Arizona is fervently working to address the shortage through extensive recruitment initiatives, this podcast provides a timely and insightful conversation. If you've ever wondered about the complexities, triumphs, and heartaches involved in fostering, join us as we explore the untold stories and experiences that shape the journey of these unsung heroes. The need for foster parents has never been more urgent, and this episode aims to inspire and inform, encouraging listeners to consider making a difference in the lives of vulnerable children.

    Resource Links:

    Foster - Step 1 and 2 - Let's Get to Know You | Arizona Department of Child Safety

    Arizona - StepStone Family & Youth Services

    Foster Arizona | Foster & Adobt

    Foster Care: Avoiding Foster Parent Burnout | Justice Resource Institute

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

  • Summary:

    Welcome to the Fostering Voices podcast with your host Kim! Join us as we shake things up in this episode by delving into some authentic mom talk. We've given Brian the boot for now to bring you a heartfelt discussion on the joys and challenges of parenting within the realms of foster care and adoption. As a mom personally touched by these experiences, connecting with others who share similar journeys has been both empowering and deeply meaningful. In today's episode, we're joined by the wonderful Elisia and Ally, fellow moms navigating the unique landscape of foster care and adoption. Tune in for an honest and relatable conversation that sheds light on the beauty and complexities of building families through love and compassion.

    Resource Links:

    MOMnation® AZ

    Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents

    Foster Cooperative

    Three Precious Miracles

    Connect With Us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:34 - Welcome!

    01:13 - Elisia's Story

    04:32 - Ally's Story

    09:37 - What have you Learned

    13:24 - Filling in the Gaps

    15:28 - Momma Joy Moments

    21:43 - Challenging Spaces

    30:05 - Tag You're In!

    32:47 - Tag You're Out!

    34:11 - Keeping Your Sanity

    39:47 - Filling Your Own Cup

    41:26 - Saying No in Love

    42:36 - Resources

    45:11 - Connect with Us!

    45:50 - ThankYou!

  • Summary:

    Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast! Happy 2024, everyone! We're thrilled to kick off another year of heartfelt conversations and insightful stories. In today's episode, we have a special discussion with our 'bigs'—Maisey, Liesey, and Sam—sharing their unique perspectives on foster care and adoption. Join us as we delve into their experiences, gaining valuable insights into the world of fostering and adoption through their eyes. Thanks for tuning in, and let's embark on this journey of understanding and empathy together!

    Resource Links:

    Authentic Voices Video Series: Sharing Our Perspective - Center for States - Child Welfare Capacity Building Collaborative

    Educate | Foster Arizona

    Foster - Step 1 and 2 - Let's Get to Know You | Arizona Department of Child Safety

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

  • Summary:

    As we wrap up 2024, we're diving into the complexities of foster care planning. Unlike the conventional New Year's resolutions, the foster care journey is a unique landscape filled with uncertainties. In today's raw and unfiltered discussion, it's just the two of us sharing our personal experiences without any guests. We want to pull back the curtain on the challenges and emotions that come with navigating the foster care land between.

    As we all contemplate what the coming year holds, those entrenched in foster care face a different set of considerations. Planning takes on a whole new meaning. Join us as we explore the intricacies of making decisions in the midst of uncertainty, reflecting on the hurdles, and finding the courage to move forward. Whether you're part of the foster care community or simply curious about the realities, this episode aims to resonate with you on a profound level. Tune in for an honest conversation about the uncharted territories of fostering, hoping it sparks a connection and provides insights into the often overlooked aspects of this journey.

    Resource Links:

    Foster Cooperative

    National Foster Care & Adoption Directory | Child Welfare Information Gateway

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:09 - On Today's Episode

    00:55 - Welcome!

    01:32 - In the Thick of the Crazy

    03:22 - What is the Land Between?

    06:20 - Handling the Phases

    08:10 - Managing Emotions

    12:13 - Emotional Roller Coaster

    15:05 - Being Fully Invested

    17:09 - It Affects More than Just Us

    20:48 - Bringing in the Family

    22:17 - Pre Foster Training

    23:04 - Us vs. Them

    25:56 - It's not About the Socks

    29:53 - Controlling what you Can

    34:02 - Connect with Community

    36:04 - Create a Memory

    39:21 - Don't be Afraid to Connect

    41:36 - Resources

    42:11 - Connect with Us!

    43:16 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    Welcome to a festive episode of our podcast, where we dive into the heartwarming world of holiday traditions and intentional joy. As we usher in the holiday season, we're joined by some special guests – the Vehon kids! In this intimate conversation, we explore how our family of 9 embraces the spirit of togetherness and crafts unique traditions that redefine the meaning of festive celebrations.

    Discover the magic of intentional joy and connection as we unpack the Vehon family's approach to the holidays. From crazy traditions that spark laughter to thoughtful rituals that deepen family bonds, this episode offers a glimpse into the joyous tapestry we’ve woven. If you've ever been curious about what holiday festivities can look like in a bustling household, this is the perfect episode for you.

    Join us in celebrating the season with the Vehon kids’ first-ever podcast recording. Whether you're seeking inspiration for your own festivities or just love a good holiday story, this episode is sure to fill your heart with warmth and festive cheer. Thanks for joining us as we unwrap the magic of intentional joy in this joyous holiday season!

    Resource Links:

    Swirled Mint Cookies Recipe

    Rolo Pretzels Recipe - The Girl Who Ate Everything

    Butterscotch yule log: A retro Christmas dessert recipe from the 60s - Click Americana

    Christmas 2023: Phoenix holiday lights map

    Foster Care & The Holidays

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

  • Summary:

    In this episode we peel back the curtain and take a look into tribal foster care. Joining us are Brad and Karin Dahlman, a remarkable couple who have dedicated themselves to fostering children for many years. Through tribal foster care, they've opened their hearts and homes to dozens of kids, making an immeasurable impact on our community. Karin sits on the board of Foster Arizona, and Brad is one of those people we can call to rally troops or step into a problem. We absolutely love them and are really grateful we all get to learn from them today. Tune in as we dive deep into their incredible journey as foster parents and explore the vital role of tribal foster care in the lives of children. Join us for an inspiring and informative conversation that sheds light on the challenges and rewards of this vital work.

    Resource Links:

    The Importance of ICWA Foster Homes: A Personal Account | American Indian Policy Institute

    For Families & Service Providers » NICWA

    Foster a Future for American Indian Children | Arizona Department of Child Safety

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:09 - On Today's Episod

    00:43 - Welcome

    01:17 - Brad and Karin Dahlman

    01:38 - Life Before Foster Care

    02:27 - Deciding to Foster

    04:01 - Answering the Call

    04:21 - Adjusting to the Decision

    06:17 - Tribal or Not?

    08:27 - Overcoming Tribal Challenges

    13:37 - Kill 'em with Kindness

    15:07 - It's all About Relationships

    16:45 - Let them Lead Us

    18:29 - The Baby Book

    19:59 - From Baby Book to Dad

    20:16 - Packing the Children Up

    22:28 - Losing a Child

    24:17 - Can't do it for Yourself

    24:55 - Stronger for It

    25:55 - Never too Old

    26:56 - Unexpected Blessings

    28:11 - Being on the Same Page

    30:15 - Changing Visions

    31:57 - Misconceptions

    32:58 - Starting Late

    34:23 - 7 kids; 6 and Under

    35:09 - You Can!

    35:47 - The Takeaway

    37:21 - Resources

    38:52 - Connect with Us!

    39:16 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    Welcome back to the Fostering Voices podcast with Kim and Brian! In celebration of Adoption Awareness Month this November, join us for a special episode dedicated to all things adoption. Our guest, Ed Johnson, a revered local attorney deeply embedded in foster and adoption circles, brings a wealth of experience to the discussion.

    In this insightful episode, Ed shares his years of knowledge, shedding light on crucial aspects of the adoption journey. If you're on the path to adoption in Arizona, don't miss the opportunity to connect with Ed—his contact information will be in the resource notes. As advocates for informed parenting, we emphasize the importance of understanding the unique spaces of loss associated with adoption. Education is key, and the more you empower yourself with knowledge, the better equipped you'll be to support your children, present or future.

    We hope today's conversation sparks valuable insights and encourages ongoing discussions about adoption. Tune in for a heartfelt exploration of this meaningful journey.

    Resource Links:

    Ed Johnson - [email protected], 480-209-2847

    Families Considering Foster Care and Adoption

    The Primal Wound by Nancy Newton Verrier

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:03 - Intro

    00:53 - Welcome!

    01:42 - Ed's Story and Work

    02:25 - Having a Voice in the Court System

    03:53 - Ed's Experience with Adoption

    05:39 - Kids Need to be Remembered

    06:09 - Appreciating RAD

    07:54 - The Joy and Reality of Adoption

    10:12 - FIrst Hand Experience with Trauma

    12:18 - Relating to One Another

    12:46 - Support Leads to Successful Adoptions

    15:56 - Resilience Leads to Successful Adoptions

    17:51 - Those who Stick Around

    18:54 - It's a Family Affair

    19:25 - Who's Your Favorite Child?

    20:24 - Other People's Perceptions

    23:08 - To Foster or To Adopt?

    27:03 - Talking about Severence

    28:24 - Talking about Cost

    30:24 - Subsidies for Fostering

    35:23 - The Practical Support of Subsidy

    36:56 - The Courtroom Process

    40:03 - After the Courtroom is Over

    42:08 - The 30-dollar Staple

    44:29 - Freedom After Adoption

    46:39 - Extended Family

    47:35 - The Takeaway

    48:59 - Resources

    51:01 - Connect with Us!

    51:24 - Thank you!

  • Summary:

    In this episode, we dive deep into the crucial topic of mental health and finding a path forward when you're grappling with the question, "Where do I go from here?" Today, we are thrilled to have Carol Melim join our conversation. Carol is not only a Licensed Clinical Social Worker but also a specialist in trauma therapy, certified in EMDR and EMDRIA, with a unique perspective. She brings a wealth of book knowledge and invaluable lived experience to the table, making her exceptionally attuned to the distinctive challenges faced by foster and adopted children, as well as their families.

    Throughout this episode, we'll explore the intersection of mental health and family dynamics, drawing on Carol's expertise and personal insights. Whether you're a parent seeking guidance, someone interested in mental health, or simply curious about the experiences of foster and adopted children, this conversation will provide valuable insights and practical advice. Join us as we navigate this important conversation, offering hope and understanding for those asking themselves, "Where do I go from here?"

    Resource Links:

    Lighthouse Psychiatry

    Support Group & Retreats

    Types of Trauma Therapy | Mental Health Treatment | California

    Complementary & Alternative Techniques and Interventions used with Complex Trauma Clients

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters

    00:22 - On Today's Episode

    00:35 - Welcome Carol Melim

    01:33 - Carol's Story

    04:04 - RTC's, CFT's, Life Skills

    04:55 - Making a Change to Help

    05:48 - Respite

    06:55 - Becoming a Therapist

    07:57 - Unique Challenges

    09:18 - Lacking Behavioral Support

    11:47 - Having a Safe Space

    12:53 - Navigating Therapy

    15:18 - Maneuvering Within Therapy

    16:57 - Knowing When Therapy is Needed

    18:09 - Recognizing False Motivation

    20:51 - Follow the Mama Duck

    21:31 - The 'Why' Journal

    23:02 - Changing Behavior

    25:22 - You Don't Get Pie

    27:41 - Fun in Parenting

    28:58 - Identifying Urgent Scenarios

    30:51 - Behavior Coaches

    32:32 - When it's not just Trauma

    33:55 - Beyond Therapy

    35:14 - Leaving too Soon

    36:38 - The Takeaway

    37:20 - Resources

    38:25 - Connect with Us!

    38:46 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    Today, on our 20th wedding anniversary, we embark on a meaningful journey, delving deep into the intricate layers of marriages affected by trauma. Join us as we explore the profound impact that caring for children with special needs has on marital relationships, acknowledging the challenges without getting lost in statistics.

    We are honored to be joined by Perry Emerick, an ordained minister and EMDR trained counselor and supervisor. With 26 years of marriage and three children under his belt, Perry brings a wealth of personal and professional experience to our discussion. Together, we unpack the complexities of trauma, relationships, and family dynamics, focusing on the ways past traumas can influence our present connections.

    In this episode, Perry shares invaluable insights on how to strengthen marriages and families, especially when past traumas cast their shadows. His expertise and compassionate approach offer guidance on shoring up relationships, emphasizing the resilience and transformative power of love and understanding.

    Tune in as we navigate the profound impact of trauma on marriages, discovering the resilience that lies within the bonds of love and commitment. Thank you for joining us on this heartfelt exploration.

    Resource Links:

    Perry Emerick LICENSED PROFESSIONAL COUNSELOR | PASTOR

    Keeping a Marriage Together While Raising a Child with Special Needs

    The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma

    What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing by Oprah Winfrey, Bruce D. Perry, et al.

    Atlas of the Heart: Mapping Meaningful Connection and the Language of Human Experience Audible Logo Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

  • Summary:

    In this episode we delve into the transformative journey of becoming a foster parent. Join us as we sit down with Katie O’Dell, the passionate Executive Director of AZ127, a steadfast advocate for fostering life within a supportive community. AZ127 firmly believes that children require families, and families thrive with a strong support network. Together, we explore the profound steps, challenges, and rewards on the path to becoming a foster parent. Katie shares her invaluable insights, highlighting the vital role that community plays in this process. Tune in as we embark on this inspiring journey, discovering the power of love, compassion, and unity in building a brighter future for children in need.

    Resource Links:

    https://az127.org/

    Foster & Adopt

    Foster Cooperative

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:08 - On Today's Episode

    00:35 - Welcome Katie O'Dell!

    01:03 - Katie's Story

    04:12 - Invisibility in Our Own Community

    05:58 - What Happens to the Invisible?

    07:23 - Advocating for the Invisible

    09:15 - The Stereotype of The Invisible

    10:03 - Mobilizing Faith Communities

    11:27 - Families Need Communities

    13:51 - Fostering is Hard

    14:59 - Wrap Around Care Community

    17:10 - Lonliness in America

    18:05 - Offering Care

    19:08 - We are "Judgy" People

    21:28 - We can Change our Communities

    22:44 - Walking the Talk

    26:55 - Foster Parents are Real People

    28:00 - Take the Next Step

    30:03 - Anyone can Step Up

    31:14 - It will Change Your Life!

    31:58 - Every Little Thing Counts!

    33:31 - The Takeaway

    33:48 - Step Into Caring for the Vulnerable

    34:31 - Resources

    35:19 - Start Asking Questions

    36:02 - Join the Conversation!

    36:30 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    Today is all about celebration as Foster Arizona turns 10 years old. Join us as we take a delightful trip down memory lane, reflecting on the invaluable lessons and heartwarming joys we've encountered throughout this incredible journey.

    In this special episode, we're honored to have Al Moore, one of our founding board members and the current board chair, as well as Ashley Shick, one of our earliest lead team volunteers and a dedicated board member. Their stories and insights will inspire you as we share our love and gratitude for these incredible individuals. Get ready for a heartfelt and enlightening conversation as we celebrate a decade of fostering hope and change. Stay tuned!

    Resource Links:

    https://fosterarizona.org/get-involved/#events

    Please submit your story (and photos if you’d like) to: [email protected]

    Register for the celebration event!: https://rock.fosterarizona.org/registration/10YearBash

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:10 - On Today's Episode

    00:36 - Welcome Ashley and Al

    00:59 - How did you get Involved?

    04:01 - Ashley Getting the Call

    04:30 - And then there's Al!

    06:00 - Foster Care Becomes Personal

    07:36 - The Kids Change Your Life

    08:28 - What Keeps You Coming Back?

    11:33 - It Takes a Village

    12:03 - The System's Numbers are Skewed

    13:38 - What Brings them Back?

    15:04 - It's not all Sunshine and Roses

    18:53 - Pivot, Flex, Adapt, Grow

    20:10 - The Human Challenge

    25:20 - Meeting People Where They Are

    26:51 - Mountain Top Moments

    31:02 - Reminiscing on the Beginning

    33:35 - Celebrating Today and the Future

    34:59 - The Magic Sauce

    37:11 - There's a Surprise Drawing!

    39:04 - The Takeaway

    41:18 - Big Birthday Bash Event Coming Up!

    41:56 - Submit Your Story Please!

    42:31 - Connect with Us!

    43:08 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    As we continue exploring the return to school season, today's discussion delves into a crucial topic. Join us as we sit down with Amanda Glass, an esteemed legal professional with a passion for advocating for children's rights.

    Amanda's journey, post-graduation from the Sandra Day O'Connor College of Law at Arizona State University, led her to a groundbreaking Equal Justice Works fellowship at the Arizona Center for Disability Law, supported by Greenberg Traurig, LLP. Her impactful project focuses on enhancing accessibility to special education and mental health services for children with invisible disabilities within Arizona's child welfare system. Through legal expertise, community education, and collaborative efforts with existing organizations, Amanda strives to uplift children facing emotional or unseen challenges.

    In this insightful conversation, Amanda sheds light on the invaluable role collaboration and connection play in ensuring every child's needs are met. If you're a parent or guardian encountering roadblocks, frustration, or uncertainty in securing the necessary support for your child, this episode offers guidance and hope. Join us as we explore the transformative power of collective action and empathy in advocating for the future of our children. Thank you, Amanda, for gracing us with your expertise and perspective today. Tune in and empower yourself with knowledge!

    Resource Links:

    Archived: Guide to the Individualized Education Program

    Learn The Law - NCLD

    Resources - Arizona Center for Disability Law

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:04 - On Today's Episode

    00:46 - Meet Amanda Glass

    01:29 - Amanda's Work

    03:23 - What Disparities are There?

    05:05 - What Draws you to Child Welfare?

    07:08 - Dukes Up!

    10:04 - Options for Parents in Dispute

    11:58 - Options for Filing Complaints

    13:39 - Ordering Corrective Action

    16:23 - Timeline for Due Process

    19:06 - Broken Systems

    23:21 - Restraint and Seclusion

    27:00 - What can a Parent Do?

    29:26 - Follow the Plan with Fidelity

    31:41 - Accountability

    32:37 - Public Records of Accountability

    34:38 - Least Restrictive Placement

    35:56 - Change of Placement

    37:10 - Knowledge is Power

    38:18 - Procedural Safeguards Notice

    39:22 - Don't go it Alone!

    40:00 - The Takeaway

    40:57 - Resource Links

    42:56 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    Join us in celebrating the return to school as we dive into an enlightening discussion on IEPs and 504s with the incredible Nancy Williams. Our guest, Nancy, brings a wealth of expertise to the table as the Executive Director of the Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents, an organization that has personally touched our lives. With a remarkable 30-year career in education, including roles as a special education teacher and administrator, Nancy's insights are invaluable.

    As a volunteer Surrogate Parent through the Department of Education, Nancy advocates passionately for youth in group homes who require special education services. She's a dedicated champion for families navigating the complex school system and fighting for their children's rights. In this episode, we'll delve into the intricacies of Individualized Education Plans (IEPs) and 504 plans, gaining essential knowledge and strategies for supporting children with diverse needs.

    Nancy's dedication and expertise shine through as we discuss fostering inclusive and supportive educational environments. Tune in as we engage in a dynamic conversation that empowers parents and educators alike. We're thrilled to welcome Nancy into our podcast space today.

    Resource Links:

    Arizona Association for Foster and Adoptive Parents

    A Guide to the Individualized Education Program

    National Center for Learning Disabilities

    Arizona Center for Disability Law

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

  • Summary:

    In this thought-provoking podcast episode, we delve into the world of adoption through the eyes of Mea Han Fajardo, an extraordinary international adoptee and the visionary behind FostAdopt Connections. Join us as we explore Mea's deeply personal journey and how she has transformed her experiences into a powerful platform, fostering meaningful opportunities and connections for children in foster care and group homes.

    Throughout the conversation, Mea opens up about the unique challenges and joys of being an adoptee, offering valuable insights that shed light on the intricacies of the adoption process. Her heartfelt reflections inspire empathy and understanding, as we gain a profound appreciation for the resilience and strength of those touched by adoption. Mea's passion for making a positive impact in the lives of vulnerable kids shines through, and we express our sincerest gratitude for her willingness to share her remarkable story with our listeners.

    So tune in and join us in this moving discussion as we celebrate the power of human connection and the transformative influence of compassion and love in the world of adoption.

    Resource Links:

    FostAdopt Connections

    20 Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew - Nightlight

    Link to book:

    Twenty Things Adopted Kids Wish Their Adoptive Parents Knew: Eldridge, Sherrie: 9780440508380: Amazon.com

    Connect with us!

    Email: [email protected]

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    Instagram: @FosteringVoices

    Web: www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapter Markers:

    00:01 - Open

    00:04 - On Today's Episode

    00:33 - Welcome Mea Han Fajardo

    01:33 - Mea's Story - Adopted at 10

    02:58 - The Life-Long Experience

    03:48 - We don't talk About it

    04:01 - Gratitude and Lonliness

    05:34 - The Space to Grieve

    07:01 - Grieving with Intent

    08:02 - How to Grieve

    09:41 - Being Allowed to Grieve

    10:32 - Normalizing Grief

    11:29 - Breaking Open

    12:50 - Grieving with Others

    14:31 - Unlocking Grief

    17:09 - The Mystery of Being an Adoptee

    18:17 - Sympathizing with Adoptees

    20:45 - Sharing my Adoption Story

    22:38 - Reflection for Compassion

    23:59 - An Adult Relationship with Parents

    25:13 - Searching for Relationship

    26:50 - Don't Hold on so Tightly

    27:01 - Being Prepared when your Kid Starts Searching

    27:44 - We Accept Your Family

    29:42 - Loving Myself

    31:26 - The Takeaway

    32:27 - On Behalf of Adoptive Parents

    33:25 - Resources

    35:04 - Closing

  • Summary:

    Matthew Blades is a familiar and friendly voice known to many in Arizona from the successful Matthew and Priscilla in the Morning show on Mix 96.9 FM. Matthew's own journey of battling physical and mental health challenges led him to step away from broadcasting and embark on a healing journey. Now, he sits in front of the podcast mic, hosting the insightful "Learn From Those Who Lived It" podcast, where he engages in conversations with individuals who have overcome unimaginable circumstances and found their path to healing.

    Matthew's commitment to spreading joy continues with his new podcast, "I Needed That," co-hosted with Fitness Expert Chris Powell. Drawing from his personal experiences, Matthew shares valuable lessons in his workshops and speaking engagements, touching the lives of others. Today, we dive into an important topic: self-care. This discussion resonates with everyone, particularly those involved in the foster care world. Get ready to join us as we explore the significance of self-care and welcome Matthew Blades to the podcast. Prepare to be inspired and uplifted!

    Resource Links:

    Learn From People Who Lived It - Podcast

    2021 Top 10 Self-Care Resources - PDF

    Caregivers Guide to Wellbeing - PDF

    Connect with us!

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    IG: @FosteringVoices

    www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapter Markers:

    00:04 - On Today's Episode

    00:34 - Welcome Matthew Blades!

    02:25 - Matthew's Story

    04:40 - Your Super Power

    05:12 - 3 Ways to Screw up Your Kids

    07:10 - I am a Human FIrst!

    07:41 - Shame, Fear, and Guilt

    11:06 - The Recordings in our Heads

    12:33 - Moving Forward

    13:49 - Spinning the Plates

    15:52 - It's not Control; It's Fear

    16:59 - Letting Go

    18:44 - You're a Transitional Character

    20:44 - Speaking it Out Loud

    21:47 - Redefining Success

    23:59 - Your Real Life - Personal Inventory

    26:43 - The Value of Self

    27:51 - Having a Self Care Strategy

    30:03 - Kim's Weekend

    31:31 - Being Selfish

    33:36 - The Blame Game

    35:00 - Giving Yourself Permission

    38:02 - The Takeaway

    40:04 - Resources - Closing Thoughts

    43:16 - You are not Broken

    44:05 - Wrap Up

    45:00 - Thank You!

  • Summary:

    At just 25 years old, Lindsey found herself pregnant and the parent of two children in the custody of the Department of Child Safety. She endured a heartbreaking struggle with homelessness, residing in motels and even living on the streets, surrounded by others in similar desperate circumstances. Desperate for change, Lindsey discovered a lifeline—a housing program for pregnant women with substance use disorders. This pivotal moment led her to the Family Involvement Center, igniting her path to healing and the reunion of her fractured family.

    Now, Lindsey is an active force in her city, advocating for change through various organizations such as the Parent Advisory Board, the Prevention Advisory Collaborative, and the Family Navigation Action Team. Her passion for improving child welfare has brought her before community audiences, the governor's office, and dependency judges. Lindsey's dedication to serving her community is truly inspiring.

    Join us as we delve into Lindsey's extraordinary journey, her triumphs, and her unwavering commitment to making a positive impact and becoming a beacon of hope and change in foster care.

    Resource Links:

    Family Involvement Center

    Birth-Foster Family Connections • Bright Spots

    RiseIssue_35_Parent-Advocacy.pdf

    Connect with us!

    Facebook: @FosteringVoicesPodcast

    IG: @FosteringVoices

    www.fosterarizona.org

    Chapters:

    00:01 - Open

    00:34 - Welcome Lindsey Shine

    02:09 - Lindsey's Story

    03:47 - Going to the Wrong Attorney

    04:21 - Leaving with Nothing

    06:21 - Getting Help

    07:05 - 5 Months and 3 Years

    08:00 - Keeping Hope Alive

    09:11 - Homelessness

    10:27 - A Fork in the Road

    12:19 - One More Shot

    14:06 - Severance Trial

    15:51 - Transition from Visitation

    16:54 - A Traumatic Space

    17:54 - A Glorified Babysitter?

    19:11 - Being Friends with the Fosters

    19:53 - A Broken System Challenge

    22:13 - Choosing a Solution

    23:38 - Choosing Responsibility

    25:07 - Advocating in a Meaningful Way

    27:18 - Normalizing Relational Support

    28:28 - Deficiencies are Opportunities

    30:45 - The Takeaway

    32:30 - Being the Change

    32:54 - Resources

    34:25 - Wrap Up

    34:56 - Thank You!