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  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    Simply put: I have a low emotional intelligence. When I get into something online, such as this, I often (to me, at least) seem to come off as writing an academic journal. I'm terrible with anything social, and i often don't know how to make 'small talk' or say things gently. I speak my mind as my thoughts come, even if they aren't fully finished yet. And even when I DO stop to think before I speak, I still tend to get it wrong. I can sound harsh, angry, condescending, or whatever else- when to me, i'm simply making a harmless observation or statement. To top it all off, I have a hard time understanding people's motivations and behaviors when dealing with me, as well as more subtle or complex social cues. And asking people directly rarely ever works, as they don't want to just say what they're thinking. I also often can't express my intentions or meanings without going through a roundabout- and often hurtful or offensive- series of comments.

    So, what can i do to fix this...??? I've severed many ties with people and friends, and hurt even more, all because of my poor social skills, and I can't seem to get it right.

    P.S.: Sorry, paraphrasing isn't my strong suit, lol. This is what I mean by 'roundabout' explanations.

    ~ScienceRocks

    Segment from Livestream 1/9/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    Maybe its not a good question for here? But uhh.. i don't know, i shake my head, I always wanted to start singing, doing covers, etc..
    i really feel unsure about it and tell myself that i am not good, without even starting and all..
    It took me years to buy a microphone but i never really recorded something. And now i am soon starting to take hormones and my voice will chance.. should i even try or just give it up or something?

    ~Riku

    Segment from Livestream 1/9/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
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  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    This is kind of a weird question I wanted to ask and help with. I really enjoy reading manga books and sometimes I get attached to the characters so when it ends I feel depressed, any help for this?

    I feel depressed because I get emotionally attached to the characters, so even after the good ending I just wish there was more I could read, or I could switch places with a character.

    ~Repacharge

    Segment from Livestream 1/9/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    Would it be ok to do online dating?

    ~Hackamur

    Segment from Livestream 1/9/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    Question again. I'm falling behind. I really want to answer the questions that everyone has because I care for all of these wonderful people, but I also need to eat and sleep and pay for bills. So long story short, how do I make it happen, or should I even?

    ~Joseph Bohan

    Segment from Livestream 1/4/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    How do you stop self suppression? ...thoughts, feelings, emotions, wants, desires, etc.

    ~Hailey Hepworth

    Segment from Livestream 1/4/19

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    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.***

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    So I've been moving on with my life but I woke up to a couple of friends distrusting me. They asked my help to find a person since I was close to her last night and she was missing. But it kinda caught me off guard to know that her secret was told to a stranger. So there I was, being a prime suspect. It showed me how little they trusted me. It's resolved now, but it kinda saddens me to know how little I meant to them. I was asked for help only to get accused later.

    ~Aquil


    Segment from Livestream 1/4/19

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    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.***

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Topic addressed in this segment:

    I've been in a weird meandering relationship with someone for a while to see if we can make it work.
    And after a lot of thinking and talking I guess I don't know what it means to be in a relationship.
    I can't figure out what it means to be more than friends and if we can be that.

    ~Jonno


    Segment from Livestream 1/2/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Concern addressed in this segment:

    Hey guys I'm being transferred to a new position because my company got bought out. How do you deal with leaving things behind and starting something knew, when it's not entirely your choice?

    ~Joseph Bohan


    Segment from Livestream 1/2/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Concern addressed in this segment:

    So I've dealt with a lot since before Christmas.
    I broke up with my boyfriend and when I did, he tried to kill himself on camera.
    He almost overdosed but he threw it up. He recently texted me too.
    He texted me a whole paragraph basically saying that he only "loved" me because he didn't want to be alone.
    He used me for his own benefit and I loved him with all my heart.
    I still can't hate him though. I hate what he did but I can't hate him.
    I hate it but it's true. On top of that, my cousin died on New Years.
    He was found in the woods dead. He was hanging...
    He was found hanging from a tree. I knew him pretty well and it hurts.. My heart hurts so much...
    I feel so utterly broken and I just want to end it all...
    I want that more than anything right now. I want to but I'm too scared to. I'm to scared to hurt anyone...
    I don't want to hurt the ones I love but I feel more scattered and hurt then I have in a long time.
    I feel more broken.. I just hate it all. All the pain, heartache, the numbness...
    I just don't know what to do anymore...

    ~Bre


    Segment from Livestream 1/2/19

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    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.

    Concern addressed in this segment:

    People are bound to change over the course of life physically, mentally and emotionally. Most would go either left or right on crossroads, but we know that they are going on, moving forward. We also might find ourselves in need to step back off some things, plan another approach. Metamorphosis is change, transition, evolution. Some people change for the worse, but we all strive to be better, the best version of ourselves. What about those who took too many steps back? How much progress would they make? Were there any change at all?

    I'm afraid, of myself. Well not really, my old self was capable and efficient. It's just the end can't justify the means, I really don't want to go down that road again, for the sake of people I've come to know. I'm sitting on a mount of bodies, the higher it stacks up, the further I could see. "Don't look down, it's just their time. All of us live on borrowed time. One day you'll be part of the mountain, but for now make sure to climb all the way up, we owe them at least that". That's what we kept telling ourselves.

    We wanted to help realise dreams, because those people ran out of sands in their hourglass. Heh, 'we'? It is actually just 'I'. This emptiness, a sign he's coming. I feel alone, even when I'm aware of myself of being surrounded by interesting people. I'm a stopwatch, I got all the time in this world and the ability to reset. "What's happening? Why are the hands going counter clockwise? What's with this smile? Why am I getting excited?" Why am I welcoming that brat? Why does it feel good. Why do I feel fake, pretending to care. I'm a selfish brat, violent and efficient. At least then I feel like I'm capable. I'm sorry, I hate being rotten but now I really hate being pasty. The mask is off, time goes backwards and I'm coming back. Bear with me until I realize my responsibilities as an adult again, until I can say "This is fine".

    I wanted to believe in humanity, well I did. But when I lose faith in myself, then I can't see it going any better for the rest. So yeah, let's see how I fight myself again. Bless it, I had to handle all the dead people and now my old self is jumping into this. I can't see myself being the same again, and this change seem to be going on quite the direction. I thought I was already a butterfly, but my pupa self had something to say about it. I might come out as a an insect with a sting, or something with beautiful wings. All that is certain, something is struggling in the pupa.

    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Concern Addressed in This Segment:

    Most of the time, I feel ok. I usually spend my time playing games, drawing, watching videos online, things like that. I typically keep to myself if possible, not really socializing with others. When I do try to socialize, most of the time I get nervous and feel like I messed up my chances of making a connection, and whenever that happens, I get into this terrible state of mind where I feel like I don't want to do anything and that I shouldn't try to make connections with others because it will always turn out bad. That feeling usually last for a while, and then the cycle repeats. Are there ways to break that cycle?


    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.


    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Concern Addressed in This Segment:

    When i was younger i remember most things i was told, like every bully's words and every time i got hurt by them. My mom and dad never hit me and i barely got in trouble but sometimes i wish they did one of those things more when i did something wrong. So, in turn, I took everything to heart every time they yelled at me. i don't steal, i don't talk about my feelings, i don't fight back, and i don't say when i'm hurting. i'm afraid of my dad because he yelled at me more and sounded more angry. i try to forget but i can't. Every time i do something wrong i cry, like if i add to much sauce, i cry, if i fail at sports, i cry, if i get lower than A in something, i cry. i can't look at him without thinking he is gonna yell at me even now and he never yells at me.

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.


    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Concern Addressed in This Segment:

    Sleep is an unavoidable need for our body and mind.
    As I might have told you before, I won't take naps because I have gotten some pretty strong nightmares.
    It can be really hard to get past those sometimes, so I was wondering two things for those who out there also suffer from nightmares.
    Do you have any advice on how to calm yourself down enough and find the courage to try sleeping again?
    Since I know for many the way to cope is to not sleep until the next absolutely unavoidable time.
    Do you have any advice on how to not get nightmares? A dream catcher worked for me until it was lost when we moved. Do you have any ideas?

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.


    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Thanks for listening to Don't Worry Wednesday!

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.

    Concern addressed in this segment:

    I've recently been getting picked on a good bit at school by this boy, and I'm friends with his best friend. I honestly don't know how to react when he is being rude and want to be friends with him.

    ~Rosey Julz

    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Thanks for listening to Don't Worry Wednesday!

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.

    Concern addressed in this segment:

    I've been dating this girl online for about a year now. We've gotten really close, but recently she kinda disappeared. I keep getting really depressed (I don't like using that word), lonely and tired all the time. I hate it. I keep having horrible thoughts like maybe she hates me or she died. I'm not sure. It scares me. Any help?

    ~Spring

    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Thanks for listening to Don't Worry Wednesday!

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.

    Concern addressed in this segment:

    I kinda asked this girl out, and we said we may go out. Then someone else asked her out and she said no to him. I don't want to seem like a bad person... Should I wait to go for her or ask her straight out?

    ~Yoyikemilk Athiest

    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Thanks for listening to Don't Worry Wednesday!

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.

    Concern addressed in this segment:

    I have a vision impairment and my friend has albinism. We are very close, but she is getting depressed about it.

    Can you give me any advice to help her?

    ~Ryan Ingham

    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Thanks for listening to Don't Worry Wednesday!

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.

    Concern addressed in this segment:

    "so i have a problem:

    I've had this really good friend for like 4 years and just recently he got a girlfriend and he has kinda just pushed me aside...

    Like we almost never do stuff together anymore and im kinda feeling bad about it :/

    and i don't really know what to do..."

    ~Nilas Norregaard


    Segment from Livestream 5/9/17


    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio

  • Thanks for listening to Don't Worry Wednesday!

    ***We are not professional therapists, and our content is not a substitute for professional counseling.
    We simply offer some friendly perspective and encouragement for people as they go through difficult times.

    Concern addressed in this segment:

    "...There's an acquaintance of mine that likes to study with me. However, I don't really have a work ethic when I'm with them. It's not like I don't like helping them, but they tend to overstay their welcome, and I'm not quite sure how to communicate this."

    ~Princess Yellow


    Segment from Livestream 5/9/17


    Don't Worry Wednesday

    Ryan Seewald (Static-P)
    Joe Anderson (CDVNL)

    Livestream produced by Jesse VanSlyke
    Edited by Joe Anderson

    ~a Black Static and Swerve Production~
    https://bss.studio